A BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIP

When first meeting someone who interests us on some level there is a spark that ignites the relationship.

 

There can be many variables on why we might take a liking to someone.  They may be intriguing or have shared interests, common goals or a strong sexually attractive and the list goes on and on.

 

As we get to know this person, our attention shifts. These relationships either grow, stagnate or dissipate.  We either continue to enjoy one another’s company, are indifferent or we for whatever reason do not enjoy it. 

 

A beautiful relationship can develop particularly if core values are shared.  As a relationship grows we begin to understand what we enjoy about the other person and the characteristics that we do not appreciate.  To have a good relationship, we must be able to accept all parts of the other individual.

 

As we share time and learn more, something special can occur.  We begin to see the true beautiful person within with no pretenses. This can lead to a special bond. We are gifted with being able to feel and sometimes see the true individual.  There are special innate qualities inside everyone, and we can enjoy that beauty if we look close enough.

 

No relationship comes without its flaws, but we can accept them if we feel they do not define the other person.  If they do, we have decisions to make.

 

If we look deep enough and can see past minor irritants, we find that a beautiful relationship is within our grasp.  Life is precious and we can share our most intimate experiences with those we love. 

 

All things are wide open to your own interpretation. What will you focus on?

 

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UNWIND THE COIL

Have you felt as though there is one challenge after another lately?

 

Does the coil of life feel wound tight?

 

The beauty of life is that it never remains the same for any length of time. What may seem like an eternity might only have been in place for a short period in the grand scheme of things.

 

As we know, life takes us to where we need to go, no matter how that might look at the time. We are where we are to learn the lessons we need to learn for this moment. Once learned, we move on. Change is guaranteed.

 

Life is the teacher, and the lessons are revealed in perfect timing.

 

We will experience times of challenge, times of elation, and times of rest.  Lessons are often best learned during the challenging phases, because we are focused and must concentration on problem solving whether that is adapting or stimulating. 

 

When life moves along nicely, we often pay little attention, but we do appreciate these moments.

 

As we have mentioned throughout many of our articles, focus is key.  Our focus brings us to places we might not want to be, but it also can take us to places where we want to live forever.  Focus magnified whatever we are concentrating on.  The more we focus, the more of the same we see!  Just more of the same…. 

 

When we are fixated, it is not easy to change our perception, after all we might have been in that particular mindset for a very long time.  There is hope, however. It will take work, but we can unwind and let lose the focus of our thoughts that prove to be anything but fruitful.

 

Don’t try to ignore something.  That only brings more focus to what you are trying to ignore.  Instead, change your focus.  Make a concentrated effort to see something positive in whatever situation you are in.  Practice appreciation of whatever is good in life.  If you feel something is missing in your life, think of what you have.  If one aspect of your health is poor, focus on the positive aspects of your health and if the poor aspect can be changed, make the needed changes.

 

A positive attitude is essential with any acute or chronic conditions.  Some illnesses can make us realize that our life is worth fighting for. 

 

Take nothing for granted and bask in the joy of living. Live in the moment and unwind the coil of worry. It adds nothing to the quality of your life. Appreciation adds value.

 

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INTUITIVE UNDERSTANDING

There is a part of you that instinctively just knows.  Even though it is a “knowing” the ego and the logical mind can create questions. 

 

Intuition can create a breakthrough beyond logic. It is an understanding without preconceived notions.  There is a part of you that can answer most any question, sometimes the answer comes from imagination, sometimes from logic and other times from “other” sources.

 

You can rely on intuitive as long as the imagination is held at bay.  Intuitive instinct can be a warning or it can be a message that we need to listen to. 

 

We still have the ability to heed or discard.  There are nearly always choices. I say “nearly” because sometimes things happen so swiftly that we don’t have time to make decisions and we just follow the intuition.

 

There is always someone (for the lack of a better word) there to help guide you along life’s path, especially when challenges are at hand.  They can be relied on, and the information we receive from them is always for your own good.  The message can come in different modes. These modes can be advice given, for example, by a close personal friend who has always been there when you needed them, or it can come from an advisor or a person in a position of authority, but what we are talking about stems from outside the usual sources.  The sources we speak of are our guides, our higher self, and those that have already crossed over (those whom are generally not seen with our physical eyes).

 

It has been said that guides are there whenever we need them.  As you grow and mature, our guides may change as our needs do so that they are more suited for that specific stage of development.

 

Reach out and someone will be there. Rely on your intuitive understanding. Never give up. The answer is available. You’ve got this!

 

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LIVE TODAY LIKE IT’S YOUR LAST

We have all heard the saying “live today like it’s your last” or something similar.  If this were the case, how WOULD you live today? 

 

Would you make any changes or just move forward in the same direction and with the same intension? 

 

Let’s say that perhaps you had 6 months left to walk this earth. Now, how would you live it and would you change anything about who you are, the way you represent yourself, or the life you lead? 

 

Would you pay more attention to those you love? 

 

Would you forgive those that may have done something you disapprove of? 

 

Would you change work or your attitude towards the benefits of your work? 

 

Would you treat people differently?

 

Would you pay more attention to the details? 

 

Would you spend time in nature acknowledging its beauty and tranquility? 

 

Would you travel more, go out with your friends more, love life just a little bit more? 

 

Would you recognize the true value of friendships? 

 

Would you spend more time with family and pay particular attention to those that you love?

 

Would you work towards reconciliation with those that have become estranged?

 

Would you explore your inner consciousness through deeper connections perhaps through meditation techniques? 

 

Would you go to church or pray more or connect more with a spiritual journey?

 

We are all here for a short walk.  Time can pass with little notice.  As we age, we may ask ourselves more questions such as those above. Why do we have to wait until later in life to become aware? 

 

It does not matter what age we are currently, we have an expiry date, and there are no guarantees that you will reach old age. 

 

Let’s make our awareness a little more powerful as early as we can. Make each moment in life meaningful and don’t take it for granted. Live today like it’s your last.

 

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UNDERSTANDING HUMAN BEHAVIOR

Human behavior varies so significantly from one individual to another that trying to comprehend the “why” behind behavior can be almost impossible.  We are all different and convey our message in different tones, under different conditions and with varying degrees of sentiment and emotion.

 

Many conversations take place spontaneously in the moment, although others are carefully thought out and practice ahead of time. 

 

With some people, they are that fickle that what is said in this moment can be taken with a grain of salt in the next. 

 

If a serious conversation triggers worry and anxiety, a calm, caring demeanor can help the situation and make the other person more comfortable.  Sometimes these conversations can be a heads up for our benefit and in other situations there is a need for the speaker to unload.  An ear for listening and maybe gentle reassurance is all that is needed.

 

How do we truly understand human behavior? 

 

Unless we have taken steps in someone else’s shoes, we likely have no concept of their journey. Words can convey a sentiment, but the meaning is interpreted differently by each set of ears that listen. We can only understand from our own vantage point and experience.

 

When we verbally dump our baggage, who are we really talking to?

 

The only person that truly understands what we are say is self.

 

Compassion connects us even if we cannot fully perceive what someone else is trying to say. We will never truly understand human behavior and perhaps that understanding is not important.

 

Understanding our own behavior should be highlighted. Self-understanding can help alleviate concerns or stressors we may experiences. 

 

We are complex creatures open to suggestion, at least most of us. We can learn from one another, especially when we discuss with others who have experienced what we are going through.  Experience is the best teacher. 

 

Understanding human behavior might be difficult, but it is made easier with a compassionate heart.

 

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LIFE REALLY IS NOT SO BAD!

Is life moving at a magical pace? 

 

Are things going so well you struggle to believe it this can happen to you?

 

You may ask what you did to receive this or question if you deserve this.

 

Doubt can slip in unnoticed. You may question yourself if you are “Good Enough”. 

 

Stop doubting yourself. In an authentic manner, be appreciative of what is happening. 

 

I say authentic because you must look at your life in the present moment and appreciate this moment for what it is.  Not just because you know this is what you are supposed to do, spiritually speaking, but because you truly, deeply appreciate your life in this moment. 

 

Maintain this positive momentum. This moment is perfect.  It is important to stay in the moment rather than anticipate what is to come. If we cannot appreciate what is here now, how can we appreciate what will be?

 

Your life may not be perfect, in your opinion, but in reality, it is exactly what you need in the moment.

 

Take time to reflect on all that is in this moment with gratitude.  It may take some time for you to recognize that “life really is not so bad.”  This is when your eyes can be opened to the good or perfection that surrounds you. When your eyes are open, you regularly reflection with appreciation and more begins to unfold.  You might have to look deep initially but the door is beginning to open.

 

Life will still happen to all of us, but we also know that we must experience life, all of life, no matter how we choose to look at it.  Our attitude is what matters.  Life really is not so bad. You hold the key, open the door to gratitude.

 

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OBLIGATIONS AS A PARENT

Our children are our children regardless of their age.  We will always be Mom or Dad to our kids, although as we age, the gap certainly begins to shrink.  In some cases, our children become our best friends, after all they have been with us since their beginning.

 

As they mature into themselves, it is important to remember that as we made our way through adversity and learned valuable lessons so will our children.  We are their parents but, at some point, we must step back, trust in the seeds we planted and let them learn through life’s experience and their own judgement.

 

This can be a very difficult task, as we feel we must advise and help in whatever way we can.  Reassure them that we are always there for them. The lessons they learn through experience are the most valuable and the ones that they remember. 

 

Do you remember when your parents tried to advise you? 

 

Most of us felt they were out of touch and interfering.  Your children will likely feel the same way.

 

We do have obligations as parents and we do our best.

 

The world they are growing up in is different from the one we grew up in. Life was easier on some levels and also more challenging on other levels.  

 

Be the example they need. Nothing speaks louder.

 

Remember you are human. If you made mistakes when they were young, acknowledge the mistakes and then let go.

 

Every day is a learning experience. Our obligations as a parent are to teach by example and to love and reassure them that we care. They too will make mistakes just as we did. Forgive them and forgive yourself.

 

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FREEDOM FROM BONDAGE

We can seek freedom from many different things.  One important freedom is to free ourselves from the bondage of our mind’s interference.  Our mind can get caught up in the past or worry for the future.  We are so trapped in our worries that we forget that our focus amplifies and can become all consuming.  We are so focused on “what ifs” or “has beens” that we forget to live.

 

We continually hash over experiences to the point that they take up permanent residence in our head, and we continually loop over and over again on what was or what might be, much like the movie, Groundhog Day. 

 

We torture ourselves over what we could have done or what we might be able to do. This can also lead to pointing a finger at others and laying blame for events in our lives. Alternatively, we can take responsibility for events that were completely out of our control.  Does this sound familiar?

 

Our bondage stems from our preconceived notions of what we think SHOULD or SHOULD NOT have happened or what might happen in the future.  One suggests we have control issues and the other suggests we worry about potentials.

 

Some people truly do live in their self-made bondage, whether that bondage be mental or physical.

 

The bondage of fear robs us of living. Some of us may be tied to the security of our home environment. Step out and breathe the air of freedom.

 

Some are held in bondage because of the acts of others or life’s circumstances.

 

Can you rise above or break free of your personal bondage? 

 

Do you worry about potential outcomes if you take action? 

 

The unknown can create fear but you are stronger than that fear.

 

Ask yourself if you are supposed to exist under these conditions.  Of course not.  You are here to live!

 

It takes courage but make the choice to live not just exist.  You and you alone must make that decision.  You do not have to do this alone.  Reach out for support or help. Take the first step to freedom from bondage.

 

Break free! You are worth it. Start living!

 

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TRY, TRY AGAIN

If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again! 

 

Never give up.  Always give it your all.  Some things are worth working or fighting for.  There is satisfaction in knowing that you did your very best even if the outcome was not as planned. 

 

It is important to weigh out the cost (time, effort, value, odds) before committing to something. There are no guarantees in life, but if you don’t try, how do you know?

 

The rewards for a battle well fought usually pays high in dividends.

 

No matter what the goal, working towards a promotion, building a name for yourself, getting more healthy, saving a relationship, if it has value to you, it must be worth the effort!

 

Some things are more important than others. Set your priorities.

 

Obstacles only mean a little more effort. They will test your resilience, but they will teach you valuable lessons.  Life lessons can lead to irreplaceable outcomes.

 

If the cost is too high or the outcome unattainable, walk away!  That is not giving up; it is being accountable.

 

If there is potential for a favorable outcome but it entails hard work, so be it! Try, try again! Many things in life are worth it.  Give it your all. If you fall, get back up! When there’s a will, there’s a way!

 

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BUILDING TOWARDS THE FUTURE YOU ALWAYS WANTED

So where do we begin? 

 

How do we align with our needs and dreams? 

 

Any dream or goal starts with planning but the most important thing to do is taking that first step.

 

Why not start now?

 

As a matter of fact, the longer we hold off, the greater the likelihood of our mind getting in the way and we talk ourselves out of moving forward. The mind tends to interfere with plans. Some call this egoic interference.

 

Where do you begin?

 

We begin with the planning and define what we are hoping to achieve.  Be specific! Do not overwhelm yourself with large ideas.  Build from the ground up.  Start small and have no expectations, positive or negative because “the universe” knows what it is that you need.

 

What is your focus….love, peace, comfort?

 

If you wish is money, is it really money you want.  Might you want comfort, security, freedom, happiness?

 

The ways our hopes and wishes manifest are endless but have no judgement on whether or not this is right for you. Know that what you wish to manifest in your life will help along the way and open doors in the future.

 

As mentioned, the mind will attempt to interfere with these objectives.  There may be thoughts that suggest failure on some level, or that you don’t deserve this outcome. Anything realistic is attainable and it is only the mind’s interference that begins the process of holding us back from achieving our goals.

 

Ego can work in several ways.  It can assist us or hold us back.  It uses many methods and, in most cases, the quiet little voice that is a positive push is the one we need to listen to.  Positivity is never forced on us and it does not guarantee results but it certainly makes the journey more enjoyable and opens many more doors than negativity.

 

Be patient and learn from your experience.  You can learn a lot about yourself. Are you filled with determination or the lack thereof? 

 

The road may not be direct or easy. It has taken us a lifetime this far to reach our current point on the road of life. Remember, belief structure and expectations are the ingredients that either work with us or hold us back, in some cases stifle us completely. 

 

Believe in yourself.  Know that anything can happen. Have faith in the process.  Be diligent, learn patience and grow from all experiences. 

 

Once you begin to realize small results from your steady work towards building the future you always wanted, the rest seems to follow far more rapidly. Step forward!

 

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