WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE

It has been said that true love is hard to find.  No doubt that statement is true, however we all know someone that we share true love with.  This individual may be our lover, our best friend, or a family member.  True love does not have to be a romantic love.  As a matter of fact when we remove the association of true love with a romantic partner, we can open our heart to so many more people.

According to Merriam-Webster the simple definition of love is “a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person : an attraction that includes sexual desire : the strong affection felt by people who have a romantic relationship”.  What is your definition of love?

We all experience challenging situations with those we love but we still love them in spite of our differences.  Situations do not change our feelings of true and complete love for them.   We may allow ourselves to feel hurt as a result of issues and events.  If someone we did not love were involved with these same issues and events, our reaction would be far more than just hurt.  We always seem to find a place in our hearts to forgive those that we share true love with no matter what the situation may be.  There is always room for compassion and kindness regardless of the incident.

There will be some people that will argue that this type of person or love does not exist.  If we look within, would you not find this person within?  It will, however, be difficult to receive or give true love from/to others if we first do not truly love ourselves.  Recognizing the need for self love is a giant step towards self-realization.

If we do not like what we find within ourselves, we need to rethink the process.  Take another look.  Anything that is seen as negative is truly not a part of us.  Identifying with negativity enhances our belief that it is a part of self and that is what makes it feel real. 

Our inner self is always at peace.  Our inner self is always forgiving.  It always loves and never loses sight of the beauty in everything.

So if we are looking for love, for companion, we must recognize these qualities within.   We will find true love starting from the inside and then radiating out.  When we understand our core self, we will welcome self love.  Stay open and accept that loving soul that resides within, no holds barred.   Recognize that union with our inner true self can never be dissolved.  We only close our eyes to its existence.

Finding that love within, opens the door to love shared with those outside of self.

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