Do you keep a check and balance of all acts
of kindness and giving?
Some individuals carry out their daily
routine continually providing for others but questioning if their acts are appreciated
by the recipients. (This can be seen frequently
especially with married couples). We
have heard it said by wives and husbands that their spouses do not seem to show
their appreciation for all that they do.
We have also heard it questioned that if their spouse or children do not
appreciate what is being done, why should they continue?
Showing and confirming our appreciation is
always recommended. No one wants to feel
that they are taken for granted. Both
spouses today are quite busy in the home as well as in the work place. A simple thank you to show our appreciation takes
little effort but has great value.
Should we expect something in return for
everything that we do? Should we expect
that others show their appreciation? Is
confirmation of our efforts a indicator of ego hindrance?
In reality, all things in life are
balanced, in some way or another. Life
looks after these things and even when it appears that others are not
reciprocating our actions with a few words of gratitude, life balances this out
in ways that we may not understand. As
the old saying goes everything goes full circle.
Personally, I believe that we should not
put a price on everything we do. It is
priceless to give without expecting to receive.
Giving should be carried out simply because we want to give or because
someone needs our assistance. Is this
not the meaning of “true love”? Our
efforts should stem from love not a desire for something in return.
Any act of giving is noted in the karmic
records or on other levels of understanding.
We do not need to keep score. Each
gift we give has its own merit and value.
If our intension comes from our heart then measuring it in terms of
effect does not matter.
We would never suggest that you allow
others to take advantage of you. You
have value and are not a servant to anyone.
Our lives on many levels are geared to service but in a manner to help
and assist through love.
There are many ways to assist and countless
different approaches we can take. The
outcome of our actions may never be seen by outsiders or even recognized by others,
but it is registered in our hearts.
Is that not payment enough?
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