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Tuesday, 14 July 2026

PERPETUAL MOMENT

Motion knows no boundaries. Simply allow. You do not know where you will be tomorrow, so enjoy this perpetual moment. Focus on the here and now; it’s all we have.
Occurrences can happen in a flash.  No time to prepare. No time to digest. No warning whatsoever.

 

I believe that all things happen for a reason, although it can be hard to understand why.

 

One single event can change the course of our lives.

 

We wonder where we are heading. Anticipation can cause anxiety or worry.

 

Even good changes can cause stress, but it can also open new roads to explore. These, as with any moment, are magnified by our attention to each detail. 

 

Life is miraculous and we can be astonished by experiences. 

 

More often than not, we move through life unaware of what lies ahead.  We ponder outcomes without influencing them. We can get lost in our thoughts and can create unnecessary stress by worrying and wondering about possibilities.  Remember, focus creates and amplifies.  It is not always obvious but happens, nonetheless. 

 

Motion knows no boundaries. Simply allow, as life’s journey awaits us.

 

Prepare but eliminate expectations. You really do not know where you will be tomorrow, so enjoy this perpetual moment. Focus on the here and now; it’s all we have.

 

This article is not generated by AI

 

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Tuesday, 30 June 2026

FROM ME TO YOU

From me to you, you are your own architect who is merged with source.  You are peace.  You are love. Listen to the guidance you are given because you are never alone.
This is a private message intended to reach each individual in their own special way. 

 

As we read articles, they resonate differently for each of us.  We receive a unique message because we each decipher the meaning from our own understanding and our past experiences.

 

Each of us see and hear things a little bit differently.  The words we hear have slightly different meaning due to our life experiences.  As we walk our private journey, yet share our life with others, we decipher and learn in our own unique manner.

 

We each experience our life from varying degrees of awareness, yet our paths can be similar. When you read messages and hear other’s conversations, what we take from them is exclusive.

 

Though this message I am writing may not be interpreted exactly as I feel it, my message is simple. Love yourself openly, accepting yourself as you are, shortfalls and all. Make changes that you deem necessary because they are important to you! Experience life to the fullest and enjoy what is right in front of you at this moment. We can miss the enjoyment of life by not paying attention to the here and now. 

 

Opening the channels to peace and in doing so, peace will find you. 

 

Your focus always amplifies its target. Expect more of the same.  Let’s make that focus a positive one.

 

Love those that share your life with you and have compassion for those that you feel are beyond your love. What you give is returned. Do it not because of this but because you want to.

 

Listen and learn. We can always learn more. We are here to learn in this school of life but we are not only a student, we are also a teacher to ourselves and to those touched by us.

 

Do not worry about possibilities as these thoughts manifest as well.

 

Be happy with your life. Accept its lessons; these lessons are there with you in mind.

 

You are intrinsically good; know this and live accordingly.  The person you wish you were already is a part of you or you would have little to no idea of what that might look like. 

 

From me to you, you are your own architect who is merged with source.  You are peace.  You are love. Listen to the guidance you are given because you are never alone.

 

This article is not generated by AI

 

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Thursday, 9 April 2026

WHAT WE CAN CONTROL AND WHAT WE CANNOT

Learning the difference between what we can control and what we cannot can be a difficult lesson. Acceptance can be a beautiful thing.
There are things in life that are completely out of your control.  They often happen when you are least expecting them.  You might experience a car accident, loss of your job, or on the other side of the coin, get a promotion, receive confirmation that your cancer is in remission and most importantly experiencing peace when you least expected it.

 

Many of us want control over everything but more often than not, we are at the mercy of circumstance.

 

Life happens. Situations change. We can blame ourselves for every event (but why?) and take ownership of things we do not own. Perhaps others are involved and our intentions were deeply wanting to assist, for example, but they had no impact. Have we not all blamed ourselves for someone passing-over because we might have been able to do just one more thing different to change the situation? That is grief. Recognize it as such. Sometimes we can give it our best and things still move in a manner that is anything but what we had hoped for.

 

Step back and look with your eyes and not your heart. Many life situations are out of our hands. Each of these events and hardships have lessons for us, however.  Is that lesson “to experience and let go”?

 

Learning the difference between what we can control and what we cannot control can be a difficult lesson. Do your best. Acknowledge you are human. Acceptance can be a beautiful thing when appropriate and bring needed relief.

 

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Thursday, 3 July 2025

REACTIONS IN THE MOMENT

At times, we speak out of turn or say things that even before we finish the sentence, we wish we had not said.

 

Likely on some level, the words needed to be said. Perhaps, it was the best way, at least at that moment, to get your point across.  Often, when we leave things unsaid for an extended period, when we eventually convey our wishes or feelings, they are said in a less than desirable fashion.

 

Change what you can, speak up when necessary and then let go of the past. If the needed change does not come when you request it and it is essential, walk away.  Remove yourself from the situation if there is no hope for change. Be proactive in what you can control, particularly reactions in the moment!
Whatever has been said cannot be unsaid, and you must accept the repercussions of your actions or words.  Clarifying or explaining ourselves is a good idea and an apology is essential.

 

We can’t change what has been said or done in the past so, if for example, our words were cutting due to holding on to unshared feelings, there is a valuable lesson in this event.  Do not let feelings or preferences go unsaid.  It is much better to deal with them in a calm and controlled situation than to express them in the heat of the moment and then regret your expression or actions.

 

Reactions in the moment happen occasionally to everyone.  If, however, your reactions are continually uncontrolled perhaps a deeper dive into why is warranted.  Be honest with yourself, accept responsibility for your actions and make the necessary changes where changes are required, so that the next time you are confronted with events or the urge to react, you can take control of your actions in the moment and deal with them in a meaningful and productive manner.

 

Change what you can, speak up when necessary and then let go of the past. If the needed change does not come when you request it and it is essential, walk away.  Remove yourself from the situation if there is no hope for change. Be proactive in what you can control, particularly reactions in the moment!

 

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Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our spring courses have now begun. Watch for announcements for our fall registrations. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

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Thursday, 2 January 2025

THE DESTROYER OF PEACE

We can’t emphasize enough the impact of our attitude on our life’s experience.  Life happens (both hard and heart-filled lessons) no exceptions.  Challenging lessons present themselves from time to time, and we can’t ignore them or persuade them to just disappear.  They are part of our life, and we must learn the lesson and deal with them accordingly. This is how we grow and mature.

 

We live in our own corner of the world within our family unit. This family unit may be blood related or a chosen family of friends.  We are influenced by what goes on around us and for some individuals, this influence can be overwhelming at times.  Then on top of what we are surrounded by, we have our own internal struggles. Some individuals cannot admit to these struggles or talk openly about them and others are quite open to sharing their emotional struggles. 

 

Reaction, instead of controlled response, is a destroyer of peace. Don’t be swept away by your mind’s chatter. Be the spectator to its babbling. Choose what to own and what to acknowledge and release.
Our minds race back and forth each day making judgements and analyzing all that we are experiencing.  It would be interesting to see how many contradictory thoughts we experience in a day, never mind a year or a lifetime. 

 

Our mind will tell us whatever is convenient and productive to its thinking in the moment. There is constant and continual mental dialog. For many of us, because our mind has control over us, for every action and thought there is also a reaction. This is why we should continually remind ourselves that we are not our thoughts. We are the spectators listening to them. As a result, we can choose which thoughts to act upon and which ones we can allow to pass us by without owning them or reacting to them.

 

We can be swept away by life events from time to time. We tire because we are human, and humans make mistakes. These mistakes, however, are valuable learning tools.  We cannot change things once they have happened (such as our reactions) but we can regain control once we recognize our reaction and move forward accordingly. The lesson is to keep going and each time an event happens, your reactions will be less and less until one day, you can stop the reaction before it takes place.  

 

Life is in your hands; it always has been. 

 

Reaction, instead of controlled response, is a destroyer of our peace. Will you start taking responsibility? Don’t be swept away by your mind’s chatter. Be the spectator to its babbling. Choose what to own and what to acknowledge and release.

 

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Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our fall courses are now underway. Watch for announcements in late winter for registration for our spring courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

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Thursday, 13 June 2024

THE BEST YOU CAN BE

There is so much talk about being the best version of yourself.  That would be ideal, but realistically, we are human beings, with flaws and shortcomings.  No one is perfect and those that believe they are can take a second look.

 

Learn from your mistakes and be the best you can be. With the right intent and self-control, we can be compassionate and understanding even in the heat of the moment.
You will make mistakes along the way.  You will do things that you wish you had never done.  You will say things that you will regret later.  There is no doubt about this. The more we work on ourselves certainly the less frequent these events occur.

 

Are we supposed to get caught up in trying to do everything perfectly?

 


Are we supposed to live our lives for the sake of the judgement of others?

 

Life is about learning and sometimes we learn the greatest lessons from things that we may have done in error.  “Wrong” is a judgement.  You have to recognize a mistake as being incorrect.

 

According to merriam-webster.com a “mistake” by definition is a wrong action or statement proceeding from faulty judgment, inadequate knowledge, or inattention”. There is no calculated intention. It just came about without a concentrated effort.  Sometimes things just happen.

 

We are not perfect beings, but we can pay closer attention to how we live our lives, to the way we receive others and our interaction, especially with those we love.  We tend to allow our worst when in the company of those we are comfortable with.  It is not malicious intent (at least unless we are provoked). When provoked it is certainly not acceptable to use violence or intend to emotionally hurt others.

 

Live your life to the best of your abilities.  Know that you will make mistakes along the way. You are human with emotions, but also recognize the fact that others do as well.  Even those that do not show emotion have sensitivity that is either not easily brought to the surface or is held back.

 

In the heat of the moment, most people think that anything goes, but we must take responsibility for our words and our actions.

 

Pick your battles and gauge what is worth arguing over and in some circumstance whether it is important to be right. 

 

Physical violence is inexcusable and so are hurtful intentions (whether words or actions) with or without provocation. 

 

As it is said “sometimes s*&t happens” so don’t be too hard on yourself. Learn from your mistakes and be the best you can be. With the right intent and self-control, we can be compassionate and understanding even in the heat of the moment.

 

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If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com

 

Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our spring classes are now underway.  Watch for announcements in late summer for our fall courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

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