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Thursday 16 March 2017

THE KIND & GENTLE APPROACH


The kind and gentle approach is normally the best approach. 

Life’s experiences do take us down many different roads and during stressful situations we can be prone to instant reaction, which is not always what we had planned on.  A quick review prior to reacting or a quick rethink after reacting can help us to address any situation from a different point of view.

Before we respond, do we consider the affect of our response on the person we are addressing?  Do we ask ourselves if something positive can come out of your expression and verbal interaction?  Will our reaction bring things into focus?  Will our reaction cause strife or will it stimulate a verbal confrontation? 

We can certainly experience much more control if our reaction or interaction in slow and deliberate.  Learning to control reaction is a positive step forward.  Giving ourselves time to assimilate what has happened before we speak can bring about positive results to all involved.

In most cases if we approach a situation in a temperate manner, people usually react in similar fashion.  Sometimes it does not matter how gentle we are, there will be those that come at us in an aggressive manner.  If we stand back and still approach the situation in a kind and considerate way, many will recognize your control and lower their aggressions.  For those that still carry on in rage, we can certainly walk away.  This is not an indication of weakness, as becoming aggressive in the interaction would be much easier.  It takes strength not to be drawn is and maintain your ability to maintain your control in these types of situations.

We certainly have the right to speak our minds.  But there are many ways of addressing any given situation and there is always a calm approach available if we search deep enough.  It takes a powerful person to walk away from an argument.  Calm and control usually gets us to where we want to be.

Ego and being right is normally the cause of most arguments.  If we argue our point, we have allowed ego to take control and snatch away our calm.  This practice of controlling this gets easier over time.  Our own stress levels and peace of mind are far more important than feeding a situation that can grow into something that cannot be harnessed.

Are we not worth the continual enjoyment of peace and calm?

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