Life at
times can present us with challenges that seem to steal our focus and we, for
some reason, allow ourselves to feel stagnating and point the finger at the
challenges. For some, they may even
question their self-worth. We can be confronted with what feels to be massive,
overwhelming tests that come at us from every angle. With
the deepest life lessons, we are seldom prepared for the events.
In
hindsight, upon review, our reactions are not always what we might have wanted
them to be.
For some
of us, this seems to be a reoccurring theme in life. When we are faced
with adversity and difficult conditions, we often meet these lessons with
opposition. We sometimes feel as though we are victims of life but are
we?
Are we
not actually victims of our own reactions to life’s events?
Life is
going to happen, with or without our consent. If we view these events as
lessons, we can face life head on and use the events to grow and learn. We can recognize that these events are not a part
of us. We do not have to own what has taken place.
Alternatively,
we can meet life’s events with frustration, “why me” and anger which in turn
will turn a lesson into a very difficult lesson. We can take this very hard lesson one step
further and own what has happened and see it as a part of who we are. But why would we do this? What would be the benefit of this?
How do
we change an event that has already happened?
It has happened and we cannot turn back the hands of time.
We always
have a choice on how we deal with adversity.
Also, we
have a choice on how long we choose to hang on to the events. If we try to sweep them under the carpet,
they do not disappear. Guaranteed they
will resurface again. If we try to
ignore them, we are actually giving them energy by working on ignoring. How much time and control are we willing to
give to these uncontrollable events?
This is
not to say that we are unaffected by what takes place even if we do not fight
the event. This does not mean that we are not emotionally affected by
life’s events nor does it mean that we are cold or unemotional in any
way. What it does mean is that life happens and we have options in what
ways we move forward. There are always choices to be made. We are
not at the mercy of these events as many believe. We are always at the
helm of our reactions and our emotions. We alone dictate how we will
allow ourselves to be affected by each and every event in life.
Events
in life WILL happen without our consent, but we have choices as to how we will
allow ourselves to be affected. We make
those choices whether those decisions are conscious or not.
If we
choose to analyse our decisions and recognize our part in the process, we learn
how to adjust to life’s events rather than feeling as though we are a victim of
them. Being familiar with our past reactions and decision helps us to
learn to control our next decision. We
can put strategies in place so that we make well, thought-out choices instead
of making “reaction”. We want to be
mindful in order to make wise decisions not react to a situation and then have
regrets.
Learn to
listen to the quiet inner guide. When
something happens, feel the human feelings, but take a breath and allow
yourself the time to be mindful. If it
is a life lesson you are faced with, see it as that and learn. If we ignore the lesson, it will only come
back at us even harder the next time.
Stop,
process and then act with intension. Stand
tall in the face of adversity by recognizing the lesson. It is not who you are and is not yours to “set
up house” in. It is a temporary lesson
to help you grow. Move forward with the
benefit of that knowledge.
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