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Tuesday, 17 December 2024

REGENERATION AND TRANSFORMATION

During ages 28-29, 40-43 & 58-59, we go through stages of development sometimes brought on by others, by our own needs or by life circumstances.  We learn to adapt & push our way forward through the continual regeneration & transformation of life.
A shift occurs for many around the age of 29, again around 42 and once more about the age of 59.  These are common times when we go through major regeneration and transformations inside and out. These times can be rather traumatic or in contrast quite liberating.  These are turning points in our ongoing evolution.

 

At the age of roughly 28-29, we find ourselves moving through a period of testing and a time of new beginnings, and in some cases, endings.  We enter a new stage in life where who we were previously no long matches the person we are becoming or we may set out to accomplish something that we deem necessary in our life. We may reach out for change to gain momentum and cement our future.  In a year or two after our 28th or 29th birthday, life looks completely different and our groundwork we created during this transition period laid the foundation for what is yet to come.

 

Between the age of 40 to roughly 43, we are again faced with decisions.  Has our life become stale? Is it time for regeneration? 

 

What used to be likely no longer suits our current journey.  During this phase, we are subject to sudden moves and sometimes these are rather unpredictable. There is a degree of uncertainty as to “should we or should we not” with whatever we are contemplating.  When we do decide to move in a new direction, other people may be surprised because what was in place seemed normal or traditional and our current actions seem a little erratic.  But as we go through this period, we find that life’s direction has changed, and our actions have put us on track and have moved us in the right direction.

 

At around age 58 or 59, we go through another major transformation as we approach the senior stage of development.  Some contemplate retirement.  Some are put into situations where life takes them down a road that they did not foresee.  Some change direction and begin anew although not often as dynamic as the previous change period around 42.  This current stage is a time of maturation and development that will now push us forward into our golden age although this may still be a long way off. We are preparing for these days and understand that time waits for no one.

 

During the periods around ages 28-29, 40-43 and 58-59, we move through stages of development sometimes brought on by others, sometimes brought on by our own needs and sometimes brought on through life circumstances.  We learn to adapt, regenerate and push our way forward through the continual regeneration and transformation of life.

 

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Thursday, 12 December 2024

BELONGING

We all need to feel a sense of belonging. Open your heart to others but just as importantly to yourself as well. Life will open the door & show you love & compassion when you first open the door to love & compassion for yourself.
Whether you are living on your own, have a family to care for or a circle of friends that are important to you, it is important to have a sense of belonging.  We have a need to be a part of something.

 

There are times, however, when we not only feel alone but are alone in the general sense of the word.  We are by ourselves due to circumstances and have no one but ourselves to rely on.  These moments can be challenging.

 

We need to feel loved and appreciated. Humans in general need sensitivity, compassion and care.

 

If we require these needs so do others around us. We too need to show and give what we want and need to others as well.  If you need love and affection, so do others! The wind of compassion must blow in both directions. Be mindful when others need the comfort of your loving touch or your compassionate understanding.

 

To take the human personal need for belonging one more step, it is imperative to feel a “belonging” or connection with who you are within yourself.  You must understand and accept that you are a work in progress, but no matter how many times you stumble and fall, you still deserve love and affection which must begin with you as self love.  You must learn to love yourself before you can truly love someone else.

 

This journey to feel belonging can be a long tedious one. It can manifest through different life experiences. 

 

We all need to feel a sense of belonging. Open your heart to others but just as importantly to yourself as well. Life will open the door and show you the way to love and compassion when you first open the door to love and compassion for yourself.

 

#astrology #astrologer #HolmAstrology #spirituality #themoment #spiritualjourney #schooloflife #TodaysLesson #lifelessons #selflove #loveyourself #belonging #compassion #love #Newblogpost

 

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Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

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Thursday, 14 November 2024

NOW AND FOREVER

One thing guaranteed in life is that nothing stays the same.  There are alterations and challenges in our life’s course, that if we choose to ignore, we will have to address again further on in our journey. 

 

Change is the motivating force behind growth now and forever.  We are on a course that will bring forth what is required at each stage of development, and we are always able to make our way forward.  We are stronger than we think we are and have ingrained abilities that will help us to persevere even during the most harsh lessons.
Change is inevitable and for many, often not welcomed. Change can come when we least expect it and can foster happiness and expansion or stress and withdrawal. These responses, however, are choices.

 

We learn through life’s experiences and most life lessons are inevitable.

 

Our attitude towards these events is what either propels us forward or holds us back.  Know when to ride the wave of change and to appreciate the journey even during times of disruption. 

 

We are not suggesting that a catastrophic event in life should be welcomed with open arms, but we must accept what is and adjust accordingly.  There are often deeper meanings behind events, and these change the course of our lives. 

 

Look around you and know what is taking hold in our world. If life is moving along fairly smooth, acknowledge and be appreciative. Have gratitude for the blessings in your life. 

 

When a life lesson presents itself, learn it to the best of your abilities, grow and then move forward.

 

Change is the motivating force behind growth now and forever.  We are on a course that will bring forth what is required at each stage of development, and we are always able to make our way forward.  We are stronger than we think we are and have ingrained abilities that will help us to persevere even during the most harsh lessons.

 

#astrology #astrologer #HolmAstrology #spirituality #themoment #spiritualjourney #schooloflife #TodaysLesson #lifelessons #attitude #gratitude #growth #choices #change #resiliance #ChangeIsInevitable #Newblogpost

 

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Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

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Tuesday, 5 November 2024

OPPORTUNITY AWAITS

There are times when everything just seems to fall into place without effort; life just seems to flow. 

 

At other times, there are opportunities, but we must take advantage of them or else they can slip away without effect.  We realize we should have taken advantage of what was available but it was too little too late.

 

Life lessons can be tedious or they can be a blessing.  Opportunity awaits us. Do not squander them when they knock because of fear!
When we know that there is an opportunity at hand, we might have second thoughts.  What if this is a mistake or what if we are not seeing things or building on things? 

 

Fear enters, and we do nothing simply because we worry about failure. 

 

Perhaps we will fail or have shortcomings, and our concerns are quite valid, but what if it was just our minds playing with us? 

 

What if moving ahead was the right thing to do and the time was perfect? 

 

What if “what if” and we ask ourselves again and again.

 

Most of us will have occasions to be in the right place at the right time or something magical seems to happen to us out of the blue.  For most of us, this is not a regular experience.

 

We must always do our due diligence to weigh out the pros and cons before we jump; there is no doubt about it.  We can’t go into situations blindfolded.

 

No one has the right to tell us what we should do with our life, and we must make our own decisions when opportunity awaits.  Recognize, however, that no matter what we do, we will move ahead as we should whether it is a hard life lesson or an easy, wonderful walk in the proverbial park. 

 

Life lessons can be tedious, and they can be a blessing.  Opportunity awaits us. Do not squander opportunities when they knock because of fear!

 

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Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

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Thursday, 31 October 2024

COMMUNICATION IS A MUST

The ability to speak your mind, to participate in a conversation, to listen to understand what is being shared are key to communicating effectively with others. 

 

Some people are afraid to open themselves up in case of debate and yet others may take advantage of what they reveal.  Some have insecurities with their intellect and are uncomfortable when open dialogue is required.

 

At the same time, there are those that love debate and even confrontation.

 

It is important to know when to let others speak and to give our full attention. It is also important to be heard and to communicate what is important. Listening, sharing and respect are imperative in effective communication. Communication is a must.
Communication however is not just about speaking. An important key to communicating is listening, truly listening without thinking about what the response is going to be, to give the speaker your undivided attention.

 

In significant relationships, it is important to be open and discuss life events, even those you may feel insignificant.  It is important to open up to those that matter in life and discuss even the most intimate topics so that together resolutions can be worked out. When we open to conversation about any subject, we are closer to those that we communicate with.

 

In general conversation, there are individuals that constantly chatter, possibly because of excitement, anxiousness, lack of communication elsewhere, self-importance and the list goes on.  Those that never stop talking can be quite disruptive and need to be reminded that others have important contributions in a conversation as well. 

 

It is important to know when to let others speak and to give our full attention. It is also important to be heard and to communicate what is important. Listening, sharing and respect are imperative in effective communication. Communication is a must.

 

What type of communicator are you?

 

#astrology #astrologer #HolmAstrology #spirituality #themoment #spiritualjourney #schooloflife #lifelessons #communication #communicationisamust #listen #undividedattention #words #conversation #debate #Newblogpost

 

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Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

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Wednesday, 9 October 2024

SATURN CONJUNCT NATAL NORTH NODE

It is important to note that when transiting Saturn is making a conjunction to the North Node it is also making an opposition to the South Node.  The nodes are always 180° apart. 

 

Saturn while in transit and in the natal chart (unless very favorably aspected by other natal positions) quite often speaks of challenging situations.  The timing seems off when we are attempting to move ahead with our lives.  Things seem to move too slowly, and we often have obstacles to overcome along the way.  Our objectives seem to be met with delays, and it seems to take a lot of work and a sustained effort just to move to the next step in our objectives.

 

Saturn conjunct natal north node will certainly have created havoc with our plans for our life’s path but it will have helped us build a solid foundation and with the right amount of sustained effort, it helps us along the way.  Saturn is the teacher of the Zodiac and can provide great results as long as we are willing to do the work required.
Saturn in the natal chart often describes an area we need to work on.  There are difficulties with our conversations or the way we communicate (3rd house), we find it challenging when it comes to relationships and they are often held up in some manner or delayed (7th house), our friendships or hopes and dreams and our association with groups seem to require a lot of work (11th house), etc.  This is the natal positioning but is also representative to where transiting Saturn is located while moving through the natal chart.

 

When transiting Saturn conjuncts our North Node (Life’s path forward) and makes an opposition to our South Node (a past life or early situations in our life), life will not move the way we want it to.  We might have a lot of work to do when it comes to our North Node and others seem to stand in the way or cause us strife when we are speaking of the South Node.

 

The North Node speaks directly of our path in this life and although this road is foreign to us, we are meant to pursue it regardless.  When Saturn conjuncts the North Node, wherever we place our goals to move towards in life is thwarted and obstacles seem to present themselves holding us up or not allowing us to move in the intended direction.  We can feel frustrated because others seem to slow us down or stand in the way or tell us that they know better and we should perhaps do what they say.  The house position of our North Node will define clearly what area of life is involved in this situation.

 

This energy may last as long as 6 months and if Saturn goes into retrograde, it will last even longer, although while in retrograde we may find that there is less restriction and things move along better.  Saturn in retrograde works much better than while it is in direct motion, unlike most of the other planets. 

 

Knowing how Astrology can be applied to our lives can have a direct effect on when we move ahead and when we decide to stand back and wait.  This certainly does not mean that we are at the mercy of fate and that Astrology will dictate as we always have freedom of choice. We may find solace and solutions however when we understand the workings of the universe and have an understanding of the science of Astrology.

 

Saturn conjunct natal north node will certainly have created havoc with our plans for our life’s path but it will have helped us build a solid foundation and with the right amount of sustained effort, it helps us along the way.  Saturn is the teacher of the Zodiac and can provide great results as long as we are willing to do the work required.

 

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Thursday, 5 September 2024

A LEARNING EXPERIENCE

Life is ever changing and offers experiences as it develops. We, at times, move through a life adventure seeking something of value and other times, are so absorbed in our heads/thoughts, that the events pass us by with little to no awareness from us.

 

When we are in the moment, these events bring with them much excitement, pleasure and/or learning potential, but if and when we are experiencing life on the surface or without focus, we gain little insight. 

 

The key to getting the most out of life seems to be to live in the moment and experience completely each and every event that life sends our way.  We tend to judge each event particularly by its monetary value. Judgment, however, is only a concept of what we believe has significance. 

 

Looking at life as a learning experience places “the lesson” in focus which fosters growth and development. With this focus, you are provided with a learning tool which has value.
Each experience teaches us something.  Each experience tells us something of ourselves.  Some individuals live to experience life, while some just pass through life experiencing the mundane and having no interest in what life is teaching or offering them. 

 

There are bits in life that are tragic, and these events can send us down roads that we wish we did not have to travel.  There are also events in life when everything seems to be miraculous, and life feels as though it teems with wonder and excitement. Oh, the influence of attitude!

 

We move through life, moment by moment, with great expectations at times and without any expectations at other times.  Perhaps it is best to have no expectations as sometimes we experience failure, sadness, despair due to our expectations.  We do, however, need to set goals for ourselves but with flexibility so that we can adapt with our ever-changing circumstances. 

 

Every passage in life prepares us for what is to come next or for what potentially lies in the future.  A bad experience (which is an opinion) does not necessarily mean that life will now always be stressful. This experience was a lesson from which we can grow and improve.

 

What we focus on, we magnify. If you focus on stress, then you will magnify the stress in your life. If you focus on gratitude and appreciation, then you will magnify gratitude and appreciation.

 

We really do not know what life’s lessons will bring, but we do have options on the way we perceive what life is presenting. 

 

Looking at life as a learning experience places “the lesson” in focus which fosters growth and development. With this focus, you are provided with a learning tool which has value. 

 

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Tuesday, 13 August 2024

THERE HAS TO BE RAIN

We experience many highs and lows in life.  We have times of relative calm, mixed with times of heavy downpours of tough lessons.  Life can be irregular to say the least, and we must adapt to all the changing conditions.

 

I have heard the tough lessons in our life being compared to storms.

 

There has to be rain, hypothetically, to further our understanding of what life is teaching us and these quiet times of solitude prepare us for the Sunny days when we can move ahead.
When rain falls in our life, these are times of solitude and the time of pondering ideas and simultaneously readdressing life issues that have not been dealt with so there has to be rain.  Intensions can be stimulated during these rainy seasons, and we have opportunities to go through details and orchestrate future actions based on what has transpired. The rain nurtures change and stimulates growth.

 

When the Sun shines, we are ready to step out in life to begin our venture with high expectations and bright ideas.  We assimilate our action, plan with force and move ahead although we often have no idea what lies ahead.  The sun is lighting the way, and we can address situations with the know-how previously learned in the rainy season.

 

There has to be rain to further our understanding of what life is teaching us and these quiet times of solitude prepare us for the Sunny days when we can move ahead. When we are amid a severe storm, we know that life is teaching us more aggressively, and we must adapt more readily under these stormy conditions.  The storm will eventually clear, and the forecast will get brighter. We can expect more pleasant days ahead, once we have adjusted to life lessons at hand.

 

Yes; We are very symbolic here, but the symbolism is quite fitting. It is comforting to know that there must be a little rain. It is essential from time to time and that the stormy season eventually comes to an end. The Sun will shine bright and bring forth warmth and light. We are strengthened by our experiences. All things pass, even the storms. What are you planning once the Sun’s light returns?

 

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Thursday, 13 June 2024

THE BEST YOU CAN BE

There is so much talk about being the best version of yourself.  That would be ideal, but realistically, we are human beings, with flaws and shortcomings.  No one is perfect and those that believe they are can take a second look.

 

Learn from your mistakes and be the best you can be. With the right intent and self-control, we can be compassionate and understanding even in the heat of the moment.
You will make mistakes along the way.  You will do things that you wish you had never done.  You will say things that you will regret later.  There is no doubt about this. The more we work on ourselves certainly the less frequent these events occur.

 

Are we supposed to get caught up in trying to do everything perfectly?

 


Are we supposed to live our lives for the sake of the judgement of others?

 

Life is about learning and sometimes we learn the greatest lessons from things that we may have done in error.  “Wrong” is a judgement.  You have to recognize a mistake as being incorrect.

 

According to merriam-webster.com a “mistake” by definition is a wrong action or statement proceeding from faulty judgment, inadequate knowledge, or inattention”. There is no calculated intention. It just came about without a concentrated effort.  Sometimes things just happen.

 

We are not perfect beings, but we can pay closer attention to how we live our lives, to the way we receive others and our interaction, especially with those we love.  We tend to allow our worst when in the company of those we are comfortable with.  It is not malicious intent (at least unless we are provoked). When provoked it is certainly not acceptable to use violence or intend to emotionally hurt others.

 

Live your life to the best of your abilities.  Know that you will make mistakes along the way. You are human with emotions, but also recognize the fact that others do as well.  Even those that do not show emotion have sensitivity that is either not easily brought to the surface or is held back.

 

In the heat of the moment, most people think that anything goes, but we must take responsibility for our words and our actions.

 

Pick your battles and gauge what is worth arguing over and in some circumstance whether it is important to be right. 

 

Physical violence is inexcusable and so are hurtful intentions (whether words or actions) with or without provocation. 

 

As it is said “sometimes s*&t happens” so don’t be too hard on yourself. Learn from your mistakes and be the best you can be. With the right intent and self-control, we can be compassionate and understanding even in the heat of the moment.

 

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Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our spring classes are now underway.  Watch for announcements in late summer for our fall courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

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