Were you ever told
when you were young to pick your friends wisely as you become what you friends
are?
Those that you
surround yourself with will certainly have an impact on you. Not only do others
affect us on a mental level, but they can also have a bearing on our overall
health. This is not to say that the person who you invite over for coffee and a
simple chat will greatly influence your physical condition, but they will
influence your overall being for that particular moment in time. It will, of
course, be in your hands how much of an impact you allow them to have on you.
You may find that
they have important information that resonated with you on a deep level, and
you may choose to utilize the information offered. You will hold some of the
dialogue in your conscious mind and you will also retain some of this
information on a subconscious level. Alternatively, you may decide that the
conversation held little to no importance to you, and you may decide to let
most of it go. How much of that information, however, is unconsciously
retained?
We spend many hours
with family, friends, co-workers, etc. throughout a week. How much influence do
they have on us subconsciously?
Their input is
quite significant to our evolving story. Is their influence positive in
nature?
Family members are
not always our best friends and some we may allow to produce strife in our
lives. Do we wish them a loving farewell or are they part of our lesson to
learn to overcome outside influences?
To stay or to go is
a very personal decision. If we can block out their energies or influence, we are
doing a great job. Toxic relationships, however, can have an impact on our
overall health. No relationship should be allowed to rob us of our health and
happiness. If you find that your relationships need altering, have a look at
what you can do to facilitate change on some level. Remember, however, you
cannot change someone else. If change is to be made, it is up to you to make
the adjustment. If you have done all you can and the relationship is not
improving, it is important to understand that you can only change yourself and
your outlook. You cannot force change on someone else. If they are not willing
to do the work, you have a decision to make.
On the other side
of the coin, there are those relationships that simply feel good. You feel wonderful
sharing time and energy with these individuals. Hold these relationships close
and enjoy the experience. They may be a passing encounter or a lifelong
blessing. No matter the length of contact, they are precious.
Each of our various
relationships throughout life will offer many things and on many levels. Do not
take these relationships for granted, regardless of the challenging conditions
that occur from time to time. They are special and we are fortunate to
experience them. Some will be with us for a moment and some for a lifetime.
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