THE MIDLIFE CRISIS AGES 38-42

We will be discussing the mid-life turning point at ages 38-44 in this post. This period in life is a normal evolutionary process from early adulthood into a maturing personality.  This is a period when we can reconcile with ourselves, and we should be fairly comfortable with whom we truly are. 

This can be a time when we restructure our association with self on a much more profound level.  A sense of individuality should occur due to the major influences taking place in our lives.  During this age group, we are experiencing transiting Saturn in trine to its natal position and Neptune in square to its natal position.  These signify inner transformations and a realistic approach to who we are. 

There may even be a feeling of urgency with our quests in life.  Our ego and the ongoing search for “who am I?” are undergoing alterations in the consciousness of those individuals that feel they need answers.

There is no formal training when it comes to what many people term “the midlife crisis”.  No one can say they are prepared, particularly because no one knows exactly what to expect.  Each individual goes through their own personal “crisis” (if that is how you want to look at it) and then an awakening takes place.  This is a time of great soul searching and a desire for inner change which often coincides with outer change, as one affects the other.

The body is also undergoing physical changes during this time in our lives, and those who have placed too much attention on their physical appearance may become depressed with what they see in the mirror.  Many individuals will go deep within to find out what they actually have to offer, especially if the physical appearance has been held in an elevated position most of their lives.  The ego is actually in a somewhat delicate state, as the inner self gains supremacy and control, at least for those who are searching for something more.

This is often considered a turning point as we truly begin to question who we are and we relentlessly want answers. 

Many individuals traditionally turn to deeper subjects such as spirituality, Astrology and the mystical side of life, furthering their pursuit, hoping to find some answers to some truly profound questions.  This is an awakening stage as many who have been wrapped up in the material world and have came up empty, now want greater meaning in their lives.

Doors that have been locked are now beginning to open and a deep restlessness is awakening within.  The search continues and those longing for answers begin to question their existence and open the channel from within to make a more intimate contact with the inner self.  The process has begun, as we raise our consciousness and continue on with our mission.

At age 42, we are also experiencing the Uranus opposition with itself.  This intensifies the search and often we reach for something new to bring to the forefront of life.  Some reach out for radical solutions and this is when people become bored with life and want something that is exciting and exhilarating.  There is a bit of an eccentric influence arising from the personality.  Many find this new individual reaching to find some satisfaction beyond the normal material influences in life....things that may be a bit erratic and different.

These life expressions often come to light on short notice and we make untimely changes that will affect us personally and those around us.  This is often quite disruptive for family members that are accustom to life being steady, solid and secure. 

Some individuals may leave their marriage partners and start a new life. In many cases the change is sudden and comes without much warning. 

We can never prepare ourselves for what might take place but we can know that change is inevitable.  A transformation will take place and this period can certainly be intense. 

Be ready to welcome in the new, whatever that “new” may look like.

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ALLOWING PEOPLE THEIR SPACE

We all need time to process events that take place in our lives.  There are times when we experience traumatic events that even those that are very close to us have no concept of what we are truly experiencing internally.  Sometimes we just need time to adjust or to process the information. 

There are many good-hearted people that will want to assist us during these times.  They may know just the right words to say to plant the most appropriate seeds for our healing process.

If we happen to be that helping hand and truly feel compassion for someone else, letting them know that we are there for them might be enough for that particular moment.  Perhaps they may not want to talk right now but will in the future.  Even when our intentions are good, they are not always wanted and that is perfectly okay.

We cannot allow our egos to be part of the equation if we have been shut down when we offer assistance.  A loving heart and compassionate ear is irreplaceable. 

Most of us intuitively know what is appropriate and will be guided if we listen to our inner voice when we are being supportive. 

Listening to our inner voice also applies to those individuals who are experiencing the life event.  Follow your instincts and listen to the nudges you receive; then move accordingly.  If you feel space is required, it is always the perfect time to step back and allow. 

A simple reminder to anyone that they are loved can be very supportive and their knowing that you are available if and when they need you is invaluable.

Kindness never fails whether we see the fruits of its labour or not. 

Respectfully follow your instincts and allow your intuition to lead.

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SUN IN LEO - JULY 22, 2019

The Sun moves into the noble sign of Leo at 10:51 p.m. EDT on July 22, 2019.  Leo is symbolically linked to the Lion....the king of the jungle. 

Those individuals with strong Leo tendencies in their birth chart certainly wish to have some reign over their personal kingdom.  They are proud and charismatic individuals, who will be noticed when they make an entrance.  They are leaders (seldom followers) and wish to help those around them by organizing life so that it flows gracefully and accommodating. 

Leo is the sign of the actor and they are inclined towards the dramatic yet their intensions are honorable and always for the betterment of those individuals that they touch.  They truly want to be of help although they also have a tendency to take over situations.  They like to rule over matters and often believe that they know what is best for others.  In many cases, this might be true but there are others, such as a typical Aries or Capricorn, that feel quite comfortable leading their own lives and making their own decisions.  The classic Leo will have to learn when it is appropriate to advance their intentions and when they should just sit back and allow.

A Leo individual is a kind-hearted soul, who is ruled by their heart, and although quite ambitious and certain of themselves, they will listen to advice every now and then.  After which, they will make up their own mind on how to respond to the advice. 

Leo’s are driven to succeed and maneuver their way up the ladder of success regardless of what personal success looks like to them.  They don’t like ridicule and resent those that do not pay homage to what they are trying to do.  They like rewards and recognition and can be hurt when no reaction comes from all their hard work.

Those with their Sun in Leo (in the middle degrees) will have Jupiter, which is in Sagittarius, trine to their Sun sign position in the near future (check an ephemeris to locate the position of Jupiter through its transit).  Jupiter moves into Capricorn in December and makes a quincunx then to the early degree Sun in Leo.  Jupiter while in trine offers up opportunities and easy flow to those that their Astrology charts line up with this trine aspect.  Jupiter often produces good luck, growth in a positive sense especially linked to goals and aspirations and promotes higher learning sometimes attached to religious or spiritual inclinations already inherent in the individual. 

The Sun/Jupiter connection is a positive aspect and in many cases the flow runs easily.  Those with this aspect will have to do little in order for things to work in their favour.  It is always suggested, however, that we apply some push in order to reach higher heights of success.

There will be times of adjustments for those with their Sun in the later degrees of Leo due to the placement of Jupiter when it moves into Capricorn and also for those in the earlier degrees.  The ones with the later degree Sun will deal with the combined energies of Pluto and Saturn in early 2020 which might stir up quite the uprising.  Much will depend on the houses (areas of life) being affected and the degree of your Sun as to what will be affected and what you can do with the energies. 

Regardless of challenge, any aspect can work out favourably and Astrology points out the best approach to dealing with both the positive energies and the lessons to be learned.  With the right information, we can propel ourselves ahead in leaps and bounds.

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TRANSITING URANUS TRINE NATAL URANUS

Transiting Uranus has an 84 year cycle.  In other words it takes Uranus approximately 84 years to circulate the Zodiac and move back to its original position at the time of your birth.  During this cycle, Uranus trines its natal position twice (in a life time).  Uranus’ first contact by trine is around the age 28 closely aligning with your first Saturn return, and the second will be at age 56, which is a couple of years prior to your second Saturn return.  Both of these positions will vary from individual to individual primarily because of the location of transiting Uranus as well as Natal Uranus by house position.

The first trine of Uranus to Uranus is significant because of the massive changes that occur due to the trine but also because of the Saturn return.  The Trine to Uranus initiates a desire for change and the want to break free, (begin anew or start over) so that we can utilize the experiences learned through life to that point. 

Uranus wants to shake things up and a trine usually suggests affirmative changes and a desire to break free from the influence of our parents and sometimes our peer group because this time is often referred to as the transition from young adult to a more mature individual wanting to meet their personal responsibilities.

We will want to be able to do the things we want to do and be able to express ourselves more precisely more now than at any other time prior to this period. 

With the Saturn return quickly at the heels of this trine to Uranus, responsibilities are sure to come our way and rather quickly.  This is a time of gaining inner strength and resilience so we are ready for whatever Saturn’s return will bring.  This includes finding a suitable mate if we do not already have an appropriate one, finding an occupation that suits our ever changing needs, which I promise will settle after the Saturn return, and to break free of any restrictive life influences that have been holding us back to this point.

The second trine at the age of 56 is quite different in that we are now in a totally different state of mind and look at life from a different vantage point.  We, now under this influence, are not setting the stage for what was important in life when we were 28, as settling into a vocation and raising a young family are now behind us. 

Initially, the second trine of Uranus is a time of reflection and reviewing of where we have reached now in life, especially from the time of our Uranus opposition to its birth position at age 42.  The changes we made at that stage in our life have taken us to this trine period.  We will now evaluate our life experiences and our achievements.  In many cases, we will be readying ourselves for retirement which is often the focus in life during the second Saturn return in 2 to 3 years following the second Uranus trine.

We will once again re-evaluate our life’s work and make some decisions on where we would like to go in the next several years.  We may work towards early retirement and set the stage for what comes next.  Some make massive changes under this influence and as long as we take the time we require to think things over, we will probably be ready once our second Saturn return is in full activation or nearing its conclusion. 

What is important now differs from what we experienced in the first trine period as now our personal needs must be met and we will make whatever changes that will push us in our intended direction.

During this trine, it is suggested that we take the time to set a course that will eventually take us to where we might want to see our self in approximately seven years from now (when Uranus makes it second square to itself at age 63). 

The second Uranus trine is usually an exciting time which includes a change of direction, one which is required by the soul personality to take us where you need to go. 

Both of these periods can be disruptive as sometimes change is inevitable and sudden but under most conditions the final outcome is positive in its nature. 

Prepare yourself for change and evolution and an awakening of self.  The self that will morph after this aspect may not be recognizable compared to the self of the past.

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ONE STEP AT A TIME

It can be quite a challenge meeting and overcoming hurdles in life, and although we would like to rush beyond these hurdles, it is important to take small, certain steps…..one at a time.  Rushing will only create new obstacles that are avoidable.

What lies ahead is sometimes so muddied, if we rush ahead, we become even more lost.  Our logical minds or egos will persistently make Mount Everest our of ant hills.  The mind mulls through potential outcomes and often the ego gets in the way.  As a result, we suffer.  If we learn to let go, the journey is far less challenging and stressful.

Take one step at a time and allow life to flow as it should.  The experience may move slowly but the experience is far more comfortable and less traumatic.  Allowing the process to unfold is equivalent to having faith in the process.  This is not to say that we are at the mercy of life and have no say in what happens, but there are times when it is best just to wait patiently for answers and guidance to show the way.

Guidance can come from outside sources and other times, it swells up from within us.  It is important to have goals in mind or an objective to reach as we do continually move forward, but we have to be flexible with any of these.  Rigidity causes frustration.  Finding solutions along the way usually comes naturally when the time is right and when we are ready and able to receive the proper information.  Patience truly is a virtue and this is often a lesson to learn behind every life experiences.

Have faith in the knowledge that life is taking us down the road we are meant to travel.  We will move through all circumstance eventually.  No obstacle is insurmountable.  All things in life can either be conquered or altered.  

It is our expectation of how life is to play out that requires changing.  First we must believe in ourselves.  Believe in the process and have faith that we are on the right path.  We are never off course, even when it feels as though we are.

Take small steps.....one step at a time.  Let’s see where these steps take us.  It IS an exciting journey!

  

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TRANSITING JUPITER QUINCUNX VENUS

Transiting Jupiter moves about one degree every five days.  You can expect the energies of Jupiter to start its expansive, optimistic and often good fortune influences about five degrees as it approaches a planet.  Its energies would then starts to wean by the time Jupiter is two degrees past direct.  A quincunx, in particular, has a tighter orb of influence than some other aspects, so you can shorten its energy flow to three degrees while approaching and one or two degrees while separating.

Transiting Jupiter on most occasions is what we wait for, especially when it makes positive aspects to our natal planets and points in the natal chart.  As it approaches, there may be a general feeling that things are going to grow and fortunate events are in place.  In many cases, this is true and especially so when it is connected to natal Jupiter, Sun or Venus. 

Jupiter promotes an optimistic approach to life and in general good things can be expected.  Much will depend on how it is positioned and aspected in the natal chart which will define its character potential and also how it might be received.

Venus is the planet of love and affection and can also speak of our finances, our valuables, possessions and social conditions.  Venus is second only to Jupiter when it comes to being fortunate and when aspected by Jupiter, good things are likely.  Even under a little more challenging aspect, like the quincunx or also known as the inconjunct, we are likely to experience fortunate outcomes.

As mentioned, whatever Jupiter touches has the potential for expansion and optimistic opportunities await.  When we are speaking of the quincunx aspect, it energies have a need for balance and adjustment.  We need to analyse what these energies apply to in our life and then make some adjustments so the energy can flow more freely.  Don`t forget, these planets are out of element and modality with one another so the energies need redirecting and diverting.  They will not flow to where they need to be on their own.  You must intervene. 

If love and affection are part of the modality and you have met someone who brings you a general feeling of happiness and potential growth, perhaps you will need to have a little closer look at this individual especially if Neptune is somehow involved.  You might not be getting a clear picture of what this person is all about, or your expectations might be too high.  Remember the feeling of good luck and good fortune is often abundant at this time, and you probably need to make an adjustment balancing things out.

If the finances are part of the unfolding process, make sure you are not overspending or being too generous at this time.  You might not be as wealthy as you feel you are or the funds might not last as long as you think they might.  However, under most conditions, in either case, these planets in quincunx to one another are often significators of good luck and opportunities after some adjustments have been made.  Venus and Jupiter together even under harsh aspect have potential for growth and valuable experience. 

If love is in the picture, this might be a special time in your life. Check to see if transiting Jupiter will go into retrograde and pass over the same degree again.  Jupiter can go into retrograde for as long as 120 days and move backward up to twenty degrees.  Each hit (to the same degree) will expand the potential although usually unless there are other factors in place, the first contact is the strongest one.  The direct motion is usually stronger in its effect than the retrograde motion also.

Jupiter and Venus together will likely be a fortunate adventure.  Be sure you make the most of it.

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THE UNSPOKEN PATH

It is hard to define in words our life’s path.  More often than not, we can define this path with feelings and intuition. 

Life will take us to places we never dreamed possible and it will also take us down roads few would choose to walk.  Each step of the way, however, offers new insight into understanding.  With an open mind, we will gain awareness as we maneuver our way through proverbial dense forests and open fields.

By living our unspoken mission, we become immersed.  By living our unspoken mission, we become completely involved so as to experience each moment individually, without anticipation of the next moment.  We are here to explore life and all of its wonders and to experience its vastness with vigor and joy, regardless of the path that we might be on.  There are many unseen events awaiting us and we have the choice of sharing the experience each step of the way.

We will meet people that touch us deeply, on many levels of understanding.  Some of these experiences will not be pleasant but important lessons nonetheless.  Some individuals we experience these events with will radiate beauty through their unconditional love and offer complete understanding.  We share this life on many levels and we are never alone even when we feel as though we are.  We can always reach out for guidance, either physically or spiritually, when we feel this need arises.

Have faith in the process and the freedom of choice.  During those times when the choice seems as though it has already been made, understand that the actions taken are perfect for our earthly life’s lessons.   We do have a choice in our reaction to these events, however.

Stay resolved to your own personal commitments. 

Enjoy life’s path, for this unspoken path lies ever waiting for you to experience it......to grace it with your presence.

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