Separation

Are you recently separated or are you contemplating making a change in your matrimonial status.  All relationships have their benefits and their struggles but each of your relationships are worthy of further consideration.  In many cases, the complications that hinder the relationship can be solved through communication, but these complicated issues must be approached from all sides.  Both parties must have equal rights when it comes to expressing their concerns and choices, and both parties must be willing to sit down and discuss all issues.

There are periods in all relationships where working out solutions is a necessary ingredient for the relationship’s longevity and survival.  Both parties should be willing to make changes.  A relationship is give and taken.  It is imperative to realize, if the relationship is worth saving, that acceptance of the other and their ways, good or bad, is necessary.  We cannot “expect” others to change for us.  We accept them for who they are. 

First, and always foremost, examine what you can do to make the connect function more smooth.  If both parties are willing to look at alternatives and make changes to themselves and to restore harmony, the relationship will have the potential to reach new heights now and in times to come.

On the other hand, if one or both individuals are not willing to make the required changes to restore the relationship and promote potential growth, then perhaps it is best that both individuals mutually decide to go their separate ways.  There is always a resolution and if the terms are not acceptable, it is impossible to resolve the differences.  To live life frustrated or stifled, only hinders personal growth and future potential.  Before making this permanent leap, be sure that you have earnestly pursued every available avenue to preserve your relationship.

 

Change can be difficult and frightening regardless of what the changes may be.  If alterations are required in your life style, internal changes also need to take place.  Expose the causes to the problems associated with this relationship and be sure that you do not move into the next phase of life without making those required changes.  Without taking some responsibility, undoubtedly the same issues will present themselves again and again.  The next presentation may be on a different level but it will undoubtedly be far more severe and the ramifications will far outweigh any previous experience.

If the time has come to move in a new direction with your life with or without your current partner, move into your life’s next chapter with the knowledge and willingness to learn from previous circumstances.  Move forward with confidence of self and with knowledge of lessons well learned.  Let go of resentment, as it harbours only negativity in your life.  A new chapter is on the horizon for everyone and there are always opportunities for growth and a chance to instill love into your life.  Accept this.  Life is always ready to lift you up and away from all of your anxiety.  The next phase of your life is only a step away.      

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