SELF-COMMITMENT

Does it always seem to be about what others need? 

 

What about your needs? 

 

In reality, you always have choices.  You make the decisions in your life and no one else can make them for you.  This does not mean that others or guilt will not influence your decision making. 

 

You can say no when you don’t agree, and at that point, you may have a choice to walk away or agree to disagree. 

 

We are not suggested that there will not be circumstances in life when you do not have a choice or when something is forced on you. This is when you have a choice to resist or accept especially with your attitude.

 

You are important and should not always be last when making decisions or choices.  Yes; we may have children and perhaps parents and a partner to concern ourselves with but we also need to look after our own needs and wants. 

 

To be comfortable in life, you must stand up for your needs.  You matter and your mental and physical health is your responsibility.

 

It is time to take a stand and ensure your self-commitment. Your peace of mind and your needs must be attended to before you can truly help anyone else. Take a deep look within. Acknowledge your needs and then follow through on them.  You matter!

 

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Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our fall course is now underway. Watch for announcements in late Winter for our Spring courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

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ENERGY VAMPIRES

Some of us live in a very toxic environment.  We may be in regular contact with people that know nothing more than to take and take and take. This can be challenging to say the least and it may be difficult for some of us to recognize that we may even carry some of their energy. 

 

There are many individuals that are high maintenance mainly because they are not willing to do the work themselves.  It takes courage and dedication to tackle some of life’s issues, but in the end, we, ourselves, must fix our problems, and we cannot and should not rely on others.  For those that have become reliant on you to do the work for them, it may be time that you make an adjustment and let them know that they must be willing to do the work themselves, as no one else can do it for them.

 

For those that are clinging and have become dependent on you, by stepping back you are helping them find independence. You are denying them self-reliance and the confidence that self-reliance provides. No one can do the work for others. We can only support them in their decisions and sometimes plant a seed that may guide them in a better, easier direction.

 

If you feel drained and all of your energy is sucked out of you, you had better take some time to work on healing yourself.  You cannot feed anyone from an empty pantry.

 

You do not help someone by giving them all the answers or trying to do their personal work for them.  You are standing in the way of their growth and recovery.  Over time, you may be creating a dependent and hurting yourself by becoming a victim.  It is not being selfish to take a break from serving others for your own sake or to break free of energy vampires that would drain you fully of your energy.

 

Do an internal audit. Do something you enjoy. Where might you want to focus next? 

 

You DO need time for yourself.  We all need a little bit of space.  Take this space and fulfil your own needs too. 

 

If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com

 

Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our spring classes have now commenced.  Watch for announcements for our fall classes in the future. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

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