There are times in life when the signals get crossed and our judgements can be clouded. This could pertain to many of life’s issues and even our judgement of others which we unfortunately form from lack of information or by misinterpreting events.
I am sure you have
heard it said that we should never judge others unless we have walked a mile in
their shoes. We will never be aware of their full life’s circumstances
and will never be able to understand their life’s experiences from where we are
standing.
We can never
imagine someone else’s elation or their sorrow.
Frequently early
childhood experiences set the stage for our response to events and
people. Physical and emotional abuse, alcoholism, or drug abuse by loved
ones for example leave lasting consequences. Each of us has core reasons
for our behavior. Even a hard day at
work or challenging conditions with the children can influence the way we
respond to events throughout our day. With this in mind, how can we possibly
judge others on their reactions or responses?
Make an effort to
study our own personal responses to events. These are the actions that we
have control over and can change if need be. Our expectations of others
are truly unrealistic and simply set us up for disappointment and
anguish. If we cannot control our own responses at times, how can we
place expectations on others?
If you are looking
for compassion and understanding from others, set that example but without
expectation. Your own reaction to events either stirs up more of what it
is you do not want, or it can start a new focus of love and forgiveness.
Our reaction to
life events and our interaction with others is a personal choice. We have
the option of making a decision that provides positive outcomes or positive
alternatives under any conditions. The next time we experience ego
interference, stop for a moment. Offer energy conducive to support, peace
and enlightenment. They in turn can use this positive reaction to assist
in lifting themselves out of their place of confusion or frustration.
If our offering is
not utilized and this person continues on their own stressful path; do not
judge. Send love their way; turn away and remove yourself from their
choices. Their actions are their choice; your reactions are yours.
Bring this
awareness to the surface and realize your true purpose.
“To love a man
enough to help him, you have to forfeit the warm, self-righteous glow that
comes from judging.” ― Ron Hall
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