In many
cases, it takes two to tango, so the saying goes. If it is two parties taking
action or acting out, then both parties need to take responsibility for what
has taken hold.
It is also
important to realize that you act for yourself.
It is just as important to recognize that it is not up to you to push
someone else to make changes. They must make
their own decisions to take appropriate actions. We cannot force others to make
changes to themselves or corrections to their actions. It can be frustrating to
watch someone close being hurtful towards others (including you) or themselves.
Sometimes, people
shoulder the blame for things they did not do or had no control over. How often
do we overthink events and struggle to come up with alternative actions we could
have taken to change an outcome that is already in the past (an outcome we had
no decision in creating)?
“If only I
had made a phone call that day then Charlie (or some other loved one) may not
have been in the car at that precise moment of impact” is a perfect example. The events of life are not yours to own.
Remember, it is not always on you but take ownership when it is. Everyone is responsible for their own actions and choices. Stop blaming yourself when it is not your fault and carrying the weight of others. It is not on you! Have self-compassion and set clearer boundaries.
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