Life often presents us with challenges that seem to steal our focus and somehow manage to stifle our growth or so we think. We are often confronted with what feels like massive, overwhelming tests that come at us from all sides. We are seldom prepared for these events as they come when we least expect them. This is most certainly how it can feel, and our reactions are not always what we want, in hindsight.
For
some, this seems to be the reoccurring theme in life. When we are faced
with adversity and difficult conditions, we often meet these lessons with
opposition. We sometimes feel as though we are victims of life, but are
we? Are we not actually victims of our reaction to life’s events?
Life
is going to happen, with or without our consent. We can face life head on
and use the events to grow and learn. It
is important to recognize these events as not part of us and we cannot own them
or make them our own. Far too often, we
may meet life’s events with frustration, anger, create a very difficult lesson
and feeling as though these lessons are a part of us. We decide to own
the events instead of seeing them as a lesson to grow.
With
the latter scenario, how will these reactions change what has transpired?
What is the benefit of the attitude we have decided to have?
We
have a choice on how we deal with adversity. It is also up to us how long
we choose to hang on to the events. How much control are you willing to
give to these uncontrollable events?
This
is not to say that we are unaffected by what takes place even if we do not
fight the event. This does not mean that we are not emotionally affected
by life’s events, nor does it mean that we are cold or unemotional in any
way. What it does mean is that life happens, and we have options as to
what way we react. There are always choices to be made. We are not
at the mercy of these events as many believe. We are always at the helm
of our reactions and our emotions. We alone dictate how we will allow
ourselves to be affected by each and every event in life.
Undesirable events do happen, and they are not by
choice, but we have choices as to how we will allow ourselves to be affected. We
make those choices whether those decisions are conscious or not. If we
choose to analyse our decisions and recognize our part in the process, we learn
how to adjust to life’s events rather than becoming victims to them. Being familiar with our past
reactions and decision helps us to learn to stop reaction and make clear decisions
on how to move forward.
Learning
to listen to that quite inner guide as it will help us through the process and
understanding our reactions and taking control can have lasting effects.
These will provide us with the momentum and courage to withstand any pressure
that comes from our lessons in life. Stop, process, and then move forward
after a controlled decisions. Stand tall in the face of adversity by
recognizing the lesson, seeing it as not a part of you but simply a lesson then
move forward with that knowledge.
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