Toxic relationships that just seem to drain you of your virtues and essence do not have to be forever. If you find yourself in a relationship that is damaging you emotionally and perhaps even physically, why would you feel that you must stay? You must examine the “why” behind this thinking. You must be truthful to yourself. Is the relationship worth being infuriated, emotionally drained or int...imidated? Have you physically been pushed around? Even just one physical encounter is unacceptable.
Relationships can produce unhealthy conditions that must be discarded to preserve your inner self. In many instances, those being crushed by hurtful remarks or physical control are too afraid or not confident enough to walk away. The idea of being alone or financially burdened or even the fear of retaliation jails some people in stagnant or violent relationships. Some individuals remain because they feel they deserve to be punished.
You have to ask yourself, “Am I happy?”. Once again be honest with your response. If the answer is no, take your questioning a little further. Am I unhappy due to my expectations of my partner or am I unhappy due to abnormal conditions in my relationship?
Perhaps there are children subject to these abnormal occurrences. Do they watch violence or depression due to circumstance? Do they believe that abuse, either physical or mental, is normal in relationships due to their experiences? Do not allow these enormous atrocities to weigh heavily on these innocent lives.
These little ones when subject to this level of animosity and hatred will carefully decipher the words being used and the actions being taken on a totally different level than you or I do. You are providing these little minds with information and teaching them a distorted concept of right, wrong and “normal”. If you raise them under adverse conditions and they see you infuriated, stressed, depressed on a regular basis, you are embedding these conditions as “normal” for their futures.
If the relationship is beyond healing or if you remain in this relationship for your children, perhaps it is time to review your priorities. If you are being verbally abused or physically assaulted, love yourself enough to step away. You and your family deserve to be happy.
Never give up on life, regardless of what the mind infers. Know that if you are willing to take the first step to help yourself, regardless of how painful that first step is, the possibilities are endless. Any thoughts of retribution or denial or even thoughts of self-worthlessness will need to be examined, perhaps with a professional.
Stand tall and make your move. Do not give up or resort to permanent solutions for temporary conditions. There is a future that is awaiting you, but before you can move forward, you have to let go of the past.
You are equipped with great strength and have a full reservoir of love and happiness reserved in “your name”. Move out of illusion and into reality. Believe you can do it. Happiness comes from within and the door is wide open. Walk through. Do not surrender yourself. You were born to soar! Allow this to happen.
Visit Holm Astrology at www.facebook.com/HolmAstrology for more of our food-for-thought posts and for information on Astrology. If you would like to keep your questions confidential or would like to speak to us concerning the preparation of a chart, please contact us at holmastrology@gmail.com
Relationships can produce unhealthy conditions that must be discarded to preserve your inner self. In many instances, those being crushed by hurtful remarks or physical control are too afraid or not confident enough to walk away. The idea of being alone or financially burdened or even the fear of retaliation jails some people in stagnant or violent relationships. Some individuals remain because they feel they deserve to be punished.
You have to ask yourself, “Am I happy?”. Once again be honest with your response. If the answer is no, take your questioning a little further. Am I unhappy due to my expectations of my partner or am I unhappy due to abnormal conditions in my relationship?
Perhaps there are children subject to these abnormal occurrences. Do they watch violence or depression due to circumstance? Do they believe that abuse, either physical or mental, is normal in relationships due to their experiences? Do not allow these enormous atrocities to weigh heavily on these innocent lives.
These little ones when subject to this level of animosity and hatred will carefully decipher the words being used and the actions being taken on a totally different level than you or I do. You are providing these little minds with information and teaching them a distorted concept of right, wrong and “normal”. If you raise them under adverse conditions and they see you infuriated, stressed, depressed on a regular basis, you are embedding these conditions as “normal” for their futures.
If the relationship is beyond healing or if you remain in this relationship for your children, perhaps it is time to review your priorities. If you are being verbally abused or physically assaulted, love yourself enough to step away. You and your family deserve to be happy.
Never give up on life, regardless of what the mind infers. Know that if you are willing to take the first step to help yourself, regardless of how painful that first step is, the possibilities are endless. Any thoughts of retribution or denial or even thoughts of self-worthlessness will need to be examined, perhaps with a professional.
Stand tall and make your move. Do not give up or resort to permanent solutions for temporary conditions. There is a future that is awaiting you, but before you can move forward, you have to let go of the past.
You are equipped with great strength and have a full reservoir of love and happiness reserved in “your name”. Move out of illusion and into reality. Believe you can do it. Happiness comes from within and the door is wide open. Walk through. Do not surrender yourself. You were born to soar! Allow this to happen.
Visit Holm Astrology at www.facebook.com/HolmAstrology for more of our food-for-thought posts and for information on Astrology. If you would like to keep your questions confidential or would like to speak to us concerning the preparation of a chart, please contact us at holmastrology@gmail.com
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