It can be very difficult when a close
friend is experiencing a difficult experience.
We all have our moments. It is
always reassuring knowing that there are those individuals that are always there
to lend a hand when we are in need.
Life at times can seem unfair and it is
easy to allow ourselves to be swept away by circumstances that enter our
lives. There are times when answers seem
to be unavailable and relief seems very distant.
If you are assisting someone emotionally
through some life altering experiences, remember not to allow yourself to get
caught up in their emotions. You cannot
be of aid when you take on the emotion of their situation and make it your
own.
There are those that are so psychically involved
that they make other people’s issues their own, often without knowing it. They experience depression but do not
understanding why. You can reach out to
offer your help, your emotional support and to provide an ear for venting, but
do not get caught up in other’s problems and take on the emotional attachment.
Allowing others to unload is probably the
greatest assistance you can offer. Often
when we are experiencing stressful situations in life expressing their
frustrations is an important release. It
is often difficult to open up and be honest when faced with such situations.
A true friend will neither judge nor take
sides. Regrettably, it is their road to
walk and although we feel great compassion and honestly wish to help, change
and decisions are theirs to make. Some people
get so caught up in the moment that they truly are not looking for help or
advice. They are just looking for a
means of releasing and unwinding.
Be their friend in need, but do not harbour
their anxiety. Love them by showing them
you care, but leave the emotion behind when you have done your part.
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