Love, to many individuals, is an elusive dream
that seems to always escaped them. They look
to others to fill an empty space within, and often because of this pursuit,
they will go through bouts of depression and anxiety. Their need for love and affection runs deep (as
with anyone) and if they allow themselves to be obsessed with this search, this
obsession can lead to feelings of rejection, self-deprecation and loneliness.
Many people believe that they need someone else
to fulfill their longing for love. They
search for a potential partner or lover that they believe will fill the void. They are in constant search through external sources
and speculate on who might be the one to satisfy this yearning. Some individuals go to such an extreme with
their efforts that they actually drive others away because of their obsessive
behaviour.
Before we can truly love anyone else, we
have to be capable of loving ourselves.
This love can never be found through outside sources.
Love is something that is found within and
once allowed, it is mirrored in our outside world. Our external condition is often a reflection
of what is transpiring within.
Do you feel worthy of love? Do you see yourself in a realistic light or
do you simply focus on the qualities you see as negative? Positive reinforcement is certainly part of
the process.
Do you tear yourself apart searching? Do you question, “What is wrong with me?”, “Why
doesn’t anyone love me?”, or “What do I need to change in order for someone to
love me?”
Acceptance of who we are is a massive step forward. The main ingredient for lack of self-love and
self-appreciation is our ego’s interference.
It constantly nags at us and loves to create destructive dialogue towards
self. We can get caught up in this constant
chatter and if we decide to hold on to this negative chatter, we make it our
own.
We have said this again and again, WE ARE
NOT OUR EGO. Our ego has to be put in
its proper place which is at our side and in turn aiding us through this
journey not stifling our growth.
See yourself through loving eyes. Love yourself; only then can someone else
join you in this powerful experience.
You and you alone, the loving you, is the only missing ingredient in
your search.
We are all a spark of source. How then can we be anything short of
loveable?
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