Were you ever told when you were young to
pick your friends wisely as you become what you friends are?
Those that you surround yourself with will
certainly have an impact on you. Not
only do others affect us on a mental level, they can also have a bearing on our
overall health. This is not to say that
the person who you invite over for coffee and a simple chat will greatly influence
your physical conditioning, but they will have an effect on your overall being
for that particular moment in time. It
will, of course, be in your hands just how much of an impact you allow them to have
on you.
You may find that they have important
information that resonated with you on a deep level and you may choose to utilize
the information offered. You will hold
some of the dialogue in your conscious mind and you will also retain some of
this information on a subconscious level.
Alternatively, you may decide that the conversation held little to no
importance to you and you may decide to let most of it go. How much of that information, however, is unconsciously
retained?
There are individuals, family, friends,
co-workers that we spend many hours with throughout a week. How much influence do they have on us
subconsciously? Their input is quite
significant to our evolving story. Is
their influence positive in nature?
Family members are not always our best
friends and some we may allow to produce much strife in our lives. Do we wish them a loving farewell or are they
part of our lesson to learn to overcome outside influences?
To stay or to go is a very personal
decision. If we are able to block out
their energies or influence, we are doing a great job. Toxic relationships, however, can have an
impact on our overall health. No
relationship should be allowed to rob us of our health and happiness. If you find that your relationships need
altering, have a look at what you can do to facilitate change on some
level. Remember, however, you cannot
change someone else. If change is to be
made, it is up to you to make the adjustment.
If you have done all you can and the relationship is not improving, it
is important to understand that you can only change yourself and your
outlook. You cannot force change on
someone else. If they are not willing to
do the work, you have a decision to make.
On the other side of the coin, there are
those relationships that simply feel good.
You feel wonderful sharing time and energy with these individuals. Hold these relationships close and enjoy the
experience. They may be a passing
encounter or a lifelong blessing. No
matter their length, they are precious.
Each of our various relationships throughout
life will offer many things and on many levels.
Do not take these relationships for granted, regardless of the
challenging conditions that occur from time to time. They are special and we are fortunate to
experience them. Some will be with us for
a life time while others will have to leave far too soon.........in our opinion.
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