LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS

It seems long term relationships are far and few between. 

 

During the course of a committed relationship, marriage or otherwise, there will be challenges.  The newness of a relationship only lasts so long and then wears off. The excitement begins to settle, and then the true “getting to know each other” actually begins. We become more comfortable in the relationship and our deeper personality traits now surface. This can be unsettling in some cases, and we can let little insignificant or large surprising traits irritate us.

 

We learn to adapt and accept our differences, or we can challenge and stress over these differences to the point that they may be deal breakers.

 

Some individuals will learn to adapt and are willing to make changes to themselves, while others may refuse to make any changes as they feel they should not have to change for someone else. 

 

In relationships, we cannot expect someone to change to suit us. We can only make changes ourselves, either in character, circumstance or attitude.

 

This can be where some relationships crumble while others gain momentum. At this point, due to acceptance some relationships actually become stronger as love, hard work and acceptance are the backbone of a relationship. There will always be times when the relationship experiences difficulties. The outside world influences everything it touches but if we recognize that the source of irritation is from outside the relationship, the bond can deepen.

 

For those individuals currently going through one of these phases, recognize that in most cases, a slight change of attitude can make a world of difference.  Acceptance, compassion and support for one another is essential. Most irritants are temporary. Remind yourself to review the circumstances and look at the influence of the events around you.  Illness, family, world situations, finances, worry, fear, anxiety and attitude must be taken into consideration.  These can have profound consequences on relationships. 

 

After reviewing outside circumstances, you likely will come to realize that your relationship is good but other parts of life may need some adjustments.

 

For those that are experiencing difficulties in their relationship and have been for some time, be sure to have clear communication. Seek counselling as a professional can offer advice that you may not have thought about. 

 

Long term relationships take hard work, perseverance, love and compassion. Do not let the stress of outside influences affect your relationships. Do the work needed. Your well-being and the well-being of your relationship is worth it!

 

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SMILING FACES

Sometimes we have to use our intuition to understand what a smiling face represents.  Sometimes a smiling face is exactly what it appears - someone who is happy, happy to see you, showing they care and/or want to help.  Other times, a smiling face masks sadness or even worse.  Some can be conniving, scheming on how to pray on the innocent. They look for weaknesses, for those who are gullible or innocent, especially in children and the elderly. 

 

As we write this articles, we are not intending on producing fear in our readers. We simple want to ensure awareness.

 

Most people we meet are kind and considerate and want to help on some level or enjoy friendship and social exchanges. There are many kind souls who genuinely wish to help and there are a few that don’t expect anything in return.

 

Our message is to do your due diligence.  Do not take anything at face value. Confirm who is offering you anything particularly on-line, whether it be assistance, messages, information, etc.

 

Look around you. Look at the services that are offered to those in need generally manned by volunteers.  We live in a close community and have many resources at our disposal.  The general direction of our world is progressive although it may not look that way currently.  It is only the few that cause uprisings, don’t give a damn and put money and themselves first. Too many of us have become distant, untrusting and even vengeful. Don’t get caught up in all that you read and hear.

 

Standing up for your values. Allow yourself to care.  We need to survive and there is nothing wrong with being comfortable but our sole purpose is not to incur personal gain at any expense. We are living in a material world and learning the lessons that can only be taught under these conditions. 

 

Love, compassion and caring rise above all else. We must remind ourselves of this regularly. Let our smiling face be a true reflection of our inner self.

 

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BELONGING

Whether you are living on your own, have a family to care for or a circle of friends that are important to you, it is important to have a sense of belonging.  We have a need to be a part of something.

 

There are times, however, when we not only feel alone but are alone in the general sense of the word.  We are by ourselves due to circumstances and have no one but ourselves to rely on.  These moments can be challenging.

 

We need to feel loved and appreciated. Humans in general need sensitivity, compassion and care.

 

If we require these needs so do others around us. We too need to show and give what we want and need to others as well.  If you need love and affection, so do others! The wind of compassion must blow in both directions. Be mindful when others need the comfort of your loving touch or your compassionate understanding.

 

To take the human personal need for belonging one more step, it is imperative to feel a “belonging” or connection with who you are within yourself.  You must understand and accept that you are a work in progress, but no matter how many times you stumble and fall, you still deserve love and affection which must begin with you as self love.  You must learn to love yourself before you can truly love someone else.

 

This journey to feel belonging can be a long tedious one. It can manifest through different life experiences. 

 

We all need to feel a sense of belonging. Open your heart to others but just as importantly to yourself as well. Life will open the door and show you the way to love and compassion when you first open the door to love and compassion for yourself.

 

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Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

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JUDGEMENT CALL

The saying goes “we shouldn’t judge others unless we have walked a mile in their shoes”. 

 

We can be a sum of our experiences. We really do not know what has brought anyone to the place where they currently exist.  We know very little, if anything at all, about their personal journey. 

 

How were they brought up?

 

What are their innate instincts?

 

What does their natal chart suggest?

 

We are just touching on personal influences but even just these three basic influences can greatly impact our development and progress.

 

There are parameters that are socially acceptable for our actions. It is my opinion, however, that no action is acceptable if it causes strife or pain for us or others.  As a human, this is when it is hard not to judge.

 

Most of us instinctively want to avoid conflict. Yet is it not necessary to stand up against abuse?

 

We have not walked a mile in the abuser’s shoes, and judgement is not needed, only action. It is not ours to understand the why, but we can stop the “what” with action and compassion.

 

Those that create conflict will live in conflict. For every action, there is a reaction. Your actions reverberate and causes waves of influence.

 

Living with compassion, care and concern is not weak!

 

All actions should be carefully considered. What is the consequence of your actions?

 

Make a judgement call on what you are planning to do and what this action or lack of action might do. We can never analyze every possibility, but we can certainly try to do our best in whatever we choose to do or not do. This you can judge….this is your judgement call!

 

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If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com

 

Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Watch for announcements for our fall classes in the future. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

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