THE NEED FOR PERSONAL SPACE YET CLOSENESS

The need for our own personal space and yet the need to be close to our partners is often a personal dilemma shared by many. 

We all need and want to be loved and appreciated.  We expand in the embrace of loved shared.  We also, however, need our own personal space and the ability to move in whatever direction we see fit to grow as an individual. 

Many couples are confronted with this paradox. 

Are you being smothered in a tight and loving relationship?  

Do you feel as though you are being cornered or contained in your relationship?  

Are you no in a personal relationship by choice or with hesitation? 

Being single or in an open relationship gives way to doing what you want when you want without having to answer to anyone but yourself.  This is preferred by some but offers insecurity and possibly loneliness for others.

Being in a close personal relationship means sharing our lives with someone we love and never feeling alone.  However there will be days when we need our own space and the demands of our partner may be trying.

In a perfect world, we have a balance of both and it is achievable as long as there is give and take on both sides in a partnership relationship.  Finding someone who gives us space to live our life as we feel necessary can be rare, yet if we truly love someone, we don’t mind giving up a little personal freedom in order to share.  True love is unconditional! 

It is essential that we are open and communicate with our partner if we have chosen to share this life with them.   It is important to discuss our own personal needs, so that others know what we are experiencing and what we expect.  Just as important, we should allow our partner to be open with us and respect their needs.  A partnership is equal give and take without keeping tabs or score. 

Spend a few minutes each day in quiet solitude even if only for a short walk, a shower or a quiet meditation.  These little practices will provide us with personal space.  

On the other side of the coin, create special moments together such as a romantic dinner without the television or telephone interrupting.  Wouldn’t it be nice to take a stroll through a park hand in hand? 

We can even take care of both needs….why not meditate together holding hands.  The mind has its personal space but the knowing of love can fill our heart. 

One thing is for certain; other people’s needs are important but so are our own; talk it out.

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TRANSITING URANUS CONJUNCT NATAL ASCENDANT

We look further into the planet of change and disruption --Uranus.  Uranus is known as the awakener. 

When Uranus is connected to the Ascendant often personal changes are set in motion. 

The Ascendant is our expression to the world and often our first reaction when we meet others or something new enters our life.  This expression is tempered by other factors within the chart that will affect our overall outer expression but unless our Ascendant is softened or weakened by some other influence, it is a reliable indicator of how we represent ourselves.

When a planet such as Uranus conjoins our Ascendant, others may find a difference in how we present ourselves.  If you have a Taurus Ascendant in your Natal chart, for example, which at where Uranus is currently found (2020), your outer expression is one of reservation due to inner reflectiveness and slow reaction.  You would be sensitive but keep most of this hidden or subdued and others find you reliable, steady, likely sensual and slow to anger.  However, if you are angered, an outburst would not be soft and forgiveness is often not easily found.  You, if with a Taurus Ascendant, can hold on to hurts longer than would be advisable and the memory is quite in intact.

When Uranus meets up with our Ascendant, personal change is likely and a new found freedom may be part of the unfolding process.  It might happen in a rather sudden manner and be somewhat unpredictable in nature.  You may show a side of yourself that no one is used to seeing.  You are actually searching for change, although a big part of you resists this as the tried and tested are far safer.  However, this may be the time to break free of restrictions and limitations in life. A new direction is at hand. 

If by chance you are in your early forties or late thirties, you will be going through or have recently been through the opposition of Uranus to itself.  In many cases, this points to not only a change on a personal note but also a change involving partnerships. 

Uranus fosters the next phase in life which will, over time, offer greater understanding and a clearer path.  Although disruptive and often erratic in nature, Uranus’ energies push you forward so that life is altered in such a way that the path ahead is more defined and fruitful.  It may take some time to recognize this but as time passes, the path become more evident and clear.

Check to see where natal Uranus is located in your birth chart to get a clearer indicator of what areas of life will be involved in the process if and when transiting Uranus conjuncts your natal ascendant.  The way you represent yourself is up for change.  A new you is approaching under this aspect.

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TRANSITING URANUS IN OPPOSITION TO NATAL URANUS

Uranus has a cycle of 84 years when it returns to its natal position.  The half way point is known as the opposition which occurs around the age 42.  This is what is referred to the mid-life crisis; in astrological terms the Uranus opposition.  This is a dynamic period for most people as not only do we experience the Uranus opposition but we are also experiencing transiting Saturn squaring its natal position at the same time.

Uranus has to do with changes of direction often due to a need for freedom in some aspect of our life.  In many cases certain aspects of life have become dormant and we are no longer growing in the way we should.  Perhaps life has become routine and it seems insignificant in some way.  We need a change of direction, something new and exhilarating, a new focus and this is when we make changes that to others may seem radical and often sudden or unexpected.

This can be a time of upheaval and dynamic change which in some ways feels out of our control although in many cases we make the move.  This could involve a relationship, a career, the home and family, love relationships, spiritual unfolding and the list goes on.  Much will depend on the house transiting Uranus is moving through and also the house where you find your natal Uranus.

There are difficulties in place and this will usually not be a pleasant time in your life although we must also have a look at the aspects in place to the position of natal Uranus and other natal positions.  The whole picture always has to be reviewed to determine what is taking place at that moment in time.

You will feel the energies of transiting Uranus up to about 5 degrees approaching and it will last until it is about 2 degrees past being direct.  Often you can pinpoint when the energies are the strongest as it approaches becoming direct and something happens in a rather unexpected manner and sometimes we are not well prepared.  Jumping is never suggested but you just might and sometimes have regrets immediately after doing so.  Usually over the long haul you realize that the steps taken at this time were actually meant to take place and put you more in line with the path you are supposed to take.  Uranus is the awakener and that is just what it will do.

Be prepared if you can that is and expect the unexpected at this time in your life.  This is a very significant time.

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PREREQUISITE TO CHANGE

The journey to self-realization has many steps but getting to know and understand our self is a challenging yet very satisfying experience.  Make no mistake; it is a perpetual one.  It is one of wonder as we slowly release all of the ego (conscious or unconscious) impacts that have been influencing us most of our lives.  Some of these traits were learned in very early childhood, and we have identified with them and believe that they are a part of who we are since.

This is where the difficulties arise.  We actually believe that these learned traits are a part of our true selves, our true identity.  This belief can be painful and for some hard to shake.  If we recognize that these traits have never been a part of the true self, they can easily be acknowledged and released with little to no pain or suffering. 

Unfortunately, most people spend much of their lives identifying with these qualities and then when and if they come to recognize these traits, they feel that they have to battle to remove a part of themselves. 

In reality, these have never been a part of them.  They are simple a habit or learned belief.

We have to accept these habits but see them for what they are.  Let them go and watch how the real core energy shines through.  The real person has always been there yet frequently denied or overlooked because of ego’s intent on directing our lives. 

Do not be misled.  We are not at the mercy of ego.  Ego can be an interference, or it can be a positive benefit, depending on the focus.  Ego’s proper place is at our side providing us with confidence (but not arrogance) to move forward.

Allowing our core energy to shine through does not have to be painful.  True realization and living in the moment are wonderfully gratifying experiences.  These are great initial steps.  We have to remind ourselves that we are spirit having a human experience, living a temporary earthly existence. Our higher state of consciousness is ever present, as is our alignment with source.

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TRANSITING URANUS SQUARE NATAL VENUS

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Transiting Uranus when writing this post (January 10, 2020) is in the sign of Taurus and will remain in this sign for about another 6 years.  We will be discussing the square from transiting Uranus to natal Venus.  Check your chart to see if this aspect is applicable to you.  Allowing an orb of 5 degrees approaching and a separation degree of 2 those individuals with this degree of Venus in their natal chart in the appropriate signs will experience this square at some point in time depending on the degree of your natal Venus.  Some of you may be experiencing it now.

Uranus above all else is known as the awakener and rules the sign Aquarius.  It is also known for its rather abrupt interchange and freedom seeking qualities.  Its energies will strive to push you to make changes to things that have become obsolete or no longer viable in your life.  Because of its tendency to create change and disruption, when connected to Venus and by square, its energies will speak in terms of relationships, especially loved ones, and may also be tied to finances and young females of significance.

In most cases, the square aspect suggests tension, challenges and difficulties that must be addressed.  This aspect is challenging enough that in many cases will force you to act and find a resolution to the issue at hand.  Unlike the opposition which often suggests that the issues stem from others, the square does not lay blame at least in most cases, but what it does insist on is action on your part.  The pressure can be overwhelming and can last for a long time due to the slow movement of Uranus through the Zodiac.

The stress of these changes does not necessarily depict the ending of conditions but it does speak of an overhaul and sometimes rather dynamic and drastic change may be necessary.  We will often get little hints along the way to make these changes and if we don’t act at some point in time, Uranus can act in unpredictable manners and usually in the drastic fashion we speak of.

The change that is suggested is put in place because we are no longer advancing at all or in the right direction.  A change will usually be revealed over time and understood to be what is needed.  These changes and new directions although intrusive at times will prove to be beneficial and we will find that they were a requirement of the soul’s path.

The change does not have to be total change but likely there will need to be some major alterations in order for things to move in the right direction. 

Uranus is used as a timing device in Astrology and in many cases the days when it is direct will be when something transpires unless you take action before hand (although often something happens anyway around the time when it is direct).  Of course, the whole chart needs to be studied very carefully to get a clear and definitive outline of what might be taking place.

The houses involved including the position of transiting Uranus, natal Venus and natal Uranus will provide you with some information as to the areas of life involved in the equation. 

You can expect the unexpected with Uranus as its action is not very predictable but for certain you can expect some sort of freedom involved and likely changes taking hold.

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FINDING THE SOLUTION

There is generally a feeling of great satisfaction when we are able to rectify an issue on our own.  We followed our inner guide and have taken control on a very personal level.  By conquering this issue, we have reassured our self that we can rely on our inner guidance and this confidence feels great.  This will assist us in recognizing the tools that are available to us at any time.  By attempting to resolve the issue, successfully or unsuccessfully, we have grown stronger. 

There will be times, however, when we have exhausted all efforts at resolving problems and there just does not seem to be a resolution at hand.  We go to great lengths applying ourselves and yet nothing of substance seems to materialize.  We can then reach the end of our ropes and are ready to give up.  As a last resort, we reach out for outside help.  Sometimes all it takes is another person just listening and as we explain our situation, the answers come into focus.  Other times it is just that ear that we need to not feel alone.  There will be other times that we need someone else’s guidance as we are so close to the issue that we are not seeing (or thinking) clearly. 

Sometimes the issue becomes so overwhelming that even our closest friends or family cannot help provide us with answers.  This is certainly the time to reach out for professional assistance, to people that are trained in helping specifically with the type of issues that we are experiencing.  We cannot allow our ego to get in the way of the solution and stop us from reaching out. 

Whether we recognize a solution or someone else has to assist us in finding a resolution, in the end, we are the ones that have to do the work.  Whether we stand alone or with others, we are strong enough to overcome and see anything through.  Recognize that strength.  Know that we have what it takes and stand tall in the face of any life situation.   We have this!

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SATURN RETROGRADE & DIRECT MOTION

Saturn is the planet of restriction, delays, obstacles and hard work.  It is known as the task maker or the teacher of the Zodiac.  Saturn by birth position usually shows an area of life that we have to work at in order to make things succeed.  If Saturn is poorly aspected in the birth chart this is doubly so, although Saturn also offers rewards for those with diligent work ethics.

Saturn while in its direct motion through transit suggests that there will be time delays, limitations and boundaries to overcome, unlike most planets in their direct cycle.  When Saturn turns retrograde which is about 140 days a year, its energies are quite the contrary.  The retrograde motion of Saturn may be a time when you feel less restricted and held back, although signing agreements or making major decisions is not recommended.  This is a time when you can rethink what action you can take in order to facilitate growth when the timing is better.  This is a planning stage when you can actually take great strides forward when other planets trigger the appropriate timing factors.

Saturn has a 29 year cycle and usually retrogrades about 15 degrees in each sign.  It usually moves into retrograde up to 8-9 degrees during its cycle.  Saturn is linked with achievement, ambition and delivers what is truly deserved.  When the Sun (also linked to ambition) through transit forms a square aspect to Saturn, this aspect often brings some struggles with regards to your goals and aspirations.  If it trines Saturn, the blended energies of the Sun and Saturn offer some stability in these areas. 

Saturn in its retrograde cycle is somewhat similar to Jupiter, in that it offers opportunities to succeed in your endeavours and planning is a fundamental action while Saturn goes through its retrograde motion.  The normal cautionary application of Saturn is softened during its retrograde cycle.

Saturn’s energies also deals with accountability and the house or houses that it retrogrades through will make you answerable to these specific areas of life being tested.  Saturn tends to test you and if you failed to do what you should have been doing during its direct motion, you may be held accountable for your actions or non-action when Saturn again turns direct.  If, on the other hand, you were working with the energies of Saturn while in direct motion, the areas of life dictated by house position will offer rewards for due diligence and hard work.  Saturn rewards when applicable.

In closing, Saturn direct offers opportunities to move ahead in life although with some caution attached to the process.  Saturn retrograde suggests a time for evaluation and planning and then to move ahead with caution once Saturn moves direct again and when other planets may trigger potential activities.

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