We all experience life events that are anything but comfortable. This is a common thread we all share, and these periodic events can make us feel stifled and can deplete our enjoyment of life.
We feel so content when life flows smoothly, yet when we experience the slightest little twist, we may feel slightly off kilter or struggle immensely.
Realistically,
we cannot escape life’s lessons. Many of us look at them as punishment or bad
luck, and we can get caught up in the event spending far too much time thinking
about “our bad luck” and “why me” as opposed to welcoming the lessons for
growth and expansion.
“Loss” is
often a big portion of our lessons whether it is loss of a loved one as they
pass over or when we walk away from someone or someone else walks out of our
lives and the list goes on.
Are these
actual losses?
A loved one
passing on has just moved to the next chapter of their soul’s journey. How
could that be a loss?
Being with
someone whose energy clashes with us or that we have outgrown is not ideal by
any stretch of the imagination. Saying
our goodbyes and moving on to a new chapter in our life is not a loss. It is a
new beginning.
Our
attitude towards events and choices can make the experience less than ideal or
we can see the event for what it is and use it for growth. A life event,
teaching us lessons that can only be taught this way, they are not punishment
or bad luck. They are growth and propulsion forward. Take life as it comes.
These
lessons can be uncomfortable, for the moment, but remember, they are temporary,
and we will adjust. They provide us with valuable lessons or life experiences
that would not otherwise have been taught.
There is usually a deeper meaning behind these events although we may
not be able to understand what is being taught in the moment. Don’t search for the answers to these
experiences. Let them reveal themselves to you.
The search itself can hold you back.
Your
attitude and focus play important roles in all life experiences. You cannot escape your life and what is. You
are meant to experience the lesson; how long you hold onto the pain is a
choice. That is up to you and your focus
can change when you decide that it is time to move on.
Do not
focus on what is missing, focus on what you have. Pay heed to all the little things in life
that are working even when they are hard to find, for they are still
there. Your focus amplifies what is.
With practice, this focus gets easier and easier. It does take work to become
accustomed to how the mind operates but it is no different that muscle memory. Practice makes perfect.
Don’t
forget, you are not your mind. You are the one listening to it.
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