Close Family and Friends

Have you ever sat down and thought about your acquaintances and your close family members.  What is their purpose? 

You undoubtedly have come to terms with friends coming and going in your life.  What was the reason for their “being” at that particular time?  What did you learn and what was shared that made that connection important?

 

Long term close friends certainly play an important part in our life.  Besides comradeship and the sharing of special times, they sometimes seem to know just what to say in times of stress or during the questioning stages that we all go through.  They have been brought into our lives for specific reasons and if you look deep, you will uncover some of the answers.

Most seem to fade away for some reason and some leave us unexpectedly.  They must have served their purpose.  We gained a little insight and growth from each one of them and carry a part of who they were with us (through their influence or impact) as we continue on our journey without their physical presence.

There are the few, the very few that have a lasting quality and we share much of our lives with these individuals.  We grow together and share our experiences together.  They are the special ones; the ones that have undoubtedly linked up with us in previous incarnations.  Pay special attention to these individuals.  They have something specific to teach us and the lesson is, more often than not, found within their personality.

Our close family members also have a special role to play.  These people too have undoubtedly shares previous incarnations with us.  In several cases, we have shared lives many times with these special individuals.  I am not suggesting that these relationships are easy ones as those individuals that we do not see eye to eye with are the ones that can offer the most profound lessons in life.

It is not always under pleasant conditions that we are joined, but sometimes the hardest but most successful lessons come through these channels of learning.  We learn to adapt to these people and love them even when we have issues with them.  In most cases our loved ones are special.  We share much of our lives and could not image living without them.  Whether you relationships are easy flowing or difficult, appreciate the growth that is found through your experience with them.

Count your blessings each day.  Pay attention to your relationships with each person around you.  You might be pleasantly surprised.  After close examination, you may come to a new understanding and appreciate them in ways that you did not before.  They walk the road of life with you.  Enjoy the company.

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