The kind and gentle approach is normally
the best approach.
Life’s experiences do take us down many different
roads and during stressful situations we can be prone to instant reaction,
which is not always what we had planned on.
A quick review prior to reacting or a quick rethink after reacting can
help us to address any situation from a different point of view.
Before we respond, do we consider the
affect of our response on the person we are addressing? Do we ask ourselves if something positive can
come out of your expression and verbal interaction? Will our reaction bring things into
focus? Will our reaction cause strife or
will it stimulate a verbal confrontation?
We can certainly experience much more control
if our reaction or interaction in slow and deliberate. Learning to control reaction is a positive
step forward. Giving ourselves time to assimilate
what has happened before we speak can bring about positive results to all
involved.
In most cases if we approach a situation in
a temperate manner, people usually react in similar fashion. Sometimes it does not matter how gentle we
are, there will be those that come at us in an aggressive manner. If we stand back and still approach the
situation in a kind and considerate way, many will recognize your control and
lower their aggressions. For those that
still carry on in rage, we can certainly walk away. This is not an indication of weakness, as
becoming aggressive in the interaction would be much easier. It takes strength not to be drawn is and
maintain your ability to maintain your control in these types of situations.
We certainly have the right to speak our
minds. But there are many ways of
addressing any given situation and there is always a calm approach available if
we search deep enough. It takes a
powerful person to walk away from an argument.
Calm and control usually gets us to where we want to be.
Ego and being right is normally the cause
of most arguments. If we argue our
point, we have allowed ego to take control and snatch away our calm. This practice of controlling this gets easier
over time. Our own stress levels and
peace of mind are far more important than feeding a situation that can grow
into something that cannot be harnessed.
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