THE MOMENTUM OF LIFE

Today could be one step forward and two steps back. Tomorrow may be full throttle ahead without waver. 

 

We can learn to go with the flow when needed but there will also be times we must fight tooth and nail because we know it is necessary. 

 

We can hold ourselves back because of worries.  We fear the unknown but damn it, we move forward anyway.

 

There are days that the flow is carefree. We enjoy the ride and float with energy because it is taking us exactly where we want to go.  We enjoy what life teaches and wish for more of the same.  In many cases this energy force can carry forward and begin to affect many areas of life in positive terms.  Our focus now becomes more attracted to the good things in life as life seems to present its selves in this way.

 

Life’s momentum changes over a lifetime many times.  We accept what life sends our way and maneuver our way forward.  Some days are easy. Some other days are battles because we must fight or alternatively we resist, we fear, we hide. 

 

Do not get overwhelmed. All things pass. Life’s momentum can and will shift. If it is difficult today, know that it will change but learn the lesson in the meantime. If it is smooth-flowing today, appreciate and take time to enjoy.

 

We walk our road in solitude although others walk beside us.  Focus is everything. The momentum of life is forever changing. Enjoy and appreciate the ride, whatever it may be.

TO BE OR NOT TO BE

“To be or not to be”.  Apparently that is the answer. 

 

Do you choose to be yourself or are you committed to being what others expect you to be? 

 

You can be whomever you wish to be and believing this opens the door to exploration of who you are. 

 

When you meet someone new, do you hide your true self, or do you allow your true self to shine loud and clear?

 

As we age, we become more comfortable in our own skin. We learn to accept who we are, but we certainly can stay open to making changes.  I have heard some say they don’t give a damn what others think.  Others are quite aware of how they present themselves to others and make changes according to each person they meet.

 

There can be high expectations under some circumstances. We are on our best behaviours during a job interview, for example.

 

Some individuals may not clearly understand what we mean when we said “You can be whomever you wish to be”.  The person you wish you could be already exists -- living within.  You wouldn’t recognize these traits or this personality if it did not already exist. Allow these traits to shine through.

 

If you take an honest, deep look at who you are (in this very moment), and you are comfortable with that person, what needs to change? 

 

If you take an honest, deep look at who you are and you are not comfortable with that person, why not make some changes?

 

Be comfortable with YOU!

 

If you ask ten people to describe who you are, you will get ten different answers.  So do not change to appease other, make changes because you wish to make them for yourself.

 

To be or not to be is not the question.  To be you, to be comfortable with you is the solution; to be something that someone else wants is out of the question. That is the not to be!

 

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LIMITATIONS IN LIFE

More often than not, we have to accept our limitations. There is much we cannot change (with the exception of our attitude). With some situations, we can change things to a degree, but life’s course seems to have a destination in mind.

 

We must have faith in the process, accepting on some level that what lies ahead is the path that we are meant to take.

 

We are seldom in control of the winds of change. Change is guaranteed so do not get too comfortable with where you sit today. There are always influences beyond our control so be flexible and open minded.

 

Sometimes the shift feels favorable, other times the shift feels very uncomfortable. We, more often than not, become concerned and anxious with the unknown or change which only create a less than desirable experience. 

 

We can learn to move with the wind and let it carry us forward.

 

Remember, without change, we stagnate! 

 

The unknown can be frightening. Even when the future looks promising, there can be a feeling of concern because we do not know what to expect. 

 

When life seems to dictate, adjust by not fighting the process unless a fight is warranted and can make a difference. On some level, we will benefit no matter what the outlook, either by actual changes for the better or by experiences that teach us valuable lessons.

 

The only thing we have full control over is our attitude towards what is happening. We must process each step in life, feel the energies or learn the lessons. We can react or we can act. We can hold on to struggle or we can accept. We will not escape our life lessons, but we can control our inner dialogue and how we relate to what unfolds. 

 

What limitations in life are you creating?

 

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ITS NOT ON YOU

It is important to take ownership of our actions. In some circumstances, however, the actions of others directly influence those with little or no choice but be affected.

 

In many cases, it takes two to tango, so the saying goes. If it is two parties taking action or acting out, then both parties need to take responsibility for what has taken hold. 

 

It is also important to realize that you act for yourself.  It is just as important to recognize that it is not up to you to push someone else to make changes.  They must make their own decisions to take appropriate actions. We cannot force others to make changes to themselves or corrections to their actions. It can be frustrating to watch someone close being hurtful towards others (including you) or themselves.

 

Sometimes, people shoulder the blame for things they did not do or had no control over. How often do we overthink events and struggle to come up with alternative actions we could have taken to change an outcome that is already in the past (an outcome we had no decision in creating)? 

 

“If only I had made a phone call that day then Charlie (or some other loved one) may not have been in the car at that precise moment of impact” is a perfect example.  The events of life are not yours to own.

 

Remember, it is not always on you but take ownership when it is. Everyone is responsible for their own actions and choices. Stop blaming yourself when it is not your fault and carrying the weight of others. It is not on you! Have self-compassion and set clearer boundaries.

 

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THIS TOO WILL PASS

Nothing remains the same.  Even those individuals that life appears to flow easily and without incident experience change even if it is not evident to outsiders.  Change is guaranteed for one and all.

 

During times of uncertainty, it is important to understand that even though we may experience our own specific changes on our own, there are others that understand and have been through the same experience, no matter what the circumstances might be. Reach out to others, if not for their input, then for their support and knowing. 

 

There will be times when we feel as though there are no solutions and nowhere to turn but there is always a solution which could be as simple as a change of attitude or focus. Others can offer resourceful alternatives but ultimately, we must make the decision on how to move forward.  We are always equipped with the answers to any issue but there are times others can nurture a seed we previously forgot to nurture. 

 

The world situation is stressful to some. Uncertainty can cause anxiety and worry. It is hard to move forward when you do not know all of the circumstances of the situation. Once we realize that worry and anxiety only create more issues, we can begin to accept that life lessons are inevitable. If we are open and flexible, we will learn these lessons with more ease. Acceptance (that they are happening) is often a solution to these situations, and although nothing changes, our attitude begins to shift, and the weight is not as heavy.  

 

Our focus is what is important. If we focus on being a victim, we will remain a victim.  If we focus on being a survivor, we survive and move forward.  There is a common resolution to all problems and that is our attitude towards what is taking place.

 

We have the necessary tools to conquer all anxiety and fear, but we cannot use that tool until we recognize it is there. Change your pattern of thinking. This situation is NOT insurmountable. We will learn from lessons and this too will pass. Be aware of your focus and attitude. You have the ability to overcome and always have had it.

 

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UPS AND DOWNS

Maneuvering your way through life’s ups and downs takes courage and perseverance.  As you become “accustomed” to life’s lessons, you begin to find ways of to adjust and allow life’s unpredictable moments without great stress.  You become more knowledgeable through experience with these challenges (and uplifting experience) and learned ways to manage.  The experience you gain because of these difficulties helps you with your journey through this life.

 

You seldom truly enjoy the lessons but without them you would not have gained the insight, strength, and abilities you now have.  At some point, you begin to realize that because of these lessons, you can learn future lessons easier as well as help others simply because you have had similar experiences. 

 

When, on the contrary, you go through periods of wonderment and joy, you learn to dance and celebrate.  You are uplifted and enjoy what these events offer.  Some feel that these are rewards for all your hard work and others believe that it is just the road you walk at that moment.  Whatever you believe, appreciate these times and experience them to the fullest.  Life is magical, if you have that attitude.

 

Life has its ups and downs. Trust in the ebb and flow, for it is through this rhythm that you grow and evolve. It is part of the process and creates balance.  Life is a mystery and there is much to experience as you make your way forward.

 

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A NEW START

Even with a new start we carry forward many different facets of our previous life.  You may decide that you want to leave everything behind, but memories, for instance, stay with us. In some cases, memories can bring a sense of comfort and relief, and in other cases, memories can be a source of pain and anxiety. 

 

What do you want to hang on to and what do you want to leave behind?

 

What does your new start entail and what will it bring? 

 

Some of us fear change while others relish change.  Fear is a result of the unknown and expectations and in most cases, what we worry about never surfaces. 

 

Perhaps, it’s best not to be overly concerned about what lies ahead (our destination) and focus on the journey itself.  Anticipation, fear and anxiety are not the ideal travel partners.

 

When we start a new journey, that new journey is required or we wouldn’t have taken the first step to begin it. This may not always be evident to everyone but that is how life works.  We move along at our own speed and people, life lessons, experiences, etc. come and go as they are needed.

 

A new start can bring opportunities for growth or advancement and put you in line for unexpected events that will bring you much joy, excitement and growth. 

 

If we feel it is time for a new journey, it IS time! Allow for growth even if it is uncomfortable. See and experience what life wants to teach us. 

 

The beauty of the unknown awaits. Plan a new start and allow life to be an interesting adventure. There’s beauty at every turn and insight along every path. Forget the destination and celebrate your journey.

 

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STARTS WITH ME

This post has nothing to do with me personally; it is about you starting with you. 

 

You hold the key to your personal success story.  You are the one you can count on and the one to guide you through anything.  There is no one better equipped to handle any situation.  Even if you seek personal assistance, others plant a seed (one from a perspective you may not have considered), but it will be you that makes the decisions and takes the action to nurture that seed.  No one else controls your destiny even when it appears that way.

 

If someone has control over your decision making, it means that you have agreed to let that person take the reins.  Even if you are against what they are insisting upon, and you feel as though you have no say in the matter, it is you that has decided you have no say. 

 

If someone else rules over you then perhaps you need to make a stand or step away.  If you are afraid of that individual, perhaps you should remove yourself from their presences. Obtain assistance, if need be, to feel safe.

 

Make no mistake, you are in control. If you don’t believe this, it might be time to have a second look at what your mind is telling you and what you have decided to adhere too. 

 

If it is your mind controlling you (which it is), remind yourself that you are not a slave to your thoughts. You are the ones listening to the thoughts. Your thoughts are fickle.  They will adapt to whatever is appropriate for the moment.  Take quitting smoking for example.  Pay attention to the absurd excuses your mind will give you to make your think it is okay to just have one cigarette.

 

Be strong in whatever you want to commit to. Ignore that chatter and excuses your thoughts will throw at you. You are in control of your life if you decide to take control.  Reminder yourself, “it starts with me”!

 

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LIFE IS YOUR PLAYGROUND

Life was full of amazing adventures when we were children. We never worried about tomorrow and lived completely in the moment.  Life was our playground, and every day was filled with excitement and wonder.  We lived on the edge of our seat and experienced each moment in full emotion, yet no emotion was long lived.

 

We were completely enveloped in each moment and some moments were joyful while others were engulfed with disappointment but always filled with anticipation.  We didn’t know what was next, but we built on each moment and explored each avenue.

 

Now as an adult, life still is our playground if we decide not to be at the mercy of our thoughts, and we allow ourselves to stay in the moment. Wonder and excitement can continue to be a part of our adult life. We can still have fun and explore life while living in the here and now. Embrace the wonder (just as you did as a child) without being overly concerned about where life might take us (because we will go there with or without worry). 

 

Live your life just as a child would, enjoying and truly experiencing the moment AND just as you did as a child, let go and move forward especially when life throws its lessons at us, presenting us with things that we would prefer not to experience but valuable lessons, nonetheless. 

 

Attitude is the remedy and focus creates. Life will still happen, so focus on the wonder and beauty as life is your playground.  Look at all that is in front of you with fresh eyes, with a new perspective, with wonderment. Remember to play!

 

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BEGIN ANEW

Many of us begin the New Year with a New Year’s resolution.  We decide to make changes based on what needs transformation and what we left undone from the previous year.  We really do not have to wait for the New Year to make such commitments; however, many of us take the time to contemplate and recalibrate at the beginning of a new calendar year.

 

In many cases, what we decide to bring forward or leave behind does not always last.  Some of the things we decide to alternate can be very difficult to maintain and if we don’t succeed, we often feel as though we are weak or do not have the staying power to accomplish what we set out to do.  Perhaps the timing is wrong, or were our goals too hard to put into place all at once? 

 

Perhaps if we fail, we can begin again and tackle our goal in smaller implements?

 

If we stumble, we don’t have to call it quits. Our so called “failure” may be the perfect driving force pushing us to complete our objectives if we look at it that way.  Don’t give in and give up.  Just because we stumbled does not mean we have to stay down. Anything worth accomplishing might take a few (or many) attempts before we make it through to fruition.  Perhaps a little more time or a little more effort is all we need.

 

The only one holding you back is you. Listen to your self-encouragement but disregard the negative feedback your mind wants to share with you. Don’t forget that “you are not your mind” but the one listening to the thoughts.  You don’t have to own them.  Listen to the positive, encouraging thoughts. Take the information gained from the lessons when you stumbled and disregard the rest.

 

We must believe in ourselves! If we truly dig in with determination we can reach our goals. Take baby steps and set reachable goals, one step at a time.  Each step brings us closer to our larger goals.  One step at a time. 

 

It takes courage to move forward, but we can do it. Begin anew with focus and determination!

 

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