Each of us has had troubles in life. Why then do you feel uncomfortable about making decisions, believing in yourself, taking the next step?
Why do you
fall into the grips of self-defeating ideologies?
Many people
seek confidence from outside sources but this must come from within.
Confidence
is a building process. It does not happen overnight. It has taken our lifetime
to reach our current state and it can take time and patience to start a new
building process. Step one is to recognize that the only one that can truly
help you is you. Others can help plant seeds but ultimately it is up to you to
nurture the germination and growth.
Outside
influences can and will influence you but you are the one that decides to hold
on to what took place or to learn from the experience and release the
energies. To hold on and own an
experience can and will influence your happiness and peace.
Identifying
what you are holding on to can be your step two. Do not allow past experiences to
stop you from moving forward and living life to its fullest. Holding on to past
experiences includes holding on to your attitude and expectations created from
these experiences. You are meant to learn from experiences but not meant to
take up residence there. You can’t ignore or pretend that events did not
happen. Ignoring is giving the event energy. You are adding to this because you
are still thinking about these matters through you effort to ignore.
Accept,
process and then release. Move on and be
in the moment.
You are not
your thoughts; you are the one listening to them. The mind is much like a
computer, and it only holds what you program into it. Be patient with yourself.
With continued effort you will see yourself through difficult lessons. The key
is to recognize non-productive thoughts. Remain steadfast in your practice and
believe in yourself.
Remember
the universe, God, life ….call it whatever you want…does not judge what you focus
on, it just provides more of like energy. Focus on lacking and you will feel as
though life is lacking. Focus on abundance and life will be abundant. The
choice is yours.
Visit www.holmastrology.com for more
information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.
Holm
Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more
information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings
Are
you interested in learning Astrology?.
We will be offering a course in the Spring. Watch for details then.
Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course
details.
Please
“Like” us on Facebook. Your “shares” are appreciated and your
questions are welcomed.
If you
have confidential comments or questions, or if you would like to speak to us
concerning the preparation of a chart, please visit www.holmastrology.com/contact-us