Being of Assistance

Never belittle yourself with the thought that you have nothing to offer.  You are special and have an important role in this life whether you believe this or not.  You are able to assist others through channelling your energy into proper focus based on love and compassion.  You have the ability to tap into your resources and assist anyone in need; you just have to believe in yourself. 

We are all human.  We all make bad decisions and pick up bad habits.  Make alterations to your thinking so that you can forgive and any repair any internal damages.  The first step is accepting responsibility for your own shortcomings.

You choose which route to take in life and will meet up with individuals that temporarily sway your life’s direction and its direct route.  When someone interferes with your own personal growth, you have to take charge and move yourself away from this situation.  This begins with the realization that this individual needed to come into your life to enable you to learn from them.  When you awaken to the lesson, take the information needed and move forward.

If someone comes into your life with issues, know that what they have come to you for guidance with recovery or at least for you to point the way for them to activate their healing.  It is not by chance that people crossed paths.  You can help others deal with their challenges, but ultimately, they always have to personally make the changes.  You promote action; you initiate the recognition process, but they decide when to move away from their dilemma.  If they are not ready for change, it does not matter what you do.  You cannot force them.  It might start with you but it ends with them. 

Ego cannot interfere.  As long as you are aware that you are only a conduit and not the actual healer, the ego remains in its place.  We are all capable to assisting with healing.  Often without even realizing it, we say just the right thing at the right time or offer just the right approach to assist others in their time of need.  The ego is a force that can either work with you or work against you.  It provides reinforcement and can help you with promote confidence that can aid or it will hinder you by wanting praise and recognition.

The next time someone knocks on your proverbial front door and asks for help, know that you have the tools to unlock any problem and open any door.  Have faith!

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