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Thursday, 31 May 2018


How many of us judge others and how they live?

Our view of others is tightly intertwined with our personal view of self and more often than not mirrors our own self image. 

On the flip side, we should not allow ourselves to be affects by others opinions and judgements.  Someone else’s opinion says much about them and little about you.  They recognize or exaggerate a specific quality in you and because of a lack of self-reflection, do not see this consciously within themselves.  Our subconscious is seldom fooled however.

We unfortunately can be blind to our own habits and reactions and it is helpful when others share their observations.  We just have to keep our ego under control.  Honest self reflection can help us recognize our “shortcomings” and with recognition comes solution.  Another good method to recognize characteristics within ourselves that we may be blind to is to pay attention to those things that bother us about others.  This can be an excellent personal monitor to assist in self reflection.

What others think is their issue.  Our own personal opinion of our self is truly important.  Because of this, make sure that you are seeing yourself clearly and not selling yourself short.

You do not have to please others, but you must be happy with who you are.  Take an honest look.  Do some self reflection.  Sometimes acknowledgment can be challenging but necessary.  Other times what we see can expand on our personal view of our expression in a very positive sense. 

It IS good to reflect and be sure to include all of the great qualities as well.  What we focus on expands.  Where does your focus lie? 

This also holds true for others.  When we look for fault in others, fault is all that we will see.  If we look for the greatness in others, than greatness we will see.  How can we judge unless we have walked in their shoes? 

Do not make career out of judging others.  You will never accomplish excellence.  Analysis on self and paying attention to our positive attributes ....these we can excel at.  Move away from negative reflection and allows contentment and happiness. 

Find your true expression and stop worrying about what others think!

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