Now that we have entered into a new year,
many people will begin this period by making resolutions. These resolutions are often short lived and
although whole-hearted at the start, the intent quickly fades away into
obscurity. Have you experienced this in the
past? Are you now reluctant to make
resolutions due to the possibility of failure?
Making a resolution to change something can
be activated at any time, but for some reason many wait until the New Year. It is as if one has a new slate to start from
and a chance to rectify some of the problems or qualities that in the past have
hindered our growth.
Begin this day (regardless of what day it
may be) with the spirit of a new beginning and with the intention to change
something in your life to a more positive and effective method. Each day we wake is a new beginning and a
chance to start something new, or change your direction. The timing or date is irrelevant as you can
make changes now—today!
Pick one thing that needs your attention
but do not make it too difficult. Think
of it as a practice run, but put your complete and full attention on this
change, attainment or removal of whatever you have placed you focus on.
Failure when trying to make necessary or desired
changes is that you have never truly and completely committed yourself. We begin with whole-hearted desires and then
when the going gets tough, we believe we can no longer continue and back off.
Understand what it is you are trying to change. It is not so much the issue, as it is the
mind’s interference with your focus and true desire to conquer the situation.
The ego works in many subtle ways and as long as we are identifying with the
ego’s intent, we hold ourselves back. By
recognizing the ego’s constant interference and by understanding what it is we actually
want to accomplish, we can rectify any situation and produce any desired
solution.
The ego is a hidden force that works
beneath the surface and uses any means to satisfy its relentless pursuit of
control. As it loses its grip, it fights
as if it is fighting for its life, and if the purpose is to relinquish the
ego’s control, I suppose the ego is right.
Remember this as you move closer to completing your commitment and stand
strong in the face of the ego’s intervention.
Know your place and understand the ego’s place. Any thought of failure, in any shape or form,
is ego intrusion and as long as you reminder yourself of this intrusion and
what it actually is, you can conquer anything and change anything you set your
mind to do.
You are always in control, but can only
prove this to self once you believe it.
You are the one that makes the final decision, the one that says “yes”
or the one that says “no”. Even the feeling
of failure is ego generated. Understand
this. Know this. If it does not feel right or if it does not make
your life better (or if it makes you feel better than anyone else), it is
spawned through the ego. Your life is in
your hands. Conquer the small things and
then take on the bigger things once you gain your confidence. You will succeed as long as you do not
identify with the ego and all of its distinguishing features.
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