How many of us judge others and how they live?
Our view of others is tightly entwined with our personal
view of self and more often than not mirrors our own self image.
Because of other’s personal view of themselves, we should
not allow ourselves to be affected by others’ opinions and
judgements. Someone else’s opinion says much about them and little about
you. They recognize or exaggerate a specific quality in you and because of
a lack of self-reflection, do not consciously see this within themselves.
We unfortunately can be blind to our own habits and
reactions, and it can be helpful when others share their observations. We must
keep our ego under control, however. Honest self reflection can point out
“shortcomings” and with recognition comes solution. Another method to
recognize characteristics within ourselves that we may be blind to is to pay
attention to those things that bother us about others. This can be an
excellent personal monitor to assist in self reflection.
What others think is their issue. Our own opinion of
self is truly important. Because of this, make sure that you are seeing
yourself clearly and not selling yourself short.
You do not have to please others, but you must be happy with
who you are. Take an honest look. Do some self reflection. Sometimes
acknowledgment can be challenging but necessary. Other times what we see
can expand in a very positive sense.
It IS good to reflect and be sure to include all the great
qualities as well. What we focus on expands. Where does your focus
lie?
This also holds true for others. When we look for fault
in others, fault is all that we will see. If we look for the greatness in
others, then greatness will be seen.
Do not make a career out of judging others or yourself. You
will never accomplish excellence. Self analysis and paying attention to our
positive attributes, these we can excel at. Moving away from constant negative
reflection which will allow contentment and happiness.
Find your true expression and stop worrying about what
others think!
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