If transiting Neptune is in opposition (180
degrees) to your Venus, your natal Venus will be In Virgo around the time of
sharing this post. Venus in Virgo can be
overly analytical and potentially critical when it comes to love and
affection. Rather than spending time recognizing
the positive qualities linked to their lover, they may spend too much time
thinking about what is missing or what is wrong with the relationship. This can create problems and the partner in
the relationship may feel as though they are never doing enough or never meeting
your expectations. Venus in Virgo is
often looking for the perfect mate, an idealized individual. These individuals may even place their lover
on a pedestal of very high standards and expect characteristics that very few people
are capable of having.
I acknowledge that I am spending some time
referring to the more negative manifestations of Venus in Virgo because we are
about to discuss the opposition to Neptune.
Neptune may put that partner on a pedestal and you may over idealize
their true potential. What is possible
within the relationship may be coloured by what you imagine the relationship
could/should be. Seeing things as they
are may be something that you are not willing to undertake. Often the real characteristics of this person
are revealed after the transit has run its course.
This is not to say that the perfect lover
cannot be found during this opposition, but the possibilities are not overly promising. It is rare to meet that perfect individual or
it is rare that your current lover or husband is perfect. We must remind ourselves that we, including
our partners, are human. Seeing this
individual in their true light is what is required during this aspect and recognize
that everyone has flaws and no one is perfect.
If you look at this relationship with clear vision, you are less likely
to become saddened or disappointed when the visual or mental perceptions created
by this aspect have cleared.
Your expectations may be unrealistic or the
other person’s expectations may be too high.
These expectations do not have to come from you. Although, because of you have Venus in Virgo,
the potential is higher that it is you that feels these things and not your
partner.
You may be finding that the real world has
become rather boring and has nothing to offer in an enlightening manner. Now there is a possibility that someone may
come into your life that offers some light and helps you through these
feelings.
With this aspect, sometimes communication
is not overly clear with your lover. Sometimes
hidden motives are part of the equation.
It is best to be on your guard and not be lead astray because of your
imagination and clouded visions during this period. It is always best to take a realistic view of
things and even ask others what their perception of the situation might be. They will see things a little clearer than
what you might during this aspect.
Another outlet for this opposition would be
your creativity, and you may find that others seem to push you in directions
that appeal to this creativity. The
creative experience can be linked to all kinds of inspired endeavours, and it
is actually a good time to explore any new avenues of expression during this
time. Your imagination is expanded now,
and you might be surprised at your innovative potential.
Make a marked choice to go into things
without any expectations during this aspect if this is possible. Be open and see where things take you. Over time, all that we have referred to will
become clearer, and you will know where you stand. Imagination is a great thing when it works
with you but can be misleading and you might be led astray by it.
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