RELATIONSHIPS THAT MATTER

If you are in a relationship that holds special significance in your life and the road is under construction, the route is twisted and you are not sure which way to turn, you need to listen to the inner voice of reason without ego interruption.  The voice within that speaks about turmoil and obstruction without little chance of rectification is the ego’s intervention.  The ego thrives on uncertainty and anguish and will intentionally play havoc with your emotions.  Ego will try to filter your thoughts.  It can be relentless in its pursuit, as control is its prime objective which is at any cost.

If you listen a little more intensely and allow your mind to pass by the ego’s inference that is telling you something is wrong within the relationship, you can begin to find a place of solace where the ego’s intent cannot penetrate.  You may ask the question “What can I do to make this meaningful relationship survive the onslaught of interference that seems to be prevailing at the moment?”  You must approach with the understanding that it is up to you to carry out this intervention.  Never expecting the other to alter or make changes for you, because this is what true love is.  You will always find a solution and actually a very simple one to help you to accept this partner for who they truly are.  Remember, we are referring to a relationship that has true meaning with a loving partner, a partner who is not abusive, one who is not stifling the relationship, one who is not reducing you to a dull reflection of self.

The mind tends to dig deep for answers to relinquish internal dilemmas and outside obstructions that sometimes come into our lives but only “appear” to be an immovable object.  The answer is truly simple, but before we go into this explanation it is suggested that you view your current life’s conditions and the environment you are living in.  If you are honest and look at the big picture, you will probably find that you have been living under conditions that are stressful and outside influences are the cause behind what is taking place in your world now.

If life tables the occasional difficulty, we undoubted fight through the circumstance without much attention.  However, when life tables several issues or conditions, your response to your current condition can create stressful and you can allow yourself to be overwhelmed. 

Take a good look around you and see what is going on.  There are probably many conditions that you are responding to in a stressful way, and as a result of your response, you are deeply affected on one level or another.  Step back and have an honest look.

The issue is not between you and your partner.  You and your partner love one another, thought at times it is hard to recognize.  The love is deep and persevering and you feel that although life is stressful and your actions sometimes infiltrate your partner’s well-being, you honestly mean no harm.  It is just a release valve and unfortunately, your partner takes some of your steam.  This is not acceptable, because there are other avenues of release that can be pursued.  Consider changing your eating habits, developing a healthy exercise routine, practice meditation and asking the higher forces for assistance.

The answer to your problem has already been disclosed, or at least a major part of its source.  Now what can you do to make things better?  As previously stated, it is simple.  Show your partner that you love them.  Be expressive in your love.  Sit close together, hold hands, and talk openly about how you feel without resentment and blame.  Your world is a reflection of what takes place within and this is the starting point.  Make inner adjustments to your being, to your attitude toward life and your expectations of what you think life holds for you and your partner.  Raise your expectation level a degree or two, and reflect.  You love each other.  This you truly do not question.  Be sure to show it!

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