The need for our own
personal space and yet the need to be close is often a personal dilemma shared by
many.
We all need and want
to be loved and appreciated. We expand
in the warmth of loved shared. We also,
however, need our own personal space and the ability to move in whatever
direction we see fit.
Many couples are
confronted with this paradox.
Are you being
smothered in a tight and loving relationship?
Do you feel as though you are being cornered or contained because of
this? Or are you without a personal
relationship and wish you were in one but at the same time like your freedom?
Being single or in an
open relationship means that you can do what you want when you want without
having answer to anyone but yourself.
This is preferred by some but offers insecurity and possibliy loneliness
for others.
Being in a close personal
relationship means sharing our lives with someone we love and never feeling
alone. However there will be days when
we need our own space and the demands of our partner may be trying.
In a perfect world, we
have a balance of both and it is achievable as long as there is give and take
on both sides. Finding someone who gives
us space to live our life without obligations is pretty rare, yet if we truly love
someone, we don’t mind giving up a little personal freedom in order to
share. Is true love not
unconditional?
It is essential that we
are open and communication with our partner if we have chose to share this life
with someone. It is important to discuss our own personal
needs, so that others know what we are experiencing. Just as important, we should allow our partner
to be open with us and respect what they need.
A partnership is equal give and take without keeping tabs.
Spend a few minutes
each day in quiet solitude even if only for a short walk, a quiet shower or a
quiet meditation.
These little practices can provide personal space.
On the other side of
the coin, create special moments together such as a romantic dinner without the
television or telephone interrupting. Take
a stroll through a park hand in hand.
We can even take care
of both needs….why not meditate together holding hands. The mind has its personal space but the
knowing of love can fill our heart.
One thing is for certain,
other people’s needs are important but so are our own; talk it out.
What do you do to
satisfy your need for personal private time yet sharing your time lovingly with
your partner/children/parents?
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