ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS

Do relationships last forever?  They certainly can but there has to be boundaries that are put in place.  Healthy relationships accentuate our inner self.  They stimulate gratitude.  They push us to be the best loving person we can be.  They join us as one in the most positive ways.  When there is turmoil within a healthy relationship, we fight for the cause with love, understanding and compromise. 

If you find yourself in a relationship that is emotionally draining and/or physically abusive, but feel you must keep on giving because it is the right thing to do, you need to examine why you feel this way.  Be honest with yourself.  Is the relationship worth the continuous emotional drain?  Are you often pushed around mentally or physically? Are there other red flags in your relationship?

Some relationships unfortunately are harmful.  Unwanted conditions must be dealt with, for if left unchecked, they can affect your inner most core.  In many cases, the individuals being emotionally or physically abused or controlled are insecure and resist walking away.  The ideas of being alone to face life’s challenges, mentally, physically and financially, produce insecurities and fears. 

For those of you in these types of relationships, ask yourself, “Am I happy?  Am I healthy?”  Once again, be honest with yourself.  Truly evaluate the circumstances you are living under. 

Are there children also experiencing these events?

Are your children witness to abuse, animosity and even hatred?

As parents, do we want to teach our children that the norm in life is to be unhappy?  The example before them IS their normal. 

If the relationship is beyond repair or abusive, or if you feel that you have to keep giving it all you have for the children but the effort is not reciprocated, perhaps you will need to review your priorities. 

If you or your children are being verbally or physically assaulted, love yourself enough to move towards change, whatever change is necessary. There are many agencies available to assist you in your decision.    We all deserve to be happy and safe.

Find the strength and the self-love required to take the first step, whatever that first step may be.  You can overcome your insecurities and fears.  Stand tall with your resolve.  There is a future that is waiting for you.....one that you truly deserve, but before you can move forward, you must let go of the past.

Each and every one of us is equipped with great strength.  There is a full reservoir of love and happiness in “your name”.  Believe in yourself and not in the abusive, degrading labels place on you by someone else. 

No one else can provide you with happiness.  This is something that is only attainable by you.  Happiness comes from within.  Allow you “self” loving light to shine!     

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The Sun in Leo

Shortly, the Sun will be in the sign of Leo.  Those born within the first few degrees of Leo, or the last couple of degrees of Cancer are known as cusp personalities and carry both the signature of Leo as well as Cancer (inner self).  The Sun’s orb of influence is 16 degrees.  As a result, anyone born at let’s say 2 degrees Leo will have 10 degrees of influence in Leo and 6 degrees influence of Cancer.  This explains how there are some blended character traits in the preceding and proceeding signs depending on your date of birth.  There are also many other mitigating factors that determine personality traits, although the Sun sign dominates the “inner” persona.

The Sun sign of Leo is a very noble position as its ruling planet is the Sun and its symbolic representation is the Lion, the king of the jungle.  This is what strong Leo personalities express in their character.  They want to be noticed and in most cases they stand out in the crowd.  Leo’s are rather regal in their demeanour.  They like to be the centre of attention and when they enter a room, you will know that they have just walked in.

In most cases they are very likable personalities and will bend over backwards for anyone, as long as they are recognized for their efforts.  Some could be considered a little egotistical, although their concern and caring is genuine.  They are usually very loving and considerate people.  They will go out of their way to assist you and help you in whatever way is required.  This comes from the heart and they are genuine in their caring nature.  There is nothing pretentious about them, but a pat on the back for their diligent efforts is greatly appreciated.  When they go out of their way to assist another and their efforts are not recognized, they can easily be hurt.  They mean what they say but may promise a little more than they are able to deliver.

In general people with strong Leo characteristics in their birth chart, and this would include those with many planets in the sign of Leo, a Leo Ascendant or several planets in the fifth house, are loving, well-meaning and generous with their time and energy almost to a fault.  They are gracious and easily open their hearts to anyone that may come along.  They are affectionate people with big hearts who genuinely want to make others happy.

Many of these whole-hearted individuals have lofty dreams and they are hard workers.  They enjoy the good life and with persistent efforts can make some of their dreams come true.  They have a good idea of what it is they want and will go after it and make things happen, not only in their life but also in others’ lives.  Life does not always come easy for them, but regardless, they are willing to work diligently towards any goal.  Once on course, it is hard to shift their focus.  They are determined individuals once they are set in motion, although they do have a retiring side when it comes to relaxation and can easily shift themselves into a relaxed mode. 

Leo is a fire sign and a fixed sign suggesting that they are determined when striving for their objectives and will not easily be swayed by others, especially once their mind is made up.  However they are willing to listen to advice even if they do not take it, but they will adapt if necessary.  Their intentions are always on the up and up, and if others do not take their advice or appreciate their good natured intentions, they will have committed a great injustice and the Leo individual can easily be hurt.  They want to be appreciated!

Confidence runs high with the typical Leo and yet they can be quite humble when others show their appreciation.  If they were to make a mistake, and they will accept responsibility for mistakes that they make, they will do what they can to repair the situation.  Sometimes they will blame themselves when in fact it is someone else who deserves the blame.  Much depends on what their perspective is on that person.

If you are looking for a true friend and companion for life, one who accepts you for who you are and accepting all of the little flaws that you may have, Leo is the one you are searching for.  They will be loyal to the end, stand by your side in times of trouble, and always offer help when you are in need.  

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YESTERDAY'S MEMORIES AND TODAY'S CHALLENGES

We all have fond memories of yesterday.  Some are so pleasant that we have great difficulty letting go of what used to be and moving forward with today.  Holding on to memories can be tantalizingly enjoyable.  It can also be tumultuous and even incredibly sad, but remember these are just that, a memory. 

Some might say that today is based on our yesterdays and it is hard not to agree with this concept, but the past is the past.  We can neither return there nor change the past.  We must allow the past to remain there and move in new directions that are no longer relevant or significant to our past.

It can be challenging for some to come to terms with events of the past and to realize that the past is no longer.  Change is difficult for most of us.  Some of us will fight tooth and nail to keep things as they were, but in so doing, we can be delaying wonderful experiences waiting to happen.  It can be very difficult to take that next step or turn that next corner for the unknown can be intimidating.  All change, good, difficult or indifferent, can create anxiety if we fight against it.  Opening up to growth and having faith that we are always moving in our intended direction allows life to flow so much easier.

Some people have expressed that life is relentless and so exasperating.  They feel as though they are at the mercy of life events.  There are even those that take drastic steps to try to alleviate change or to moving forward, to the point that they have stopped living productive lives. 

We can never give up regardless of the situation.  We are here to live, learn and love.  Why would we anticipate the worse for tomorrow?  Does it not feel encouraging and lighter to anticipate something wonderful for tomorrow?  Taking a step back and leaving tomorrow to tomorrow, do we not feel contentment living in this very moment (right here, right now) and realizing that ALL of our needs are being met in this very moment. 

Most of our struggles come from not receiving what we anticipate or feel that we SHOULD have.  Sometimes we are simply fighting with ourselves.  Sometimes we just want that easy route out.  In most cases, there is no easy route for growth, but rest assured, life perpetually changes. 

If you choose to, you will find your way.

Never give up on life.  Stay strong in the face of adversity and find that little glimmer of light that is always there (but sometimes not seen).  If you look hard enough, you will see it.  You will find a new and more productive route to follow. 

The most challenging of life’s circumstances often produce the most magnificent outcomes.  We are on our chosen paths.  Nothing in life is too challenging if we decide to charge forward, no matter how great the challenge may feel at this moment.

Stay strong and learn from these stepping stones.  You will find the strength you need and you will overcome.  Challenges are put in place for you to grow from.  When we find the courage to confront these issues, we blossom in so many ways.  Believe in yourself, acknowledge the moment and have faith in tomorrow.

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TRANSITING URANUS CONJUNCT NATAL VENUS PART I

Uranus is known as the awakener and it brings forth unexpected events.  When it conjuncts the planet Venus in the natal chart, Uranus’ action (which is pretty much inevitable) seeks to either move away from unwanted or stale relationships or unite with someone who can bring forth new and adventurous conditions into life--sometimes both. 

Venus is the planet of love and affection along with comfort which includes luxury items.  It is also connected with social events.  Much of the action that Uranus will impose on Venus depends on the natal aspects between these two planets and the state of each of these planets in the birth chart.  If for example Uranus and Venus are in trine with one another in the birth chart, the potential for a happy outcome and good things are exemplified.  However, if Uranus and Venus are in square to one another in the birth chart, we can expect the unexpected and these events could be less than desirable. 

The effects of this conjunction in transit are usually quite dramatic in their nature.  The desire for freedom and something new is often an offshoot with the meeting of these planetary energies.  Much of this could pertain to relationships and if an existing relationship has been going along smooth, the chances for disruption is often possible if not probable; however, if the relationship is built on a solid foundation and has stood the tests from challenges in the past, it will undoubtedly be resilient enough to pull through the conditions Uranus may assert on it.

 

Uranus wants to rebel against anything that no longer serves a purpose and pushes for new direction.  It needs freedom.  It is not uncommon to meet up with an “electric” individual who sweeps you off your feet during the conjunction of these two planetary energies.  This new individual may be exciting and original in their approach, and there is something about them that pushes you in directions you may not have taken previous to meeting them. 

Often things happen on the spur of the moment and without warning; life just happens.  Expect the unexpected is what you can anticipate when Uranus is involved and although this individual may be exhilarating, as quickly as they came into your life, they may leave just as quickly.  This is not to say that the relationship will not endure, but there is potential that this new and thrilling person may have come into your life to create some very necessary changes and then leave quickly and expectantly.  Uranus instigates and promotes change when the current conditions in life no longer fit the criteria that our lives now require.

We are told that we are too long winded at times so we are going to end this post here but we still have so much to say about this aspect.  We will be posting the Sun in Leo on July 23 so the continuation of Transiting Uranus Conjunct Natal Venus will be continued on July 28. 

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MAINTAINING A POSITIVE ATTITUDE FOR HEALTH

Our mental process and outlook is linked to health.  A healthy attitude about life will often promote an improved state of well-being.  Look at those around you who are in general good health; how is their attitude to life in general? 

A healthy attitude is said to be one of the important ingredients needed to conquer cancer.  It is not a guaranteed that a positive outlook will cure cancer by any means but it certain is part of the cure and promote a healthier approach to the disease and any other disease we may face during our life time.

Those that eat well, exercise regularly and enjoy a healthy mental approach to life are happy overall.  Their ability to process and their ability to rationalize when faced with adversity seems to be far more positive and productive than those with a less than ideal outlook.

There are many people who suffer from varying illness and chronic conditions.  We are not suggesting that they can be cured through a healthy diet, exercise and a positive attitude but these three changes will not make these conditions worse.  Anyone with a healthy attitude about life is happier, more content and many live long and very satisfying lives.   A healthy attitude will do much to alleviate any mental conditions associated with chronic conditions, inherited illnesses or life’s unexpected twists and turns.

We all know someone with challenging physical or mental conditions but they rarely speak of these condition or complain about their effects.  We recognize these individuals as unique in some way and also strong will.  We can learn a lot from these individuals.  How many of us complain about minor ailments and conditions?  We own our conditions and make them personal which in turn only feeds our negative focus. 

Some battling major illnesses also suffer financial stresses because of their ailments but somehow they still take on a very positive route not only in their own journey but also in the journey of those around them.

If we are blessed enough to meet such individuals during our lives, it is important to pay heed and listen to their message and take in their example.  If we truly see them for who they are, and not their disease, their message is often quite apparent and we can learn valuable lessons presented by these special people. 

If the soul has chosen to live a life under these conditions (and there are many around us who live with horrific ailments), these must be invaluable lesson that the soul wants to learn.  Many believe that the individuals that have returned to confront these conditions progress or grow rapidly in the realm of spiritual knowledge and soul growth due to these conditions.

Maintaining a positive attitude and having a positive outlook, regardless of the path we walk, is very important for a happy life.  Health and happiness are partners generally, although there are acceptations to this.  Keep a healthy attitude.  Our bodies are temples and should be treated as such.

Maintain your positive power.  Be happy that you have a place in life and share this with everyone you meet.  Generate a more positive life approach by living in that circle of thought on a regular basis. 

A healthy attitude is an important ingredients to our health and wellbeing.  It is not a guaranteed that we will not face an ailment in our lifetime, (we do not know what the soul has planned) but a positive attitude will certainly promote a healthier approach to life, with or without disease.

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THE POWER OF OUR BELIEFS

The power of our beliefs or focus is certainly an acknowledged concept yet many of us follow along life’s path without paying too much attention to our belief structures or our day-to-day focus.  We realize and accept that we mold our life and our future potentials as a result of our beliefs and expectations, yet many of us are not overly concerned with where we allow our thoughts to roam. 

It is essential to recognize where we focus our thoughts on a regular basis.  This is not to say that you have to become obsessed over every thought that we process.  If we acknowledge the overall themes of our thoughts eventually we recognize the detrimental thoughts immediately and correct them to a more positive and beneficial direction.

How often have you said to yourself, “I won’t win anyway”, “Why did I do that.  I’m so stupid”, “Why does this happen to my?”, “I can’t....”, “I’m not smart/strong enough”, “I’m not as luck as you”, “If I don’t make this work......,”, “If I do not pass this test/examine......”, “Money doesn’t come easy.”, “Money is the root of all evil” and the list goes on.  When asked why people think this way, we have received rebuttals of “I am just being realistic!”  Do you recognize the self-defeating energy of these thoughts?

If we allow our mind the ability to process as it desires, ego will become boss and we then we are at its mercy.  We have the ability (with practice) to maneuver our thoughts in any direction.  Exercise your mental muscle and channel your thoughts to your benefit.  The masses, at this point in human development, have not been able to manipulate the events that take place in our lives but we certainly, with practice, can influence and control our reaction to each and every event we face throughout a day.  Build your future today by molding your thoughts and reactions now.  Frequently throughout your day, practice positive focus.  Checking in to see where your thoughts are taking you.  If you find them wondering back to negative focus, gently redirect them to back to positive thinking.  If you know that you become less positive when you are tired or hungry, this is the time to pay particular focus on your attitude.

Some of us insist that life is an illusion.  This may be true.  We are, however, still here experiencing this earthly existence, illusion or not.  Why would we not want to create what you want from life?  Understanding the illusion may be part of the solution.  Objective, conscious manoeuvring of our thoughts and focus are one of the more conscious things that we can do each and every day. 

Focus on love, compassion and giving without measure.  Is that an illusion? 

Understand that the life you are creating affects others and the general energy flow in this existence.

The best example we can present to this world is peace, love and tranquility.  Is this not what we seek?  Lead by example.  Living your life along these lines of expression will simply draw more of the same.  We are the initiators of action.  We are all one.  We are all created equal.  How are you going to utilize the opportunities and gifts you have been given?   Will you see them as blessings and allow them to flourish?  Will you not recognize them at all and squander them?

We leave you with a thought......”I love my life and each and every person that shares this experience with me.  Life provides me with an abundance of all that I need and want.”

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