If
someone were standing right in front of you extending their hand for
assistance, what would your response be? How would you react and what
could you do to help them in their time of need?
If that
person were vindictive in nature, would your actions for this person vary from
your actions to assist someone who is loving or gentle?
When we
are faced with individuals that have challenging characteristics, we need to be
steadfast and true to our own personal journey. We cannot back down
because of a particular response or simply because part of us feels as though
this individual does not deserve our assistance (This is judgement coming from
ego). If they are coming to us, there is a reason. We must have
something of significance to offer, even if their responses do not meet our
expectations.
Advice
somehow always seems to miss its mark. Actions through example, however,
speak volumes. If we feel we must give advice, we should use a gentle
approach. Force creates friction. The response to our actions is
created by the receiver and is not ours to own. Our ego has no place in
the equation when we are offering our assistance. If you do not like the
response, send love and walk away. Change and growth by someone else is
their journey not ours.
Love and
compassion will always be our best approach when we are offering a gentle
reminder that things can get better. The actual change must come from
within those who see that they need change (even if it is simply a change of
attitude).
It is
never co-incidence when someone is sent our way. We can always offer
assistance but we cannot make the changes or force others to accept our help or
advice.
If we do
our best in any given situation, we are being true to ourselves and our journey.
We have
control over our reaction to events in our lives and how we respond to those
who share this journey with us.
Control
what you are supposed to and have faith that all else will happen as it should.
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