Throughout life,
there will be situations that we struggle with.
Most of us experience lost romance at some point, especially when we are
young, and the loss is so intense that we hold on hoping that things will
change and these individuals will miraculously come back to us. Sometimes this does happen, and it is usually
when we finally let go and accept.
Letting go often opens the door to what lies next.
As we
mature and with some earlier than others, we undergo a heavy period when our
parents become old and fragile and are no longer able to take care of
themselves without help from outside sources.
We know that it is only a matter of time and their journey will be over. We do our best to show them we love them and
do what we can to help them in whatever ways are possible. Eventually they pass over and we go through
the process of this personal loss. In
the long run, we adjust and learn to let go, even if we know that they are energetically
still with us. We must let go of them in
physical terms.
Some of us
lose close friends and family as time passes and once again, we are faced with
even more challenging conditions. Losing
our parents is emotionally hard but so is losing other family members and close
friends.
In some cases,
we were able to prepare for the final day.
Other times, a loved one’s passing happens unexpectedly, and we might
not even have had a chance to say our goodbyes.
Our loved ones certain want us to move along and let go of what
was. As hard as it may be, it is
imperative that we live in the present and let go of what was but that doesn’t
mean we cannot carry the love.
These
events can be emotionally difficult, and no one can tell anyone how to deal
with these situations. We must reach
deep within and find our own answers and go through our own process. The one thing in common to all these
experiences is that we have to accept, let go and move on. Some hold on to the pass so tightly. They feel they cannot let go of what was and
then they forget to live themselves.
We will
never forget but time and acceptance does soften the rough edges.
If we look
at death realistically, it is inevitable.
Yes, it is important to mourn our losses (as the mourning is for what we
will miss not the loved one that has passed on) but then remember to celebrate
the individual that we loved so dearly and be grateful for all that was shared
with them. Would they not want us to
celebrate them as opposed to suffering because of their graduation to the next
level of their existence?
Our loved
ones are never far away and when we think of them, they are even closer. Do not be afraid or uncomfortable talking to
them. They hear you and communicate with
you in their own way.
If you are
at a crossroad and someone near and dear has passed on, acceptance will open
doors that would otherwise be closed.
Acceptance allows us to keep living.
Our recovery period awaits us. Acknowledge
deep in our hearts that we are strong enough to see this through.
We are
never alone, and we can always reach out for help if we are having difficulty
finding our own light.
Our loved
ones are at our side always.
Live within
each moment in time. Appreciate life’s
wonders as they are ever present if we choose to see them. Life is to be lived. Life is to be celebrated,
not mourned.
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