PARENTS WITH CHILDREN MATURING INTO ADULTHOOD

For all parents there comes a time in our lives that our children are maturing and developing into adulthood.  This is a challenging time as well as an exciting time.  We, as parents, have experience and we want to lend a gentle hand of guidance and offer the security that our children still need, although apparently they may not perceive our gestures in the light that they were intended.

Our maturing children are entering this new stage of life with their eyes wide open.  They are ready and willing to grab hold of opportunities as well as take gambles with relative ease.  They will learn valuable lessons because of this attitude.  As parents, we support them.  We offer advice although subjective in nature and in a gentle fashion, and we guide them along their venture as best we can.  They are open to everything although it may not appear this way and everything we say and do provide them with something of significance even though they may seem reluctant on the surface.

It can be a difficult as a parent to stand by their side giving support to their plans and dreams as we know that this journey will be a challenging one.  It is wise to offer advice and then step back to allow them to digest as insistence on our part will only be met with frustration and aggression.  In many cases, at this age they are head strong and will follow their own judgement and will advance in their chosen direction regardless of our input, so we have to know when to let go and step aside.

As far as assistance and we are primarily speaking of financial assistance right now, we can help when necessary but hopefully the ground work of responsibility was laid long ago.  With ground work in place, we step back and trust in the lessons already taught. 

If they acknowledge and are appreciative that we have provided them with loving support through guiding step or financial support to make life easier than our gestures are not in vain.  If on the contrary they waste this opportunity and squander our efforts then we will know better when the next time arrives, as under these circumstances they undoubtedly will.  There are always times to help and then it is important to recognize that there are times when our financial generosity is not helpful; it is actually detrimental to their maturation and development of self-reliance.

When these young individuals meet up with life’s challenges which you know they will, the best we can do is offer our emotional support and guidance and then stick with them through thick and thin regardless of their decision.  They need emotional support during these trying times and we are well equipped to assist them in this manner for no one loves them more.  When they make mistakes and take what we consider wrong turns in life, they need our emotional support even more, but we also have to keep in mind the workings of the universe and that things happen for a reason.  The school of hard knocks always has their best interests at heart.

You do however have to know when the time is right to stop subsidizing their finances and let them stand on their own two feet.  Let them take life by the horns and run with it.  What great lessons these are in self-sufficiency, confidence, etc. 

Being a parent and offering loving support never ends and our children have to know that they can always depend on us for this type of support.  Whatever you felt was missing in your youth can now be utilized with mature insight and worldly education.  We have all walked similar roads to that which are growing children now venture.  Support them every step of the way but let them be responsible for themselves and their actions.

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HEALING & NURTURING

Taking care of others can be done on many levels and can be carried out by anyone regardless of age, gender or even geographical long distance. 

Loving and nurturing others is our prime objective in this life, but before we can truly heal others, we have to spend time on ourselves. 

In order to be healthy physically and emotionally, it is important to review and recognize any problematic conditions that we are hanging on to.  We cannot remove or heal ailments until we recognize that they are there and recognize that most conditions have been created within are a result of our attitude and thought patterns.

Problems often appear after a traumatic incident or stressful period in our lives.  If not fully dealt with immediately, these events may scar us on a very deep emotional level which eventually materializes as a health issue.  No matter how traumatic the incident may have been and regardless of who can be “blamed” from the event, it is our choice whether we harbour negative emotions (anger, blame, rage, self pity, etc.) around the events and whether we choose to make these events our own (make them personal and own them).  We have to face them head on, and accept that they have happened.  We may not have initiated the event but it is certainly our choice whether we will hang on to the experience and allow it to keep influencing our life. It is our choice if we are going to let it go, move forward and accept the lesson but not own it.  The acceptance and release will also influence our lives but in a much more positive way than holding on.

We have the power to heal all wounds and these capabilities come from within.  We will not find the true solutions to our challenge from external forces.  Only we can release ourselves from the grips of our experience and allow the past to stay in the past.  Forgiving is part of the solution, but in many cases there is something linked to forgiving ourselves as often we take on the events, emotionally connecting to the events and make them personal.

Revenge is always anti-climactic and never provides the satisfaction anticipated.  It only services to tether us to the raw emotions of the past.  Forgiveness allows us to let go and move forward.  Forgiveness is essential for our personal healing.  Forgive for your own personal sake, if for no other reason.

There is a part in most of us that wants to assist others in their times of trouble.  A caring, nurturing friend is a wonderful medicine.  Loving and nurturing others is our prime objective in this life, but those that we offer assistance to must first want to help themselves.  Unfortunately, there are people that perpetually live under a negative attitude and they refuse to take responsibility and to do the work necessary to move beyond their less than positive focus.

Healing can be done on many levels and through positive focus and receiving healing energy from those who want to assist, healing can begin.  We are all connected on some level or another.  We share feelings, thoughts and can transfer energy that can assist those in need.  Each one of us are conduits for healing energy but the acceptance of these energies will only flow without restriction when the recipients have cleared any obstructions they have created from within.

Be a conduit for healing energy.  Send out loving vibrations to those that are in need.  We can be this agent by offering loving, light and healing energy.

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MINOR ASPECTS - The Quintile

The Quintile is considered a minor aspect in Astrology.  When two planets or significant points are in Quintile with one another, the angle is 72 degrees and 144 degrees for the Bi-Quintile.  We will be discussing only the Quintile in this post.  This aspect has a very tight orb of influence and you should give it no more than one degree of separation (71-73 degrees).

The Quintile is an aspect linked to inspiration, talent on a very individual level and creativity.  This talent is considered to be God-given and is not necessarily a learned art.  It is often unique to the individual and the creative style is distinctive and sets the individual’s talent apart from the rest.  It is said that the Quintile’s energies are very common with the energies of Mercury and is linked with the mind and the thought process.  There is uniqueness in the work of these individuals and they often pursue their distinctive style relentlessly.  It is as if they are obsessive in their behaviour and there is a need to master their particular art or technique.

The talent is uncommon and in most cases it is not something that can be learned from sources outside of self.  Perhaps they are being guided through spirit.  Many of us have a Quintile or two in our charts.  This is common, but to have more than two and to have them tightly configured is not common.  You have to have at least three Quintiles in your chart to experience this influence we are speaking of.  If the progressed chart has many of these Quintiles and Bi-Quintiles, it could be a talent that is being brought to the surface, although it should be in the birth chart first, as this is a blueprint for the life of the individual.

Those that have this God-given creative talent may use their inborn knowledge or talent to assist others.  The expression of the Quintile would be indicative of the energies of the planets involved, the signs and houses that these planets are located in.  You can also look to the natal chart and others linking aspects that might add to the flavour of these unique aspects.  Any planet that forms a tight aspect to one of the planets or points in this configuration would also add to the flavour and offer some insight into the possible ramifications and outlet for such talents to be released.

The need for these people to understand these inborn traits is great and as indicated earlier there is an obsessive quality linked to uncovering their full potential.  This intense search can become a life-long passion and they will not stop short of complete understanding and utilizing the talent in question.  They have an obsessive need to learn their talent completely, to look at it from every angles.  This learning or search can actually intensify as time passes.

As a parent, if you child has this emphasis in their chart, it is important to understand the area of life that is accentuated.  It is suggested that you do your best to help your child uncover these abilities and never dismiss these talents or sway your child away from learning their full potential in these areas as indicated by their chart.  These are unique individuals and have something important to offer the world.  They should be allowed to express themselves in whatever unique fashion that suits them best.

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MUNDANE WORLDLY EXISTENCE

Do you feel caught up in everyday affairs?  Do you feel frustrated with the routine of going to work to make money to pay your bills?  Have you ever pondered the reason why you live this material life when you are far more interested in exploring spiritual enlightenment, experiencing the awakening and uncovering more and more from source?  How and why does anyone following this path have to live through material conditions?  What purpose do these material conditions serve?

There are many of us that ask these questions.  They certainly are valid.  You would think that there could be alternate courses that would eventually lead you to a similar place.  Why is life so tedious at times and is there not really an easier course or path that we could take which would lead us to the same end as this twisting and frustrating route the material journey teaches us?

The answers to these questions are obviously beyond mortal understanding and we have to realize that as spiritual beings we chose to enter into this life.  We chose to be the person we are today.  We chose the route most appropriate to teach us the knowledge we deemed necessary.  We also picked the most profound path that would have the most impact for growth.  We understood what we needed when we picked this life and although we are currently unfamiliar with the why behind our existence, we have been granted the path we require to facilitate our spiritual growth.

We can make concessions along the way and choose to move in different directions as we have been given free will, but the overall package of life is predetermined and we will walk the road of life that we create along the way.  It may sound like a bit of a contradiction and might be difficult to understand as it is suggested that you create your life’s path through everyday living yet it is also predetermined.  Spirit is aware of the “flavour” of our life without having to know specifics of everyday living.  Time is ever present and the past and future are linked together and form the now in which we exist.

We do make concessions along the way but the path that we choose although new to us physically will always take us to where we need to go.  See time from all dimensions.  The past, the present and the future co-exist and are ever-present.  In spirit all is understood.

We are on this road of life and we live it day after day.  We create our tomorrows by the concepts we follow today.  Understand this and realize how important it is that you lay a framework that will offer you the most bang for your buck.  Think in positive terms.  Practice patience and believe in the unbelievable. 

All is attainable and what you search for is within your grasp.  It will materialize in one form or another as you acquaint yourself with the process of creation.   Without realizing, you have done this your whole life.  Recognize this now and exercise your control.  Make life happen.

Our so-called mundane existence is not so mundane after all, when we allow ourselves to take it all in and experience the constant moment.  The moment within the moment is all about awareness.  Experience it to the fullest and do not run from it.  The moment has already found you so utilize it.  Focusing on the moment is the best investment you can make.

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MINOR ASPECTS - THE SEMI-SQUARE

The Semi-Square is a 45 degree aspect with an orb of influence of no more than a 2 degree and can be described as a minor irritant.  However if the angle between two planets in tight, (less than 10-20 minutes apart), the influence is much stronger than a distant square separated by 10 degrees.  This applies to all minor aspects in that the closer the aspect to being direct the stronger the influence in the chart.

When an accident takes place, the Semi-Square (45 degrees) and Sesquiquadrate (135 degrees) aspects are usually present in a chart.  This is not to say that when you have many of these minor aspects in your chart activated through progression or transit that accidents are about to take place.  However, they are an indicator and other influences especially related to Uranus, Mars and Pluto in hard aspect to one another must be present.  There would have to be at least 3 aspects of similar indications for higher risk of an accident.  Sometimes high risk periods can lack in squares and have many trines present.  In general, trines suggest easy flow without obstruction; however the interpretation of easy flow does not indicate positive action, so please do not be led astray.

Semi-Squares are like an added irritant to an already challenging condition.  Life might be full of obstructions and difficulties and then some small irritant adds to the fire.  It is as though you already felt overwhelmed by the circumstances and then something else comes along although relatively minor in irritation.  This can add fuel to the fire and stir up things to the boiling point.

In general, however, if there are not other forces at work suggesting trying conditions, the Semi-Square might pass by relatively unnoticed except by the select few that are extremely in tuned to such vibrations in their lives.  Focusing on any element in life adds to the experience and therefore it is suggesting that one pay attention to the more positive attributes in life.

Although these minor irritants are just that, irritants, it is suggested that these irritants can facilitate productive results after the fact.  They are suggestive of some hard work as are all challenging aspects and it is through this hard work and often disciplinary control that we make progress.  We actually need these periods of strife in life to gain momentum and move forward.  These assist us in gaining strength and expand our life’s education.  Semi-Squares tend to force action on some level.

Semi-Squares operate on a different level than the inaction of the Square aspect.  Squares tend to obstruct and place obstacles in our way before success can be obtained.  There is less resistance when the aspect involved is the Semi-Square.  A resolution is often easier found with this aspect and we are able to move forward more freely to find a solution than we would be able to with the square. 

Once again, it is very important to use only a tight degree of separation when interpreting this minor aspect, as the closer the aspect is to being direct the stronger the influence.

              

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The Gift of Giving

THE GIFT OF GIVING

Have you taken a moment to truly examine your position in life.....that place where you stand.....that which you stand for?  What does your quest reveal?  How will you manifest your dreams?  What are your dreams?  Are your dreams significance not only for you but for the world at large? 

You may say “What can I do on the world stage?”  “How can I as an individual help maneuver our world in such a way that we will and can all grow and prosper in some way?”

These are earnest questions and ones we may ask often.  We go to great depths searching for answers that will shed light on our individual purpose, and in turn hope that these discoveries will allow us to do our part.  We often come up with little in the way of ideas to facilitate a much needed transformation.  Most of us agree that a transformation is desperately needed on a global basis, as our world is in a perpetual state of turmoil on many levels.

It is clear that our financial system has terrible flaws.  Markets are volatility.  Countries are bankrupt.  People do not have funds to eat.  A large portion of our world is teetering; living on very little and struggling to get by.  Some are fighting for their lives, but to most of us in the developed countries, this does not seem real.  We live within the comfortable confines of our homes and eat quite regularly.  It is difficult to comprehend the horrendous states that some people live in.  We certainly have to acknowledge our blessings and the comforts that we take for granted.

Most of us live wonderful life.  Yes, we experience upheavals from time to time, but overall, we are blessed.  How can we be of service to those less fortunate than we are?  What can we do? 

We can offer whatever assistance we are capable of giving.  The assistance may be small but working together these small bits can manifest into substantial help.  These small steps also offer us a state of wellness, happiness and thankfulness and these are all attributes that we are all in search of.

It is not the extent of what you do.  It only matters that you act.  Little things on a regular basis matter.  Follow your heart and listen to that little voice inside.  It will always push you in the right direction.  Who knows what result your compassion, you loving concern, your gentle voice will have on someone in need.  Give from your heart, and leave the mind out of the equation.  This will help to facilitate real change.  It always begins at home and then in your own back yard and eventually the ripples of your acts of kindness will touch the world.  Through example, we can teach and help many. 

It is your life to give; do it with love.

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