Most individuals experience a mid-life
turning point at ages 38-44. This is an evolutionary process where we move from
early adulthood into a more evolved individual, an individual who should be
fairly comfortable with whom they are.
This is a time when we are restructuring our association with ourselves
on a more profound level. A sense of
individuality is occurring at a rapid pace, due to the major influences taking
place in our lives. We are experiencing
transiting Saturn in trine to its natal position and Neptune in square to its
natal position which signifies inner transformations and a realistic approach
to who we truly are.
There may even be a feeling of urgency with
our quest in life. Our ego and the ongoing
search for “who am I?” are undergoing alterations especially for those individuals
that feel they need answers. There is no
formal training when it comes to what many term as their midlife crisis. No one can say they are prepared,
particularly because no one knows exactly what to expect. Each individual goes through their own
personal experience and then an awakening takes place. This is a time of great soul searching and a
desire for inner change which often coincides with outer change, as one affects
and reflects the other.
The body is also undergoing physical
changes during this time, and those who have placed too much attention on
physical appearance may become depressed with what they are starting to see in
the mirror. Many will go deep within to
find out what they actually have to offer, as the appearance has been held in
an elevated position most of their lives and now they must look for something
with more meaning to feel good about themselves. The ego is actually in a somewhat delicate
state, as the inner self gains supremacy and control, at least for those who
are searching for something more.
This is often considered a turning point as
we truly begin to question who we are
and relentlessly search for answers.
Many turn to deeper subjects such as astrology and the mystical side of
life, furthering their pursuit, hoping to find some answers to some truly
profound questions. This is an awakening
stage as many who have been wrapped up in the material world feel empty, and
now they want greater meaning in their lives.
Doors that have been boarded up are now
beginning to open and a deep restlessness is awakening within. The search continues and those longing for
answers begin to question their existence which opens the channels from within
and enables a more intimate contact with the inner self. The process has begun, as we raise our
consciousness and continue on with our mission.
At age 42 we are also experiencing the
Uranus opposition with itself. This
intensifies the search and often one reaches for something new to bring to the
forefront of life. Some reach out for
radical solutions and this is when people become bored with life and want
something that is exciting and exhilarating.
There is a bit of eccentricity entering the personality. Many find this new individual reaching out in
need of satisfaction beyond the normal confines of life, a bit erratic and
different.
These life expressions are often received
on short notice and one makes untimely changes that will affect those around
them. This is often quite disruptive for
family members that are used to life being steady and remaining solid and
secure. Some can leave their marriage
partners and start a new life. In many
cases the change is sudden and comes without much warning. If this time is drawing nearer, we should be
ready for change and transformation as this is a very intense period. Be ready for disruption to the norm and
change. Be prepared to welcome in the
new.
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