With all of the challenged associated with
losing someone near and dear, it is important to experience all of the feelings
and emotions linked to death. It is not
uncommon to want to escape these feelings but so important to experience
them. It is certainly feels torturous at times to allow
these emotions to surface and it seems much easier just to bury these intense
feels and try to avoid the experience.
In reality, we cannot run from these emotions and eventually, we must
meet them head on.
It is difficult accepting the loss of a
loved one, especially those that we define as untimely. Sometimes it is hard to understand the “why”
behind some life events, but if you allow the rational of our higher self, we
will understand that it is the choice of the soul to leave this earthly experience
when they do. Regardless of how it
happens, the timing is correct; and they are ready to move on to the next level
of experience.
We can be greatly troubled by these events
and some of us hang on to the loss far longer than others. By holding on, we experience grief at a
heightened level which continually affects us emotionally. As a result of extended emotional stress, dis-ease
can and will eventually play havoc on all of us, mentally, physically or
both.
Our loved ones that have now passed into
the next realm would undoubtedly want us to experience our grief, let go and
then move forward. They do not want us
to experience any more pain than necessary to allow and let go.
If we accept that there is life beyond our
earthly existence that is awaiting us all and that death is actually just the
passage from one form of life into another, it will assist us in letting go. We then can go inside and listen to our inner
voice and our guides to hear the messages we need to move forward. Our loved ones are never far off and will reassure
us of this in their own particular way.
When we are ready, we will recognize that they are communicating with us.
These forms of communication can be
challenging and we might only get tidbits of information coming through. It will be on a level that is very subdued
compared to our earthly communication. Through
acceptance and “living”, we will eventually come to terms with their passing
over and on some level will move forward with our lives. We will eventually come to terms with the
agony of the experience and we will recover, at our own individual speed.
Letting go is the challenge but is inevitable.
If we allow, we will recover from each of
life’s experiences. Love always prevails. In order to experience happiness once again,
we must let life take us in whatever direction we are suppose to go. With our future at hand and the eternal now
always here, we will find our way. Believe
that we will once again be content and happy.
Have faith in your journey.
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