As we age, more frequently, many of our relatives and some friends have passed over. Some of us can feel lost without our significant other or parents or child, etc. It can be very hard to climb out of the pit of despair and we can get caught up in what used to be. Perhaps the hardest thing is acceptance of the loss of our hopes, dream and plans involving the loved one that passed from this physical plain.
When someone has moved on and no longer shares this physical existence with us, we can ask ourselves what that individual would have us do. Would they want us to be trapped in the past?
Would they
really want us to suffer because of their graduation from this earthy existence?
It is
perfectly normal to grieve our loss. Grief is a human experience. We each must
experience the grieving process to move forward. However, holding on to this darkness
and experiencing the pain perpetually is not healthy. We are here to live and
to experience. Death is part of this experience.
For those
that have a spiritual inclination, we believe that those that have left us are
always nearby energetically. We may not
be able to see them, (although there are exceptions), but we instinctively know
that they are still with us perhaps on another plain of existence. Many of us accept the concept of life after
death and believe that we will all meet again, so the pain of separation is
only temporary.
Moving
beyond grief is essential to living. Those that have passed before us undoubtedly
want the best for us while we are still in this earth plain. They would want us to lovingly let go, to appreciate
what we had and celebrate our experiences with them, not mourn them.
Relive the
memories, celebrate and honour their lives but remember to also live your own life. Find peace in knowing your loved ones have
completed their earthly lessons and have moved on to their next stage of
existence.
I hear a
whisper in the wind that says, “Until we meet again, live your life to the
fullest. Remember, I am always with you”.
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