OBLIGATIONS AS A PARENT

Our children are our children regardless of their age.  We will always be Mom or Dad to our kids, although as we age, the gap certainly begins to shrink.  In some cases, our children become our best friends, after all they have been with us since their beginning.

 

As they mature into themselves, it is important to remember that as we made our way through adversity and learned valuable lessons so will our children.  We are their parents but, at some point, we must step back, trust in the seeds we planted and let them learn through life’s experience and their own judgement.

 

This can be a very difficult task, as we feel we must advise and help in whatever way we can.  Reassure them that we are always there for them. The lessons they learn through experience are the most valuable and the ones that they remember. 

 

Do you remember when your parents tried to advise you? 

 

Most of us felt they were out of touch and interfering.  Your children will likely feel the same way.

 

We do have obligations as parents and we do our best.

 

The world they are growing up in is different from the one we grew up in. Life was easier on some levels and also more challenging on other levels.  

 

Be the example they need. Nothing speaks louder.

 

Remember you are human. If you made mistakes when they were young, acknowledge the mistakes and then let go.

 

Every day is a learning experience. Our obligations as a parent are to teach by example and to love and reassure them that we care. They too will make mistakes just as we did. Forgive them and forgive yourself.

 

This article is not AI generated.

 

#astrology #HolmAstrology #BarrieAstrologer #OntarioAstrologer #spirituality #spiritualjourney #inthemoment #schooloflife #lifelessons #lifesjourney #parenting #obligations #ObligationsAsParents #beinganexample #lifelessons #newblogpost

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our spring registration is now complete.  Watch in the late summer for our registration announcements for our fall courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com

 

Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and X

FREEDOM FROM BONDAGE

We can seek freedom from many different things.  One important freedom is to free ourselves from the bondage of our mind’s interference.  Our mind can get caught up in the past or worry for the future.  We are so trapped in our worries that we forget that our focus amplifies and can become all consuming.  We are so focused on “what ifs” or “has beens” that we forget to live.

 

We continually hash over experiences to the point that they take up permanent residence in our head, and we continually loop over and over again on what was or what might be, much like the movie, Groundhog Day. 

 

We torture ourselves over what we could have done or what we might be able to do. This can also lead to pointing a finger at others and laying blame for events in our lives. Alternatively, we can take responsibility for events that were completely out of our control.  Does this sound familiar?

 

Our bondage stems from our preconceived notions of what we think SHOULD or SHOULD NOT have happened or what might happen in the future.  One suggests we have control issues and the other suggests we worry about potentials.

 

Some people truly do live in their self-made bondage, whether that bondage be mental or physical.

 

The bondage of fear robs us of living. Some of us may be tied to the security of our home environment. Step out and breathe the air of freedom.

 

Some are held in bondage because of the acts of others or life’s circumstances.

 

Can you rise above or break free of your personal bondage? 

 

Do you worry about potential outcomes if you take action? 

 

The unknown can create fear but you are stronger than that fear.

 

Ask yourself if you are supposed to exist under these conditions.  Of course not.  You are here to live!

 

It takes courage but make the choice to live not just exist.  You and you alone must make that decision.  You do not have to do this alone.  Reach out for support or help. Take the first step to freedom from bondage.

 

Break free! You are worth it. Start living!

 

This article is not AI generated.

 

#astrology #HolmAstrology #BarrieAstrologer #OntarioAstrologer #spirituality #spiritualjourney #inthemoment #schooloflife #lifelessons #lifesjourney #attitude #focus #freedomfromBondage #prisonerofyourmind #initiatechange #courage #livelife #newblogpost

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our spring registration is now complete.  Watch in the late summer for our registration announcements for our fall courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com

 

Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and X

TRY, TRY AGAIN

If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again! 

 

Never give up.  Always give it your all.  Some things are worth working or fighting for.  There is satisfaction in knowing that you did your very best even if the outcome was not as planned. 

 

It is important to weigh out the cost (time, effort, value, odds) before committing to something. There are no guarantees in life, but if you don’t try, how do you know?

 

The rewards for a battle well fought usually pays high in dividends.

 

No matter what the goal, working towards a promotion, building a name for yourself, getting more healthy, saving a relationship, if it has value to you, it must be worth the effort!

 

Some things are more important than others. Set your priorities.

 

Obstacles only mean a little more effort. They will test your resilience, but they will teach you valuable lessons.  Life lessons can lead to irreplaceable outcomes.

 

If the cost is too high or the outcome unattainable, walk away!  That is not giving up; it is being accountable.

 

If there is potential for a favorable outcome but it entails hard work, so be it! Try, try again! Many things in life are worth it.  Give it your all. If you fall, get back up! When there’s a will, there’s a way!

 

This article is not AI generated.

 

#astrology #HolmAstrology #BarrieAstrologer #OntarioAstrologer #spirituality #spiritualjourney #inthemoment #schooloflife #lifelessons #lifesjourney #attitude #focus #trytryagain #choices #persistence #experiences #discipline #newblogpost

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our spring registration is now complete.  Watch in the late summer for our registration announcements for our fall courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com

 

Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and X

WITHOUT YOU, THE PUZZLE IS INCOMPLETE

Many of our readers have asked in many different ways how they can make things better.

 

Can one person make a difference?

 

We have talked about the ripple effect on many occasions. One small act can touch countless people.  

 

Currently, people are talking about the stress they are experiencing and the need for change on a deep level. We have heard that the world around us currently looks grim leaving many feeling anxiety and despair.

 

We can do our part to change the world for the better, even if in ways that feel minute.

 

Currently, we see and experience the effects of war but there is also much going on beneath the surface too.  The struggles we experience take a toll on each one of us in different ways.  Some hold on and keep everything inside, others react externally while others, through their discomfort, can, intentionally or unintentionally, cause difficulties for others.  We become enveloped in stress and anxiety by taking on the energies around us, both from people and from our judgement of their actions.

 

Is this a turning point or transition period globally? 

 

It certainly feels like it.  We are at the precipice of change.  Transition is always painful as we make way for the change.  Those with influence should take a leading role in making life better for those around them, pressing for peace and safety. 

 

What can one individual do to push for peace?  I’d love to hear your suggestions.

 

Don’t think that you and your little piece of the puzzle won’t or cannot influence the whole.  Without you, the puzzle is incomplete. You and your contributions are needed. Will you influence peace, hunger, isolation, loneliness, ………..?

 

#astrology #HolmAstrology #BarrieAstrologer #OntarioAstrologer #spirituality #spiritualjourney #inthemoment #schooloflife #lifelessons #lifesjourney #attitude #focus #influence #influencer #change #initiatechange #contribute #newblogpost

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our spring registration is now complete.  Watch in the late summer for our registration announcements for our fall courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com

 

Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and X

ASPIRATIONS AND GOALS

At what age do we begin setting goals for ourselves? 

 

Some begin very early in life to set financial goals, others wait until later and some never aspire to creating a “nest egg”.

 

Most of us wish to be comfortable, at the very least. It is quite normal to set goals for financial success. However, when setting these goals we must make sure that we are not coming from a place of shortages and that we are not becoming obsessed with the need for more.

 

We live in a material world, so there it is expected that we set these goals. However, should material achievements be our only goals?

 

We do not have to be fixated on material aspirations.  We can also choose spiritual or metaphysical ambitions. When we search for our spiritual connection (whatever spirituality may mean to you), we realize that this is not something that we need to seek, because it is already a part of who we are.  Look within and we can recognize that connection. Many of our readers have mentioned that they do not feel worthy of this connection and the reasons behind this vary immensely from person to person.

 

Knowing that our belief structure expands with focus, we need to pay attention to our beliefs, our expectations, our focus.  These will build and more will come your way. Focus is key. We need to regularly review our beliefs and expectations.  Are they advantageous?

 

Let’s keep our minds open. The only limitations are the ones that we put on ourselves.  We can focus on opening our minds as well as letting go, practicing and allowing. It gets easier with disciplined effort. 

 

Our thoughts, aspirations and goals have ripple effects.  We mold our reality with our belief structure and focus. What is possible?

 

#astrology #HolmAstrology #BarrieAstrologer #OntarioAstrologer #spirituality #spiritualjourney #inthemoment #schooloflife #lifelessons #goals #aspirations #lifesjourney #attitude #focus #metaphysics #newblogpost

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our spring registration is now complete.  Watch in the late summer for our registration announcements for our fall courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com

 

Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and X

IT’S ALL OR NOTHING

There are times you just have to go for it.

 

You have spent countless hours contemplating and now you realize that the moment has come for you to advance.  You feel it. It IS the time.

 

Give it your all and don’t back off, not even for a moment.

 

For each of us, this focus will be a different one. No matter what the focus, push through any adversity and forge ahead.

 

You may have been waiting for a long time, and something has held you back.  Was it fear?

 

Do not step on others to get there. Karma is real. This is not about revenge or getting even, life looks after that. It’s about just reward, doing the right thing, and letting life take you to where you are supposed to be.

 

Fear can hold you back, but do not let it!

 

Move forward armed with information, with positivity and the best intensions. You can do this with or without assistance.

 

Who will benefit?

 

Take care of yourself but if you can incorporate benefits for others, that is much more rewarding.  Listen to your intuition. Step forward with hope and compassion.

 

It is important to pursue your dreams and goals. Are you ready? Get set……go! It’s all or nothing. Give it your all and reap the rewards.

 

#astrology #HolmAstrology #BarrieAstrologer #OntarioAstrologer #spirituality #spiritualjourney #inthemoment #schooloflife #lifelessons #goals #giveityourall #lifesjourney #attitude #focus #dreams #pursueyourdreams #newblogpost

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? We are now accepting registration for our Spring courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com

 

Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and X

ROCK AND ROLL WITH LIFE

When challenges arise, we need to know when to fight and when to let go.  Some circumstances are worth the fight, but others will simply wear us down and over time create more adversity and less peace in our lives if we do not let go. 

 

Ask yourself, “is this worth fighting for?” 

 

Can I change what is happening; if so “how”? 

Some fight more for their ideals when we are young; others fight when they are more mature and less likely to ride the conformist train.  There are some who will never fight for whatever reasons they believe a fight is not worth the outcome.  Where do you fit in?

 

Age (whatever that age may be) sometimes defines when we are ready to make changes, but in general, life can dictate when change will take place.

 

Life events can stir us into action or force us to retreat.  To a degree, we are at the mercy of life events, but at the same time, we control our own actions and reactions. 

 

Sometimes we need to rock and roll with life; roll with the punches and at times rock the foundation we stand on.

 

#astrology #HolmAstrology #BarrieAstrologer #OntarioAstrologer #spirituality #spiritualjourney #inthemoment #schooloflife #psychic #OracleReadings #lifelessons #change #lifesjourney #resolution #rockandrollwithlife #fightforyourrights #fightforchange #acceptchange #allow #newblogpost

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Watch for announcements in late winter for registrations for our spring courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com

 

Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings 

 

Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and X