ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS

Do relationships last forever?  They certainly can but there has to be boundaries that are put in place.  Healthy relationships accentuate our inner self.  They stimulate gratitude.  They push us to be the best loving person we can be.  They join us as one in the most positive ways.  When there is turmoil within a healthy relationship, we fight for the cause with love, understanding and compromise. 

If you find yourself in a relationship that is emotionally draining and/or physically abusive, but feel you must keep on giving because it is the right thing to do, you need to examine why you feel this way.  Be honest with yourself.  Is the relationship worth the continuous emotional drain?  Are you often pushed around mentally or physically? Are there other red flags in your relationship?

Some relationships unfortunately are harmful.  Unwanted conditions must be dealt with, for if left unchecked, they can affect your inner most core.  In many cases, the individuals being emotionally or physically abused or controlled are insecure and resist walking away.  The ideas of being alone to face life’s challenges, mentally, physically and financially, produce insecurities and fears. 

For those of you in these types of relationships, ask yourself, “Am I happy?  Am I healthy?”  Once again, be honest with yourself.  Truly evaluate the circumstances you are living under. 

Are there children also experiencing these events?

Are your children witness to abuse, animosity and even hatred?

As parents, do we want to teach our children that the norm in life is to be unhappy?  The example before them IS their normal. 

If the relationship is beyond repair or abusive, or if you feel that you have to keep giving it all you have for the children but the effort is not reciprocated, perhaps you will need to review your priorities. 

If you or your children are being verbally or physically assaulted, love yourself enough to move towards change, whatever change is necessary. There are many agencies available to assist you in your decision.    We all deserve to be happy and safe.

Find the strength and the self-love required to take the first step, whatever that first step may be.  You can overcome your insecurities and fears.  Stand tall with your resolve.  There is a future that is waiting for you.....one that you truly deserve, but before you can move forward, you must let go of the past.

Each and every one of us is equipped with great strength.  There is a full reservoir of love and happiness in “your name”.  Believe in yourself and not in the abusive, degrading labels place on you by someone else. 

No one else can provide you with happiness.  This is something that is only attainable by you.  Happiness comes from within.  Allow you “self” loving light to shine!     

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