PERSONAL RESPONSE

There are times in life when the signals get crossed and our judgements can be clouded.  This could pertain to many of life’s issues and even our judgement of others which we unfortunately form from lack of information or by misinterpreting events. 

 

I am sure you have heard it said that we should never judge others unless we have walked a mile in their shoes.  We will never be aware of their full life’s circumstances and will never be able to understand their life’s experiences from where we are standing.

 

We can never imagine someone else’s elation or their sorrow. 

 

Frequently early childhood experiences set the stage for our response to events and people.  Physical and emotional abuse, alcoholism, or drug abuse by loved ones for example leave lasting consequences.  Each of us has core reasons for our behavior.  Even a hard day at work or challenging conditions with the children can influence the way we respond to events throughout our day. With this in mind, how can we possibly judge others on their reactions or responses? 

 

Make an effort to study our own personal responses to events.  These are the actions that we have control over and can change if need be.  Our expectations of others are truly unrealistic and simply set us up for disappointment and anguish.  If we cannot control our own responses at times, how can we place expectations on others?

 

If you are looking for compassion and understanding from others, set that example but without expectation.  Your own reaction to events either stirs up more of what it is you do not want, or it can start a new focus of love and forgiveness.

 

Our reaction to life events and our interaction with others is a personal choice.  We have the option of making a decision that provides positive outcomes or positive alternatives under any conditions.  The next time we experience ego interference, stop for a moment.  Offer energy conducive to support, peace and enlightenment.  They in turn can use this positive reaction to assist in lifting themselves out of their place of confusion or frustration. 

 

If our offering is not utilized and this person continues on their own stressful path; do not judge.  Send love their way; turn away and remove yourself from their choices.  Their actions are their choice; your reactions are yours. 

 

Bring this awareness to the surface and realize your true purpose.

 

“To love a man enough to help him, you have to forfeit the warm, self-righteous glow that comes from judging.”   ― Ron Hall

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