WHAT WE CAN CONTROL AND WHAT WE CANNOT

There are things in life that are completely out of your control.  They often happen when you are least expecting them.  You might experience a car accident, loss of your job, or on the other side of the coin, get a promotion, receive confirmation that your cancer is in remission and most importantly experiencing peace when you least expected it.

 

Many of us want control over everything but more often than not, we are at the mercy of circumstance.

 

Life happens. Situations change. We can blame ourselves for every event (but why?) and take ownership of things we do not own. Perhaps others are involved and our intentions were deeply wanting to assist, for example, but they had no impact. Have we not all blamed ourselves for someone passing-over because we might have been able to do just one more thing different to change the situation? That is grief. Recognize it as such. Sometimes we can give it our best and things still move in a manner that is anything but what we had hoped for.

 

Step back and look with your eyes and not your heart. Many life situations are out of our hands. Each of these events and hardships have lessons for us, however.  Is that lesson “to experience and let go”?

 

Learning the difference between what we can control and what we cannot control can be a difficult lesson. Do your best. Acknowledge you are human. Acceptance can be a beautiful thing when appropriate and bring needed relief.

 

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Are you interested in learning Astrology? Registrations are complete for our Spring courses.  Watch for announcements in later summer for registration for our fall courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com

 

Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

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ARE YOU READY FOR CHANGE?

Sometimes change creeps up on us and sometimes we see it coming.  No one goes untouched by it as change is a certainty.

 

Will we fight change when it is presented, or will we adapt and comply with change as it enters our lives? 

 

Sometimes we have little choice as change is a must.  At other times, however, we have a hand in creating the change.  One way or another we must learn to adapt and eventually accept where life is leading us, as most lessons are necessary.  It is much easier to go with the flow rather than swimming against the current of change.

 

We are not suggested to give in with every energy that comes knocking. Perhaps, however, we need to sit with ourselves and honestly analyze ourselves and our current situation. Contemplate why change is being presented. Sometimes all we need to do is make a slight tweak and other times we must do a total revamp.  Sometimes, we have choices and other times we do not.

 

Change can help us move in a more productive direction when life has gone stagnant. Other times change is brought on by our growth as a person. Change on all levels is guaranteed.

 

Many fear change as it represents the unknown and some encourage change due to their adventurous personalities.

 

Do not stress over possibilities allowing the mind to create anxiety and fear. What we worry about seldom materializes. We really do not know what the future holds.  We can waste many hours and, in some cases, many years anticipating outcomes.  We will walk the road we must, with or without our consent.  Accepting the inevitable makes the journey much easier.

 

Are you ready for change?  Do your due diligence and then embrace what needs to happen. Change is always guaranteed.

 

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If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com

 

Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our Spring courses are underway. Watch for announcements in late summer for registration for our fall courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

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Do not stress over possibilities. What we worry about seldom materializes. Do your due diligence & then embrace what needs to happen. Change is always guaranteed. Are you ready for change?

 

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