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Showing posts with label attitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label attitude. Show all posts

Thursday, 16 April 2026

ASPIRATIONS AND GOALS

At what age do we begin setting goals for ourselves? 

 

Some begin very early in life to set financial goals, others wait until later and some never aspire to creating a “nest egg”.

 

Most of us wish to be comfortable, at the very least. It is quite normal to set goals for financial success. However, when setting these goals we must make sure that we are not coming from a place of shortages and that we are not becoming obsessed with the need for more.

 

We live in a material world, so there it is expected that we set these goals. However, should material achievements be our only goals?

 

Let’s keep our minds open. The only limitations are the ones that we put on ourselves. Our thoughts, aspirations and goals have ripple effects.
We do not have to be fixated on material aspirations.  We can also choose spiritual or metaphysical ambitions. When we search for our spiritual connection (whatever spirituality may mean to you), we realize that this is not something that we need to seek, because it is already a part of who we are.  Look within and we can recognize that connection. Many of our readers have mentioned that they do not feel worthy of this connection and the reasons behind this vary immensely from person to person.

 

Knowing that our belief structure expands with focus, we need to pay attention to our beliefs, our expectations, our focus.  These will build and more will come your way. Focus is key. We need to regularly review our beliefs and expectations.  Are they advantageous?

 

Let’s keep our minds open. The only limitations are the ones that we put on ourselves.  We can focus on opening our minds as well as letting go, practicing and allowing. It gets easier with disciplined effort. 

 

Our thoughts, aspirations and goals have ripple effects.  We mold our reality with our belief structure and focus. What is possible?

 

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Tuesday, 14 April 2026

DUTY AND OBLIGATION

There are some actions in life that we are obligated to carry out. We must have a job in order to provide essentials.  We need to look after our health to enjoy good health. We have an obligation to ourselves first and foremost, but we also have obligations to our elders, family, boss, co-workers, friends and the list goes on, in varying degrees. There are things we must do to keep the flow of growth and opportunities in place.

 

We have a duty to our family, especially to our children as they slowly move forward into their own lives.  They learn from our example. We are likely reflected in the actions of our children in some form or another.  Because of this, we must set an example that is worthy to be carried forward. 

 

Being that good example comes easier if we have respected our obligation to ourself as we mature. It is important to foster positivity into our daily lives. It is essential to formulate an action plan that includes our wellbeing. We do have obligations beyond ourselves, but we must take care of ourselves to be of assistance to others. You cannot feed someone from an empty cupboard. 

 

We have the ultimate tool to initiate change--our attitude. A slight adjustment can help us go from chaos to calm.  It our duty and obligation to ourself.
Is our attitude one that promotes or allows happiness, or are we caught up in the challenges and noise of life?

 

How can we shift our focus away from the noise to accommodate harmony within?

 

We have the ultimate tool required to initiate change.  We can change our attitude, first and foremost.  A slight adjustment can help us go from chaos to calm.  Attitude is perhaps the most important ingredient in making life more manageable, if not enjoyable. 

 

Life can and will be difficult at times.  We cannot change what life throws our way, but we can change the way we look at these lessons.  In our mind, we can change the word “difficulties” and use the word “lessons”.  That in itself is the first step.  We can learn to turn our reactions to actions.  Reactions are uncontrolled.  Actions are purposeful and productive.

 

It takes little effort to be a victim, but it comes at a high price of stress and lack of enjoyment.  Go from victim to victor over your life experience.  It does take work, much effort, in fact initially.  We are creatures of habit.  Break the habit and exercise the “finding the positive” muscle.  The more you exercise it, the stronger it becomes.

 

If we look for hatred in this world, we will find much hatred.  If we look for compassion in this world, compassion will show up.

 

A positive attitude is not going to change the world around you (but it might); a positive attitude will change the world within and make the world around you much more enjoyable.  A life of peace and appreciation is within our grasp and much of what we might want for ourselves is available if we wish to work for it. 

 

Believe in ourselves; push ourselves a little. Make it our duty and obligation to have peace within under any of life’s conditions.  We are strong and resilient. With determination, we can do anything we want to help ourselves through any of life’s situations. We are always learning and becoming stronger if we exercise what we need to.

 

#astrology #HolmAstrology #BarrieAstrologer #OntarioAstrologer #spirituality #spiritualjourney #inthemoment #schooloflife #lifelessons #change #lifesjourney #attitude #focus #resilience #peaceofmind #newblogpost

 

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Thursday, 2 April 2026

IT’S ALL OR NOTHING

There are times you just have to go for it.

 

You have spent countless hours contemplating and now you realize that the moment has come for you to advance.  You feel it. It IS the time.

 

It is important to pursue your dreams and goals. Are you ready? Get set……go! It’s all or nothing. Give it your all and reap the rewards.
Give it your all and don’t back off, not even for a moment.

 

For each of us, this focus will be a different one. No matter what the focus, push through any adversity and forge ahead.

 

You may have been waiting for a long time, and something has held you back.  Was it fear?

 

Do not step on others to get there. Karma is real. This is not about revenge or getting even, life looks after that. It’s about just reward, doing the right thing, and letting life take you to where you are supposed to be.

 

Fear can hold you back, but do not let it!

 

Move forward armed with information, with positivity and the best intensions. You can do this with or without assistance.

 

Who will benefit?

 

Take care of yourself but if you can incorporate benefits for others, that is much more rewarding.  Listen to your intuition. Step forward with hope and compassion.

 

It is important to pursue your dreams and goals. Are you ready? Get set……go! It’s all or nothing. Give it your all and reap the rewards.

 

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Tuesday, 3 March 2026

SIGNATURE LIFE EVENTS

Walk your road; learn from your signature life events. You advance, fall back, push forward, persevere, deliver & accept. It’s all a learning process. Life is a mystery yet so magical, too.
We experience events that act as steppingstones in life and these events propel us forward!  We also have events that foster growth through perseverance, diligent effort, experience and by what some would term chance. 

 

Often, we can feel as though we are at the mercy of life, when life seems to dictate and create struggles that are so overwhelming that we feel stifled and lose faith in our journey. 

 

In the next breath, we can experience what feels like a miracle which takes us to places we never dreamed we could reach. 

 

Either type of events can create major turning points in our journey.

 

At times, we work diligently for something we have set as a priority and we can fall short. There are even times when we complete a difficult life lesson where we feel we have actually moved backwards in our journey.  Remember, however, we learn valuable information from our shortcomings and blunders. The experiences can be very unpleasant, and our egos can be wounded; but we will remember the experience and use this new information or tool moving forward. Do not be emotionally hurt by failures. Our attitudes can make the experience excruciating or fill us with gratitude for the lesson. Remember, it is our ego that is suffering not us (we are not our ego).

 

We can enter some journeys or life lessons as one person and come out at the end of the lesson a whole new person. These experiences often set events in motion that further our evolution even more further down the road of life.  In some cases, we look at life from a completely different perspective after these life lessons. 

 

We can begin to recognize that the flow of life is gauged by expectations, belief structures and focus.  Magic is present with our expectations, and we welcome new adventures (lessons) that promote long-term healing and potential for further growth.

 

We should always remember that we walk our path with others and our actions have ramifications.  What we do in life affects others.  Life has profound ripple effects. Our movement can motivate others or hinder others, temporarily.

 

Walk your road, learn from your signature life events. You advance, fall back, push forward, persevere, deliver and accept. It’s part of the learning process. Life is a mystery but oh so magical, too. 

 

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Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

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Thursday, 22 January 2026

FIND RESOLUTION

Are you caught up in doom and gloom? 

 

Do you want to stay where your mind is living (your focus)?

 

Does your attitude create anxiety? Find resolution. Life lessons will happen but your response to them creates the experience.  Do not react; respond intentionally.
Many people have mentioned they feel lost and overwhelmed due to outside sources.  Many are overwhelmed by the current financial environment of uncertainty.

 

Everyone faces hurdles, some obvious, some not so obvious.  Life holds many experiences.

 

We have options available to us to relieve the challenges of everyday life.  All things in life are temporary. Absolutely nothing is permanent. Change is guaranteed.  We must learn to act when we can and accept when change is out of our hands.

 

The most important act we can take is to examine our focus or attitude towards any given event.  We have talked about this many times, but it is so important, we MUST repeat it!  If you are dealing with something causing anxiety and worry, you have to step back and look at it from a clear, unemotional perspective.  What can you change, especially, how can you change your attitude towards this life lesson?

 

It is not an easy task to shift our thoughts and expectations, but we are all capable of making the adjustments necessary to ease the tensions being felt.

 

Shift your focus to the great things in your life, whatever they may be (no matter how big or how small).  Release your focus on what is missing; focus on gratitude.  Don’t ignore the life lesson as the lesson is there to be learned.  If we ignore it, it will only heighten the circumstances as we cannot escape these lessons. We can’t hide our heads in the sand.  We must face the situation head on dealing with it in a constructive manner and not get caught up in believing that it will not go away or that we cannot fix the problem.

 

If we see the positive, we feel the positive.  If we focus on negativity, all we experience is negativity.  It takes work.  We are not suggesting that this will come easy, but refocusing is similar to a muscle.  Keep exercising it and watch is strengthen.  Be persistent.  Do not give up or give in.  Be determined! Dig in your heels! 

 

It has taken years to develop your attitude, it will take effort to change it.  You can do this!

 

Find resolution by looking within first.  Is your attitude your greatest source of anxiety? Life lessons will happen but your response to them creates the experience.  Do not react; respond intentionally.  Practice, practice, practice!

 

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Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

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Thursday, 2 October 2025

SIGNIFICANT RELATIONSHIPS

We meet many different individuals over the years.  Some individuals end up forming important relationships with us, others come and go.  Important relationships can last for years; some even a lifetime.  These relationships can be with marriage partners, parents, children, friends, co-workers, etc. 

 

For those open to reincarnation, it is believed that these important individuals have been with us previously.  Some with clear insight can recall prior relationships or at the very least get glimpses of them.

 

Wrap your heart around significant relationships. Some are not easy ones, but most are worth the effort.  Communication, compassion & forgiveness are key
Some relationships aren’t always easy to maintain.  It has been said that “nothing worthwhile comes easily”.

 

For any relationship, we must persevere at times and learn the art of bending when we need to and conceding when appropriate.  Arguing about who is right often serves no purpose and is initiated by ego.

 

With individuals in some relationships we have many similar interests and yet other relationships we can be quite different from one another but nonetheless the relationship carries on. 

 

Materials rewards seldom hold a relationship together, even though security is important. The bond must be much more than that.

 

If we have been together previously, it is likely a blessing that we have come together again.  We frequently learn the most valuable life lessons from those we become close with.  Love and affection are deep and, in some cases, they can be buried. From a deeper perspective, we come together to assist in our combined journey.  We grow together and help each other along.

 

Forgiveness is a huge part of lasting significant relationships as there are times when we can feel mistreated. Communication is key and so is compassion and forgiveness (a short memory for past events is also helpful). We are all human and prone to make mistakes.

 

Wrap your heart around significant relationships. Some may not be easy ones, but most are worth the effort.  The more challenging relationships are the ones that we learn the most from although those that are loving and affectionate also teach us lessons too. 

 

Life is a mystery. Be grateful for your experiences and appreciate those that share your life with you.

 

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Thursday, 18 September 2025

CONNECTIVITY ABOUNDS

Your perspective affects everything in your life. Are you paying attention or are you just dismissing what is available? 

 

It is and has always been your choice. It’s never been outside your grasp, but you must reach out to retrieve it. 

 

Belief structure, expectations and focus create our reality.  Connectivity abounds but our focus is key. Believe to feel, heal and connect.
Connectivity abounds. It surrounds you. It always has. Your focus and frame of mind either brings to you or pushes away from you. 

 

Connectivity is available for everyone, even those that believe that they no longer are connected. It is also available if and when we reach out.  We are never alone.

 

Believe and the door opens!  Even just a smidgeon of belief opens the door enough to feel, to begin to heal, to find assistance and to be in contact. 

 

Will you take this opportunity or are your beliefs holding you back? 

 

Belief structure, expectations and focus create our reality.  Connectivity abounds but our focus is key. Believe to feel, heal and connect.

 

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Tuesday, 9 September 2025

OPEN THE DOOR

Open the door to transformation. A good attitude, focused expectations and forward motion is what is required.  Make this a memorable time for advancement.  Use your energies appropriately.
Open the door. The energies are ready for transformation…..for an idea to materialize, to manifest. 

 

Always have faith in the process and believe it can happen to or for you.  Doubt stifles potential.

 

In the coming days, depending on your readiness and belief structure, the door can open. 

 

Lunar eclipses are significators of disruption and new beginnings. The energy is now in force from the Pisces Full Moon Lunar Eclipse we experienced a couple of days ago.  Use the energy to your advantage and delve deep into yourself.  Inner structuring is unfolding, and you can apply these energies in areas that need revamping and organizing in life.

 

Inner working often is coordinated with outside influences and assistance is readily available and easier to access.  Be mindful of what it is you want to achieve or attain.  This is not to say that this is a time to unleash the power of positive thinking, because any time is the time to unleash positive thinking. This is, however, a time to put into practice what helps you achieve what you set out to do.

 

Inner work is generally required, but an honest look is certainly needed, or inner changes cannot take hold.  Be gentle with yourself but push ahead.  Do what needs to be done and advance.  Strive for what is right for you without any influence from others.  This is personal in nature.

 

Open the door to transformation. A good attitude, focused expectations and forward motion is what is required.  Make this a memorable time for advancement.  Use your energies appropriately.

 

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