It is very refreshing when our moments are filled with promise and tenderness. How fortunate we are that we make times for
reflection and to watch the unfolding of dreams coming true. It is so pleasant to release control and to
focus on the actual perfection in each and every moment in life.
We cannot hold on to events for this only
creates longing but we can certainly reflect and appreciate the blessings that they
brought. We can appreciate the constant
change in life and realize that it was our focus on the positive aspects of
these events that created the wonder that we experienced.
Even the best of events in life will not
feel positive if we look at the situation in a negative focus. When we drift off into a negative attitude or
focus, we can get caught up in that focus.
If we choose a positive focus, even the most testing of situations will
have positive highlights. Forgetting our
positive intentions and holding on to challenging conditions can and will
reduce our appreciation of the learning opportunities we are provided
with.
Some believe that life is always in balance
and we cannot have celebratory times without experiencing struggle. Without struggle we would not appreciate the
easy flow. We would take it for
granted. How do you feel about this?
We believe that the harder lessons in life
are the ones we really learn from but we do not have to look at lessons in a
negative light. They are wonderful
stepping stones to our development. How
can this be a negative experience?
Life unfolds as it should even during the
times that we feel we are challenged. Our
ongoing reaction to life events is key to our experience. Too many of us get caught up in our focus of misery
and despair when we are pushes in directions we really do not want to go in. Our attitude towards this direction is our
only enemy. If we travel this path
expecting events to get worse, our expectations will be answered so let’s
expect the best outcome possible. It is
to our benefit.
During times of stress and anxiety it is
difficult to turn our thinking around when we have practiced “a negative
outlook” for most of our lives. What can
we do to challenge this attitude? To
start, we cannot lay blame on others for the events in our lives. We must take responsibility for our lives. We can grab the bull by the horns and start
controlling our reaction to life. We can
take action and make the necessary changes mentally so that we can appreciate
each and every event we experience.
If we choose to look at life as though it
is only going to get worse, we are guaranteed that this will evolve. If we choose to look at life as though it is
filled with miracles and will continue to improve, we will be rewarded with
this outcome. Which outcome do you
prefer?
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