THE BE ALL FOR EVERYONE

In the past, the be all for everyone would most likely be a woman but in recent years, this applies to men as well.

 

Theses individuals are the  caretakers of family, the helpers of friends, the worker that takes on any task, and the list goes on (and we are speaking of one individual doing all these tasks).

 

Most of us live busy lives and it is hard enough to take care of our own needs, never mind the needs of family, friends, co-workers, etc.  Life can be a struggle at the best of times as we find that there are not enough hours in a day to do what we feel needs to be done.  For many, this can take a heavy toll on them emotionally, physically and mentally. Not knowing how or where to say “no” causes worry, anxiety and stress which serves little purpose other than to cause dis-ease.

 

Are you one of these people? 

 

Do you find that you are running around for everyone else and have little time for yourself?

 

Perhaps it is time to review your priorities. Can the kids drop one activity, can everyone chip in with the housecleaning and yardwork, can another co-worker step up for the overtime, etc?

 

What is pressing and what is not?

 

Ask for assistance!  Take that 10-minute break to sit and meditate, take a walk in nature or around the block. Make a plan and go out on that date night.

 

Make yourself a priority. It may take a little time to begin to feel the effects. There is always a way to work it in.

 

There is a resolution to your stress and feelings of being overwhelmed. You must make yourself a priority. Make the time for you. You and your health are important.  Do it!

 

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Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings

 

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FLEXIBLE DEMEANOR

How do you present yourself to the public?

 

Do you project confidence?

 

Perhaps you are a gentle individual who does not like strife or aggression. Perhaps, on the opposite side of the coin, you come across as aggressive or a force to be reckoned with or perhaps you are somewhere in between.

 

We are not always who we project ourselves to be. Sometimes the way we project ourselves to the world is nothing like who we are inside but how we think we should be.

 

There are times when the gentle, passive individual needs to be assertive to get things moving. There are times when the more assertive individual needs to soften their approach to be heard.

 

If you know that the time is ripe for advancement, you may have to use a more assertive demeanor, but this can be uncomfortable. However, if the time has come and your more aggressive interaction has only alienated you or put things on hold, it might be time to step back and let someone else take a leading role or pursue a more gentle approach. 

 

Sometimes we must make a shift to our demeanor and project ourselves in a more appropriate manner, whatever that manner may be. This may go against your normal approach but be flexible and shift when needed.

 

Read the situation, know your audience and be flexible with your demeanor.

 

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Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Registration for our fall classes is now complete. Watch for announcements for our spring courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

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HOW PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE LEAD TO GROWTH & EXPANSION

So, you have been working very hard to achieve your goals, but they are not working out the way you had hoped.

 

Perseverance and patience are hard lessons. You may feel things are moving too slow or not moving ahead at all.

 

Not only are you learning patience, but hopefully you are also learning how to be calm with this journey (this too can be challenging).

 

Being agitated or aggressive serves no productive purpose when events are not working the way you had hoped. It only stresses you, possibly hurts those around you and achieves nothing productive.

 

When we are frustrated, we must take a step back. Recognize the valuable lessons we are learning as everything happens for a reason and utilize these tools we have learned to use. You will find that although things move slower than you may have wanted, you do eventually reach your goals if they are realistic, you did your due diligence and put in the effort required.

 

Learning perseverance, patience, resilience and willpower and recognizing your own strengths may be the expansive results of your efforts. Know when to advance and stay focused.  Know when to be patient and when to address the issue head on.

 

You will learn much from each journey and goal.  You will be better equipped from the lessons learned. Growth and expansion along with valuable insight are often the side-shoots to these more challenging events and goals. Be a patient student and you will certainly gain from your experience.

 

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Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings

 

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PERSEVERANCE

Do you have tenacity to just keep going no matter what you face or do you lack determination and drive?

 

In reality, giving up on living is not an option if we want to live life.  We can and must learn each lesson that is in front of us. It does take determination, but we cannot allow the pressures of life to rob us of the right to live.

 

There are many events in life where we do not have a choice if we learn the lesson or not. Some events may not have a resolution (that fits into our idea of a positive outcome). We wage wars sometimes and the battles cannot be won. Resistance to change is futile. That is when we can adjust simply by changing our outlook on the change. Letting go is not giving up. There are times when letting go is the intelligent route to take. Holding on can create stress and disease and we generally hold on because of a mental concept we are also holding on to or we simply fear the unknown. Our mental attitude can be our own worst enemy.

 

Persistence and drive or allowing events to unfold are choices that we must make. Although the road ahead may seems bleak, we do not know what is on the other side of a life lesson. 

 

There are times when we seem to have to reach bottom and nothing more could possibly go wrong. We feel deflated and overwhelmed (but isn’t this when we stop resisting?). It is then that there seems to be a shift and we find the resolve to stand back up and subconsciously say, “I understand now”.

 

Persistence, determination, but also perseverance are invaluable. You are worth it! All things are temporary, but the tools obtained from the lessons learned are irreplaceable.

 

Recognize your strength, your resolve, your abilities, your value.

 

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Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings

 

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Registration for our fall classes is now complete. Watch for announcements for our spring courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

 

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LIFE’S TEACHINGS (Lessons)

We have all heard the old saying that the hard lessons are the ones we remember. During the smooth times it seems there are few lessons to learn but why is this so?

 

Do we just float through the good times without recognizing they are blessings?

 

Can we learn from our positive experiences or does life have to be challenging for us to recognize our lessons?

 

If we realize how fortunate we are and appreciate our life’s experience (challenging or not), lessons are still being taught. We know the value of appreciation. We recognize the abundance that flows from these periods and are grateful. This too is a valuable lessons and teaches us to appreciate what life sends our way.

 

Let’s give the same amount of focus to these easy flow periods as we do to our challenging periods.

 

In knowing and understanding that the flow of life does change with the amount of focus we give to certain events in our lives, it is important to pay closer attention to what we refer to as “good times”.

 

Energy grows and focus builds. I believe we have acknowledged a valuable lesson today!

 

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